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POPECK Dr. John H. Popeck Dr. John H. Popeck (Jack), 76, a life long educator who worked as Dean of Students at Northern Virginia Community College, Alexandria campus died June 8, 2008 at his home in Springfield, Virginia surrounded by his loving family. Dr. Popeck was born Easter Sunday, March 27, 1932 to Peter and Agnes Popeck of Clintonville, Wisconsin. He attended St. Rose Elementary School and Clintonville High School where he was active in debate team, drama and athletics; earning all conference designation for football. He continued his football and academics at the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point (then Stevens Point Teachers College) graduating with a Bachelor of Science degree and earning all conference status for football in 1953. Upon graduation he was drafted in the US Army and was stationed in Korea. In addition to his Army duties, Dr. Popeck served as a volunteer English teacher to Korean children. After his honorable discharge in 1955, Dr. Popeck began his professional career as an educator at Pulaski High School where he taught English and coached football and baseball. Following 13 years of dedicated service, he accepted a scholarship grant and earned a Masters of Science Degree in Counseling from California State University, Los Angeles in 1968. A Kellogg Fellowship led Dr. Popeck to the University of Florida where, in 1971, he received his Doctorate of Education in Educational Administration The summer of 1971 brought Dr. Popeck to Northern Virginia Community College (NVCC) as the Coordinator of Counseling for the Alexandria campus then located in warehouses near Baileys Crossroads. He was promoted to Dean of Student Services and served in that capacity until he retired in 1997. Dr. Popeck was involved in the community of Springfield where he coached youth sports for many of his six children. Active in his church, he taught CCD for 18 years and served as a lector. He was also past president of the St. Bernadette School Home and School Guild. In his retirement, Dr. Popeck enjoyed spending time with his grandchildren, playing Senior Softball and working out in the gym. He volunteered at Lee District RECenter in Fairfax County where he was recognized as Volunteer of the Year in 2001. Dr. Popeck is survived by his wife of fifty years, Rose Popeck; children Peggy Byers and husband Mike, Peter and wife Christine, Mary Kay Popeck Snow and husband Steve, Jane Popeck, Amy DiGiulian and husband John; sister Mary Lowney and husband Roger. He is preceded in death by sons Christopher and infant Joseph, brother Joseph Popeck, sister Dorothy Olsen, and parents Peter and Agnes Popeck. Dr. Popeck is also survived by grandchildren Joey, Charlie and Shelby Byers; Jack, Maggie and Rosie DiGiulian; Jackson and Nicholas Popeck; Ari and Jeremiah Snow and many other loving relatives and friends. Viewing will be at St. Bernadette Catholic Church, Old Keene Mill Rd., Springfield, VA 10 a.m. until time of Mass of Christian Burial, 12:30 p.m., followed by burial at Fairfax Memorial Park, Braddock Rd, Fairfax, VA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Sara Plavchan Rehab Fund, c/o Stephen and Laurie Plavchan, 6300 Julian St., Springfield, VA, 22150. Arrangements by Demaine Funeral Home in Springfield.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 15, 2008.

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Amy

March 30, 2021

Hey Papa, It's a few days after your birthday and we are in Holy Week. I always thought it was so cool that you were born on Easter. Just another thing that made you so unique!
I miss you every day. Little Rosie and I prayed for you this morning while I was driving her to work. Actually Dad, she drove! She has her Learners Permit now so please watch over her!!
Kids are growing so fast. I do at times long for when they were little. But still, so blessed to be able to watch them grow and mature. I've included a picture of Peanut (Little Rosie) when she was 2. You were her best friend! She could always put a smile on your face even when you were the sickest. She has mom's spark that way!
Keeping a loving eye on mom for you. We miss you terribly but are felt around us at all times.
I love you Papa. Amy

Jane

March 27, 2021

Happy Birthday Dad! Love and mid you always!

rosie

March 27, 2021

Happy birthday Jack. I miss you and love you so much , I am
Very grateful for our wonder life we shared! Xoxo

Rosie Popeck

June 9, 2020

Yesterday was your anniversary , gathered at mass said for you and to the cemetery. You are always in our hearts . Rosie , our granddaughter arranged the flowers. so pretty! We miss you and have so many memories. said prayers for you and Chris. Xoxo Rosie

Rosie popeck

April 15, 2020

April 15, My dear Jack, sorry I am late with a Easter Wish. We are all just staying home due to the pandemic The kids are so protective, I do go for long walks in the neighborhood every day All Easter services where on line. We made a basket for each family and I ran them to the door with a face mask on. So different his year. I hope and pray we will get back to normal soon. Think of you each day and remember our fun times with our family. Love and miss you.

Rosie Popeck

December 3, 2019

Today is Chris' birthday , Peter, Chrissy and Jane came for his Mass. MK planned to come but Jacqueline was sick. Jane and I went to the cemetery and cleaned the Markers and decorated for Christmas. Thanksgiving was great as usual, so much food. We miss you and Chris and talked of past memories. How Blessed we all are to have memories, you are so loved. Rosie

Rosie popeck

June 12, 2019

Peter joined me for a Mass said on your 11th anniversary, I went out to the cemetery, freshened up the markers and flower, prayed. Miss you and Chris. Rest in peace my love. You were in my dream the other early morning, you looked so good and told me I looked good. I loved hearing your voice. xoxo



rest in peace my love.

Niki Neal

June 10, 2019

To the Popeck family. On this recent anniversary of his passing, Dr. Popeck still remains in the hearts of all he touched especially his NOVA family. I will always remember his zest for life, love of God and family, and that melodious voice as he would walk the halls to assist students. What a man and forever friend. May his legacy of kindness and God's love reign in each of us.

Rosie Popeck

March 27, 2019

I JUST CANCELED MY MESSAGE BY MISTAKE. hAPPY bIRTHDAY DEAR jACK yOU ARE IN ALL OUR THOUGHTS TODAY. cHRISSY JOINED ME FOR mASS, pETER CALLED,pEGGY PPOSTED A WONDERFUL PHOTO OF YOU. aMY Amy is thinking of you all day, Jane, MK, Jacqueline, Rasad, and me freshened up the markers with new flowers. you are so loved, xoxo

rosie popeck

February 11, 2019

Valentine's day is coming up and just want to wish my " valentine forever" a special prayer. xoxo

Rosie Popeck

December 23, 2018

My dear Jack, today is the eve of Christmas Eve, so Jane and I are busy getting things wrapped up. The Snow family are in Washington state with Steve's family. His Mom is 92 so it' nice that all her kids will be there. Peggy and Mike and family are not coming this, Jane and I brought their gifts down to them. Peggy had surgery and is doing well but not to travel. We will have the rest of the family here for Christmas dinner. Always so fun when we are all together. We miss you and Chris, every day and think of you. I am so grateful to our Lord for you and this amazing family. xoxo

rosie popeck

June 8, 2018

Today is your tenth anniversary. Mary Kay, Jeremiah, Rashad and Jane joined me for a Mass said in your honor. Than out to the cemetery to freshen up the flowers. "we are better people for loving you and being loved by you" So true my Love. xoxo

rosie popec k

April 2, 2018

Dear Jack, Peter stopped by so I lost the message I was writing. We had a nice Easter, we missed you and Chris. Did all the traditional activities. Big dinner, egg hunt and Birthday party. xoxo

rosie popeck

March 27, 2018

Happy Birthday, Honey. 86 years ago you were born on Easter Sunday. The Snow family met me at Mass and we went to clean up and decorate your marker and sing and pray. We miss you and think of you so often. Love forever Rosie

rosie popeck

December 30, 2017

my dear Jack, Holiday time again, a little different this year, The Snow family spent ten days at a resort, Jane and I had an early Christmas with their family. Always fun. Kathleen is doing okay, getting used to life without her Jim. He passed in Oct. Mary, is going thru the same thing as this is the first Christmas without Roger. You are remembered by so many, Honey, I love it when people come up with a reminder of you. I know how Blessed we, our family, have been to have you as our leader. You are missed by all. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

November 18, 2017

My dear Jack, preparing for Thanksgiving , the usual menu, the kids all bring food and will all help. Head count 22. You and Chris will be missed, we are so thankfull for you and miss you, XOXO

rosie popeck

August 2, 2017

Happy Anniversary to us. It''s been a day of remembering and being grateful to our Lord. Peter and Chrissy, Jane and Mary Kay and the little one came to Mass, that meant a lot. I feel very Blessed with the life I have . I miss you, your face and your words. The memories are blessings. xoxo, Rosie

July 13, 2017

Just got back from the beach house. The Jacques joined us, all there but Joey and Charlie. So it was 23 family members. Such fun, fishing, swimming, games, celebrated three birthdays. a great dance party and 1000 piece puzzles going on all the time. Each family taking a turn for dinner prep made for good eating. A huge success. You and Chris were missed. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

June 8, 2017

My dear jack, today is your ninth anniversary. You are missed. And remembered by all , Today's mass was said in your honor, peter, me and Mary Kay' and three of her kids went to the cemetery for cleanup and prayers You are loved, xoxo, Rosie

rosie popeck

March 25, 2017

My dear Jack, getting a jump on your birthday - 1932 was a good year for good men, we got the best. You are so admired by your children and grands and, of course, me. I will always remember "us". xoxo Rosie

rosie popeck

February 21, 2017

February flying by, thought of you on valentine's day and remembered all your cards, flowers and gifts. You always made me feel special. thanks, xoxo

Rosie Popeck

December 28, 2016

My Dear Jack, Thinking of you this holiday season. All the church and family gatherings bring up old memories. Loving you so much, xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

December 3, 2016

Dear Jack, Just posted a birthday message for Chris. Can.t believe this is his 45th. I love and miss you too. Rosie

Rosie Popeck

November 4, 2016

My dear Jack, A beautiful Fall day. All souls day, Nov. 2, an evening Mass was said to remember the faculty, students and families of St. Bernadette. Our grandson, Nick [8th grader] read yours and Chris' names. He did such a good job. Mary Kay, Jane and Peter attended with me, it was lovely. We miss you. Love, Rosie

rosie popeck

August 2, 2016

my dear Jack, Today is our 58th wedding anniversary. I am so grateful for our wonderful life together, our family and all that goes with having kids, grandchildren and friends. I miss your face, your words and how you often sang along with the radio, etc. The memories make me smile. I have been so Blessed. I love you, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

June 8, 2016

My dear Jack, today marks eight years since your passing. Peter, Jane, Mary Kay and Jacqueline joined me for Mass, said in your honor. Father Larson said, I was in the office having a mass scheduled for next year," Jack had a good life". I of course agreed, because of you, Honey, we all had a good life. You loved us well and I am so thankful. You are missed. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

May 13, 2016

My dear Jack, We celebrated you at a 50 year anniversary of Alex. Campus NVCC . The kids and I felt such pride.
It was a wonderful evening of remembering and seeing past friends and co workers. Love, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

March 30, 2016

Dear Jack, Easter time, we celebrated on your 84th birthday with all the family. The usual tradition, Mass, dinner, egg hunt and the birthdays of Ari, Jad, and Mike. We miss you, we love you, we remember. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie popeck

March 30, 2016

My dear Jack, Easter season , We celebrated Sunday, your 84th birthday, along with, Ari Jad and Mike. I know you were born on Easter How special. You are missed, loved and remembered. xoxo Rosie

rosie popeck

February 15, 2016

Dear Jack, Yesterday was valentines day and I received bouquets of roses from the families. I appreciate your good example, "roses for Rosie". My valentine forever. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

December 29, 2015

Dear Jack, Christmas season and thoughts of you and Chris are in our heads and hearts. So many wonderful memories! I am so very grateful. xoxo, Love, Rosie

December 3, 2015

My Dear Jack, Thanksgiving was great with 23 of us enjoying good food, good friends and laughs. Many of us gathered for Mass. After dinner
We went around and said what we are thankful for, we used an ice cream scoop as a microphone, pretty funny. Thoughtful, sweet and sincere comments - just like always. Today is Chris' forty fourth birthday, Jane & Chrissy met me for Mass, Jane and I went out and put out fresh arrangements on yours and Chris' grave. Saturday there is a mass for Chris, we will come back to the house to decorate the tree {grandkids do a good job}, another tradition! Loving and missing you!!xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

November 7, 2015

My dear Jack, Missing my guys, you and Chris. Tonight we gather at the Snows' for the Oct. Nov. birthday party. Next weekend all the girls are going to a lake house to celebrate Jane's 50th. Hard to believe our little Janie is going to be fifty. We are doing well. Today I sat through drizzle for Jeremiah's last soccer game for this season. They won. The things we do for those we love. I love you. Rosie

rosie popeck

August 2, 2015

Dear Jack, today is our57th anniversary. I had a lovely day , Mary Kay, Ari, Jeremiah and Rashsad met me at Mass. My prayers were all about thanksgiving for our wonderful life. How blessed all of us are to have had you in our lives, you loved us well. I had dinner at Peter and Chrissy's along with Jackson and Nick. I love our family. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

June 22, 2015

My Dear Jack, Yesterday was Father's Day. Amy and Jad hosted the celebration for the young dads and a couple birthdays. All our dads were in our thoughts, my Dad, your Dad, and you the Dad of our precious family. The grandchildren had such fun and were so fun to watch, our riches. I am so blessed. xoxo, Rosie

rosie popeck

June 7, 2015

My dear Jack, Just got home from a celebration in your honor. Went to 5pm Mass, said for you, then to the cemetery for prayers, Peter played Amazing Grace on his sax, it is powerful on a clear day how the music carries. Then we stopped for pizza. Your presence was felt. You are remembered with so much love. xoxo Rosie
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Rosie Popeck

April 6, 2015

My dear Jack, We celebrated your birthday with a mass said in your honor. Some of the kids came and then to the cemetery with fresh flowers. You were in our thoughts and in our conversation. Easter was special as all of our kids and grandchildren were here for the day. Such fun, egg hunt, decorated eggs and lots of running around and visiting. A total of 28, we had several guests. I miss you, we all do. You are never far from my thoughts. Spring is here, so glad. Love, Rosie

Jacko 14, MagPie 13, Rosie 9

Amy Popeck DiGiulian

February 28, 2015

Dad, it's the wee hours of the morning and I'm having difficulty sleeping. My health has been pretty shaky lately. But I'm sure you already know that. Mom prays for me constantly and I'm sure beckons you to intercede on my behalf. She's still so awesome like that dad!! You can always count on mom for prayers!
I will say, I've been feeling a little overwhelmed lately and sure could use a hug from my Pops. I miss you so much. I'm nearly 48 years old and I still need my dad. How about that?
I think of you every day! You would have been so proud of your Jacko. He made it to Regionals in wrestling and although he didn't fare well, his effort and determination will make things happen in his next three years of high school.
Oh, your sweet MagPie... Dad, she's growing into this young woman!? You wouldn't believe it. She's so very compassionate and when I'm ill, she takes such good care of me.
Your little Peanut, your Rosey Posey. Not looking so little anymore. She's nearly as tall as I am! I recall no matter how sick you felt Pops, she could bring a smile to your face. I can see you know, shaking your head, smiling and saying "sucha sucha". She carries your spirit with her wherever she goes. She always has a song on her lips and a smile for all whom she encounters. She is such a blessing. All three of them are. I so wish you could be here with me so I could watch you enjoy them as you did so very much when they were little. Time is just marching on...To use your words, "where has the time gone?"
I suppose I should try and get some rest. The repercussions are hell! :-)
Pray for me dad, that in the face of my illness, I can be like you. And I know, mine is not nearly close to what you experienced but I fear that I'm not as strong as you. Help me to be strong!! My kids need their mama. But I know I (we) will get through it. Jad and the rest of the family are a constant support. And after all, I am a 'Mighty, Mighty Popeck!'
Thanks for staying so close to me and loving me unconditionally. You are the best dad a girl could ever ask for! So really... I am the luckiest girl around!!!
I love you Papa. Thanks for the hug.
XOXO Amy

rosie popeck

February 16, 2015

Dear Jack, my valentine everyday, remembering our special love! love, Rosie

rosie popeck

December 27, 2014

my dear jack, wishing you many Christmas blessings during this holy season. So many precious memories. We all gathered for mass and here for baby Jesus birthday party, next day, big dinner and presents, Wonderful fun. love, Rosie

rosie popeck

December 2, 2014

This fall is flying by,halloween. Was fun, thanksgiving was great and tomorrow ls chris birthday. I miss our precious boyi find comfort in knowing you are looking after both of them. Missing you and loving you. Always. Rosie

Rosie Popeck

November 2, 2014

My dear Jack, Halloween was our usual fun time with the kids and their kids here for an early supper. We had 125 "treaters". Took the annual picture but we no longer fit on the couch so we gathered on the deck, our grands are getting so big. Tomorrow night is the Memorial Mass for the deceased teachers and alumni of St Bernadette School. A time to thank God for our precious Chris. Also, for you, each day! love Rosie

rosie popeck

August 2, 2014

Dear Jack, lToday is our 56th anniversary. So many memories and I am so grateful for everyone. Thank you for all the love and care, fun and laughs. I love you, Honey. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

June 8, 2014

dear Jack, You are consuming my thoughts as today is the 6th anniversary of your passing. As I ruminate and remember our years together I feel immense gratitude for all our Blessings. We the family celebrate you we love and miss you. Always,Rosie

rosie popeck

March 27, 2014

Happy Birthday Honey, Today we are thinking of you,missing you and loving you. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

February 14, 2014

my dear jack, my forever valentine. Thinking of you this day, loving and missing you. xoxo rosie

Rosie Popeck

December 26, 2013

Here it is the day after Christmas. Visions of our wonderful past holidays dance in my head, How blessed we have been. Loving you and missing you. Rosie

rosie popeck

November 24, 2013

My dear Jack, The holiday season is fast approaching and you and,us, our family, is on my mind. I love you, I miss you and I remember.
I thank God for our blessings. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

June 8, 2013

My dear Jack,It has been five years today since you left this earth. Jane and I went out to clean the markers and put out fresh flowers. Tomorrow, Sunday, we will meet for mass said in your honor and then continue with the celebration with song, prayer and memories at the cenetery, Peter will play his sax. We love you, we honor you, we miss you. xoxo, Rosie

March 28, 2013

My dear Jack, We celebratad your 81st birthday yesterday. We attended a mass said in your honor, off to the cemetery to bring fresh flowers for you nd Chris, we sang and prayed and talked of our love. I was invited to a luncheon with NOVA friends at Goss's home, very special. At Mass, Fr. acknowledged your longtime in the parish and that you were missed, later in confessional, my confession, he said how he recalls your wonderful reading at the Vigil,for so many years You are remembered, missed and loved. I am so proud.xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

February 14, 2013

My Dear Jack, You are my Valentine every day. I remember your thoughtful, sweet espressions, making me feel so very special. I love you and miss you. xoxo Rosie

Nighat Sabir

February 11, 2013

I miss you! I've been thinking about you. I was remembering the times I worked with you on Saturdays. May you Rest in Peace. You are always in my thoughts and my heart.

Rosie Popeck

December 3, 2012

My dear Jack, Today is Chris' birthday (41) can hardly believe it. You are on our minds. We love and miss you. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

November 3, 2012

My dear Jack, Yesterday was All Souls so you, Chris and Joseph are very much in our thoughts. Last night a Mass for all the students, teachers, staff, and priest over all the years who have passed. The girls and I went, so many faces, it was very touching. Halloween was our usual, fun, noisy evening.
The kids and grandkids came for dinner, dressed for the occasion. Took the traditional picture with me on the couch surrounded by a pile of kids. I love it, I love you and miss you. I feel so blessed. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

July 25, 2012

My dear Jack, Tomorrow I fly to Wisconsin for a twelve day vacation. You are in my heart so you come with me. I love and miss you. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

June 8, 2012

My dear Jack, "those we love don't go away, They walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near, Still loved, still missed and very dear" It has been four years, you are loved, you are missed, you are remembered every day. You are my forever love. xoxo, Rosie

;Rosie Popeck

May 13, 2012

My dear Jack, Today is Mother's day. I met Peter, Chrissy, Jackson and Nick at mass. We will all gather at Peter and Chrissy's home for brunch, using all your recipes, keeping up the "Jack Popeck Mother's day brunch" tradition. Yesterday was Jeremiah Snow's First Communion Day and tomorrow is Rashad's third birthday,another celebration. You and Chris are always part of our celebrations. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

March 30, 2012

My dear Jack, Computer was down but now I can talk about your birthday. We all remembered and thought of you. The girls and I went to your mass and to the cemetery, cleaned up and put out fresh flowers for you and Chris. You are both missed and loved. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

December 28, 2011

My dear Jack, Holiday season all around, the usual wonderful-ness, we remenisce, we smile, sometimes laugh, we feel sad but we are so very grateful for our precious memories. We miss you, we love you!! xoxo Rosie

Rosie popeck

November 27, 2011

My dear Jack, This is the first sunday of Advent. Thanksgiving was just a couple days ago. It ws a wonderful day starting with Mass and then a big turkey dinner with all the trimings, just like you enjoyed. You and Chris are always on our minds and in our hearts. An entry made by a former student, Viet Cao, Nov. 14th, is so touching - a reminder of what an incredible Dean you were. I am so proud and touched. I miss you. my forever love, xoxo Rosie

Viet Cao

November 14, 2011

Dr. Popeck, I hope you remember a little Vietnamese student tried to get his life together in 1989. I came to your office and search for direction, I went in for my appointment, you said I have 5 minutes, I did not know where to start with only 5 minutes then I was totally being honest and tell you about my immature situation and words keep pouring out then I had to stop for your next appointment, however, you went out of your way and ask me if I was free for the next hour and join you for lunch in cafeteria. So we met and you were so kind to listen to my problem with passion and understanding, and so, I have taken every piece of your advise and do exactly that, I have earned an 3.8 GPA on that semester and never looked back for the next 2 years, then I went on to transfer to GMU and majored in Marketing. I have traveled back and forth to my country to work on a few opportunities the developing country has offered. I know that God has created a man like you for his purpose and I knew your existence in this word was the resemblance of loving, caring, helping just exactly the ways God wants us to be. May God be with Mrs. Popeck and your beloved family each and everyday, may your soul rest in peace in God loving arms.
Viet Cao

Rosie Popeck

August 2, 2011

My dear Jack, Today is our 53rd anniversary. Mary Kay, Amy and their kids joined me at Mass (said in our honor). We went out for bagels and than to the cemetery to visit and pray. The kids like to hear stories of our wedding day, when we were young, when they were little, etc. All the kids called to say they were thinking of us and they are all very glad we got married. Funny kids!! Jane said to me, you must be so happy , Mom, to know how much you are loved by such a wonderful man. Yes, I am happy and I know how Blessed I have been and continue be. I love you and miss you. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

June 8, 2011

My dear Jack, On this your third anniversary, my prayers are all about thanksgiving and appreciation for you, Jack, for us, for our love, our life together, our family and our Faith. We have been Blessed!! I miss your face, Jack, I miss your words-in many ways your are with me. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

March 28, 2011

My dear Jack,Yesterday was your 79th birthday, we all thought of you and went to a Mass said especially for you. On Saturday Jane and I went out to the cemetery with flowers and prayers. You are loved, xoxo. Rosie

Rosie Popeck

February 7, 2011

My dear Jack, Yesterday the Packers won the super bowl and you were in our hearts and on our minds. I remembered the first two super bowls won by the Packers, we watched the games at the Brezenski's. Our family was little and we were young. I miss you and think of you each day. xoxo, Love Rosie

Rosie Popeck

December 26, 2010

My dear Jack, Christmas time and we hads such a great time. I was so proud of the kids, they all got to Mass early so we were able to sit together, all 16 of us. We exchanged many memories and stories of times with you,Chris and the family. Precious memories. xoxo, Love, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

November 24, 2010

My dear Jack, Tomorrow is Thanksgiving day so I have been busy preparing food all weeki. So many memories come to mind of the days when we had a table of our little ones and we would all say what we were thnkfull for. Such tender moments to treasure forever. The other day the Snow boys and the DiGiulian kids came over for cookies and milk after school. They had such fun running aroun outside, from frontyard to backyaard. Anyway, the gates were open and Gus got out of the yard. We didn't notice at first but then M.K. took all the kids in the car and drove around for over 30 minutes. I told the kids to pray to St Anthony because he helps finds things. I was so worried as Gus has athritis and it has gotten worse. I prayed to our Blessed Mother and to you, Jack. I knew you would do whatever you could. It calmed me to know that. Well, Gus came home, limping. We all cheered. I thanked St Anthony, The BVM and You, Honey. I still need you, miss you and love you. xoxo, Rosie

Jack and Rosie's wedding day

jane popeck

August 5, 2010

Rosie Popeck

August 3, 2010

My dear Jack. Yesterday was our 52nd wedding anniversary. Jane and I went for rosary and mass, it was all about gratitude and thanksgiving for our wonderful life together. Jad and Jacko joined us for mass.Amy was working. Mary Kay and Steve had us over for dinner, Jeremiah and Ari gave me bouquets of flowers. Later, Amy came over with the kids and they had a bouquet of white roses and an anniversary balloon. So you see I am well cared for. I miss you, we all do, you are never far from our thoughts. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

June 8, 2010

My dear Jack, Today we celebrate you as this is your second anniversary. Sunday we gathered at your Mass and then to your grave for prayers and Amazing Grace played by Peter on sax.Jane wrote this pray we all said together."Lord, today we celebrate the life we had with our Dad, our grandpa, our father-in-law and husband. He was and will always be such an important, influential part of our lives. We are better people for having loved and been loved by him. Thank you for the gift of Jack Popeck and for all of those that we have loved and lost. All good things come from you Lord. We praise you and we thank You."It is with so much love that I share this with you. You are forever in our hearts. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

April 26, 2010

My dear Jack, Just posted a note for Chris. Really missing my guys tonight. Spring is here and so lovely, can't beat Virginia for green and bloom. My birthday is coming up, someone arranged to have the daily mass said for me. Will have to grill the kids to find out who is responsible . Amy and Jad invited everyone over for dinner, etc. to celebrate me and Chrissy. It's always such fun when we gather. You will be there in all of our thoughts. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

March 27, 2010

My dear Jack. God Bless you on your 78th birthday. We are gathering at the cemetery with flowers, songs and prayers. We all are so grateful that we have you to turn to when we need help. You always were my "dragon slayer". Father Pollard said we should asked our deceased loved ones for assistance- so that's why we call on you so often. You are loved and missed by us. We are rich with memories. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

February 15, 2010

My Dear Jack, Yesterday was Valentine"s Day, also Rosie Digiulian"s fifth birthday. Our kids really came through with cards {sweet words], candy, etc. Peter's family sent flowers and in his note he wrote, "Mom, I fondly remember Dad getting so excited about Valentine's Day. While he showed his love for you every day, this day was always special. He loved you so much." I remember flowers and how you would sometime give me three or four cards because you liked what they expressed. What an example you are to our children. Thank you for that. You are my Valentine for all time. xoxo, Rosie

Peggy Byers

January 9, 2010

Dad, an email I got today made me laugh out loud and wish I could call you! Someone needs to change their First Eucharist date "for personal reasons." I know what a kick you'd have gotten out of that! You're never far from my thoughts and always in my heart.
Peggy

Amy Popeck Di Giulian

December 28, 2009

Hey Dad. Christmas had passed and todays our Charlie Bears 21st b-day. Hard to believe huh? Been think about you alot. More than usual. With Jads dad passing so recently, I find it's bringing up alot "stuff". Sometimes Pop, I miss you so much I actually kind of ache a bit. And the thing is, I am so glad that you are where you are and that you are warm and healthy and with my brothers, but still, this little girl could still use her dad around. There are still things I need to ask you. Tomorrow Jacko is going to serve with Fr. Pollard in a daily mass. He's so nervous and scared. I told him Fr. Pollard said that this was great practice and that You would be with him every step of the way. Wish you were here to tell us some funny altar boy stories. About you and Uncle John...See, I need you dad. We all need you. Moms right though. You're just the next thought away. So please, be with Jacko tomorrow. Guide him and continue to love him as you have these 9+ years. You are such an terrific grandfather. And an amazing dad as well. Goodnight Pops. God Bless and Keep you. (wet or dry ;)) Amy

Rosie Popeck

December 25, 2009

Dearest Jack, Creating memories as we gathered for Christmas eve and again today. All the usual wonderful commotion and good food. I love you and miss you. xoxo, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

August 12, 2009

My dear Jack, Yesterday was Peggy and Mike's 25th anniversary. I have such wonderful memories of their wedding, especially seeing our six children on the altar all dressed in their wedding finery. I remember feeling such pride and love, a full heart. I also pondered and remembered our 25th wedding anniversay. We took the family to Ocean City for a weeks vacation and celebrated. On the day of our anniversary, you and I went to mass, we had decided to write letters instead of exchanging card, and we stayed in church after mass and read our letters to each other. My letter was a page, yours was much longer and so loving, I remember feeling cherished. Precious memories. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

July 19, 2009

My dear Jack, We have been back from the beach for a week now. It was great fun and everyone was there at one time or another. You were spoken of and remembered by all of us. Even little Rosie said, "I miss, Pa". I'm leaaving for Wisconsin in a couple days for a two week visit. I carry you in my heart where ever I go. I miss you. xoxo Rosie

Rosie Popeck

June 21, 2009

My dear Jack, Happy Father's Day!! You have been on my mind this day especially as I remembered what a great and dedicated Dad you have been. We gathered and celebrated the young dads. You are a part of all occasions and I am so grateful that we are blessed to have had you in our lives. God has been good. My love always, xoxo Rosie

Peggy Byers

June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day, Daddy. Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you today and missing you.

Rosie popeck

June 8, 2009

My dear Jack, Today is your first anniversary, the family has spent the day together starting with mass, then the cemetery. Peter was unable to attend so he wrote a letter. After some prayers, Jane read Peter's note, "Memories, somehow the sweetest memories shine through the sadness. Family, A year has passed since we lost our leader and we have experienced a year of "firsts" without Dad. In that year I learned that I miss him terribly and long for a short conversation. I miss not being able to share my life with him. I have also learned that there are signs of Dad all around, especially in each other and our kids.. Thank you all for your love for me and my family. It is through that love and my memories of Dad that let me experience some of what I so sorely miss. I look forward to one day sitting down in heaven with Dad and having a long, long conversation. Love, Peter " You are in all of our thoughts as we begin another year. You are so present to us. It helps to feel you close. xoxo, Rosie

Peggy Byers

June 8, 2009

My dad was very good at crossword puzzles.
My dad took his coffee with cream and two sugars.
My dad sang all the time.
My dad and I used to listen to WMAL on the way to work.
My dad used to stir his ice cream.
My dad would tell me how disappointed he was when I brought home a bad report card.
My dad was very smart.
My dad sometimes shaved twice a day.
My dad was a good swimmer.
My dad liked mayonnaise and butter…sometimes together.
My dad used to fall asleep in front of the TV watching football.
My dad had long arms that he could wrap around six kids at a time.
My dad always looked at my children with great tenderness.
My dad was a good actor.
My dad used to dance in the kitchen with my mom.
My dad liked to mix his peas in with his mashed potatoes.
My dad always answered the phone like he was so happy to hear form you. Even if it was the middle of the night and you needed help with a flat tire.
My dad used to put salt in his beer and on his watermelon.
My dad always knew the right thing to say.
My dad snored really loud.
My dad thought my mom was really sexy.
My dad told me that if I wanted something bad enough I would find a way to make it happen. So I did.
My dad had a terrific laugh.
My dad was a good listener.
My dad had strong hands that made me feel safe when he held me.
My dad’s favorite joke must have been “Be Alert. America needs more Lerts” because he told it for 30 years.
My dad was an excellent lector. His voice sounded like I imagine God’s does.
My dad said his first grandson was the 8th most beautiful baby he’d ever seen.
My dad could do anything.
My dad was a catechist and a Confirmation sponsor.
My dad thought I was beautiful even before I got my braces.
My dad always got peanuts and Tums for Christmas.
My dad had infinite patience.
My dad thought we were the funniest, most talented kids ever. At least he acted like he did.
My dad used to wave and say “Thank you” to people who honked at him in traffic…repeatedly.
My dad always had time to hear what we had to say; from a scene by scene recount of Steve Martin’s movie “The Jerk”, to what happened at school that day, to the latest episode of “The Beverly Hillbillies.”
My dad used to work on the railroad during the summers.
My dad was compassionate.
When my dad read Reader’s Digest he used to read the funny parts out loud to whoever was in the room.
My dad trusted me.
My dad was a superhero.

“Please Lord, teach me to laugh again but God don’t ever let us forget that we cried. Amen”

Today is the first anniversary. I'm thinking about you and missing you, Daddy. xoxo

Rosie Popeck

April 29, 2009

Dear Jack, Yesterday was my birthday and the kids did a great job making me feel special. The banner was on the mantle, the balloons hung from the chandeleer, a cake was on the pedestelcake plate. Peter sent red roses. roses for Rosie, as he remembered his dad doing. You taught them well, Honey, by setting a loving example. I see your thoughtfullness, consideration and kindness in the actions of our kids. Maggie came in with a lovely bougquet of yellow and white flowers and said they were from Pa. I was surounded by love and felt happy. I do miss you though, you are my forever love. xoxo; Rosie

Rosie Popeck

April 11, 2009

Happy Easter dear Jack, Today is the Vigil of Easter and I remember how you lectored during the Vigil mass and with your clear godlike voice would part the waters. You read this for many years and people remark on your wonderful voice and how they could hear and understand every word. You are remembered by many. I also hear how you inspired others who have since begun to lector. I am so proud. Always have been, always will. Love, Rosie

Matt Greely

March 29, 2009

Uncle Jack:
I wish we could have spent more time together, but I will always remember your desire to connect with people. You didn't just go through the motions of having a conversation to "check it off your list of obligations". You were truly interested in what was going on in our lives. You had a way about you that was very warm and gentle, yet firm. Every time I read one of Aunt Rosie's notes, I am inspired to conduct myself in a more loving way. You and her as a couple have shown the people close to you how to raise a family. Your priorities were always with your kids. I pray for you and your family every week. Happy Birthday!! Love Matt

Rosie Popeck

March 27, 2009

Today we celebrate you, dear Jack, on your 77th birthday. We all remember you with such love. We met at Mass, Mary kay, Jane, Chrissy, Amy and Rosie posie and Jeremiah. Than off to the cemetery where we put flowers for you and Chris, prayed amd sang. The kids are coming over for pizza tonight, the dads can come too, after work. You blessed us all with your love, faith, fun spirit and taught each of us how to be a better person. You made it clear that we were your priority - what a gift- loving us so well. God Bless you, Jack, Love always, Rosie

Rosie Popeck

January 13, 2009

My dear Jack, The holidays have past and winter has set in. I find comfort in knowing you will be warm. As we gathered to celebrate we missed you so much. We all felt you near. This is our family that we raised with such love. As we often said, they are our riches. Many people made comments at Christmas Mass, knowing how much you were missed. It was fun watching the kids opening gifts, wrapping paper everywhere. I felt your love and support with me. My love and devotion alway, Rosie

mary mcgregor warren

August 11, 2008

I have know Dr. Popeck since I was 17 years old. I am now 55. I met him the first day of orientation when I entered NOVA. I wanted to tell Rose (who I email this same message to) and the kids how much an an impact he had to people outside the Popeck family. I'll never forget the man. He used to crack me up so much. His laugh, man it roared. When I was at NOVA as a student and later as an employee (over 20 years between the two) I could be way down a hallway and hear him laugh and I could identify him. "There's go Dr. Popeck, howling again". When I first met him (at the old warehouse) he reminded in appearance of Lou Grant the TV news boss on the "Mary Tyler Moore Show". Every so often he called me in his office (I was a bit of a trouble maker those early days). He's bellow, "MARY GET IN HERE!". And I said, "Oh Lou" and he start laughing up and wasn't mad anymore. Whew. But he was so warm and so sweet, though, I never feared him. He acted tough to get his point across but every one knew better. This was a softie. At the same time he had student's total respect. He was not a door mat and not afraid to you give you whatfor. But he aways GENUINELY cared. In my second year there I was the editor of the school paper and interviewed him on a number of occasions. He was smart and witty and knew his territory and loved what he was doing. In those interview I came to learn that he had this big family. Me too. I was one of 7 (my mom had seven of us in 6 1/2 years. Scots-Irish catholic and a set of twins to hurry things up - I am a twin). I told him of my large, catholic family and we were family from then on. For the next 20 years I ALWAYS enjoyed seeing him when I'd come to school/work. He would put his arm around your shoulder when he'd see you and look you in the eye whe he spoke with you. When he talked with you, if he saw you were upset he'd ask you if you were ok. He tell you if you ever needed to talk to come come see him. When I read Amy's entry about how lucky she felt to have him as a dad I thought, "yeah you were!" I mean, I have to fess up. I was so jealous at times as a kid that he was your dad. My dad had died when I was twelve and he too adored his kids. Dr. Popeck was the first man I had met since my dad's death that reminded me of what I was missing. So I wanted to tell you guys he was special. He was one of the good guys. I feel very fortunate to have had him in my life in any respects. My dean, and eventual co-worker and mentor and friend. What a good guy. What a great loss to us all! I too will miss him so much. Especially that laugh!

Amy Popeck-DiGiulian

June 22, 2008

Hey Dad, It seems so strange to think of you not here. I guess that's because you are very much still "with" us. I see you in the songs baby Rosie sings, the times Maggie pesters me for icecream (I really want to say no, but than she reminds me that her Pa would have said yes) and Jackos love for learning. I miss you so much Dad. Someimes I swear I can feel you right next to me. Are you here with me now Pops? I sure could use one of you hugs. You always had such a wondeful way of comforting me. Mom is doing well. Sad of course, but like all of us, we have so many wonderful memories to hold onto and cherish. You know Dad, we are so lucky to have had you. I know you know that and that you would probably say "No, I am the lucky one". But I truly feel that when it comes to you and mom, I was touched by the hands of God himself. Thanks Pop. I love you 20 80 50 100! XOXOAmy
Give heaven hugs to Joseph, Chris, and all the rest of the family and our friends.

Rosie Popeck

June 21, 2008

I miss you Jack, my sweet love, my husband and friend. I miss seeing your precious face looking at me. I feel your presence everywhere. My head is filled with rememberences of our life, my heart is filled with love. I am appreciative of our rich, fun life filled with children and grandchildren, extended family, and numerous friends. We were blessed! We called our grandchildren our riches and often said how we loved our life. I thank God for you each day. I sleep on your side of the bed and listen to the music of the 'Daughters of St. Paul'. This brings comfort to me. I miss you, Honey, I always will.

Gail (Matuszak) James

June 20, 2008

Dear Popeck Clan,
It's been year's since I've seen and talked to you all. I humbly apologize for letting the time slip away without any contact. I have such fond memories of your family, always showing so much love and caring not only for one another, but for your friends as well. I'll always remember Jack as the driving force behind his well-rounded and successful children. You all of a piece of him inside of you, and that's something no one else can feel or touch. It is your's and your's alone. Hold on tight! You are blessed to have a man who loved you all so much!

Rosie, one thing I will always remember is the way that Jack looked at you. He could look at you in such a way, you just knew how much he loved you. I was always a bit envious of that, wanting that same kind of longing/feeling for my parents. How lucky you were to have each other...

I am very saddened to know Jack is no longer here with us on this earth, but feel extremely confident and happy he has found his way to my dad! I'm sure they're sharing a few good stories right about now :o) I love you guys!

Scott Thorne

June 19, 2008

Mr Popeck was always one of my favorite people. I'll never forget his kindness, the love he showed his family, and his booming voice as he read at church. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Niki Neal

June 16, 2008

Dear Popeck family,

Thank you for sharing your dad with us, the NVCC - AL family. For me, Dr. Popeck will be remembered as having a can-do spirit, a listening ear and a song in his heart that he shared with all. May God continue to guide your family daily & know that Dr. P will forever be in your heart.

Matt Greely

June 16, 2008

To all the Popeck Family:
Uncle Jack was certainly a great example to all who came in contact with him. He sure demonstrated how to be a great dad, husband and grandpa. The Greely's have all good memories of times spent with the Popecks, largely due to him. He is a great example of a faithful person. One that, all of us would do well to model.

I wish we could be there to hug each one of you.

Mike & Corky Greely

June 16, 2008

Dear Aunt Rosie, Peggy, Peter, Mary Kay, Jane, Amy and Mary and Roger and all of your families,

We are with you today in our thoughts and prayers for Uncle Jack and all of you. Uncle Jack was very special to us and all of the Greelys. He was a true role model: as a man of God, as a husband, as a father, as a teacher and coach - he had such a positive influence on all of us and so many people. He left us with many great memories. He was a special man. We will miss him. Love from the Greelys.

Jane Popeck

June 15, 2008

Dad's didn't get better than mine. I miss you, Dad. Happy Father's Day.

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