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Harvey Eubanks Fayetteville Arkansas
December 7, 2021
Dear Ruth I just found out. Kirk had passed. I know its been years since we saw each other but I'm so sorry for your loss. Kirk and you are special to me. I remember all the fun we had on our trips together. My Naomi passed 6-27-2021 after a long battle with lupus. If you ever want to call me my number is 1 479 856 8367. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you're well.
chip brown
December 4, 2014
Dad,
It has been just over 3 months since you passing and I miss you more and more as time passes. I often find myself thinking about all of the wonderful time we spent together. I hope you know how much you have influenced my life. I would not be the person that I am today without your influence. I appreciate everything you have taught me. I find myself missing you even more right now with the holiday season in full bloom. This was always the time of year when our family looked forward to gatherings. It won't be the same this year without you. If i had one wish this holiday season it would be to spend just 1 more hour being with you. I miss you so much. I know you are happy where you are right now and that does bring relief to me. Take care dad, and always know how much i love you.
Love, Chip
P.s. fishing just isn't the same without you
September 5, 2014
I am saddened to hear of Kirk's passing. My love and prayers go out to you Ruth and your sweet family. I love you and please let me know how I can help you with anything. You and Kirk have been great friends and helped me so much with my conversion, and that I really appreciate. All my love from me and my girls.
September 3, 2014
I remember Kirk as a loving father and husband. He was a gat chef and always helped out at our Turf Equipment Company parties. Ruth, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids. Rebecca Crandall
Garry Muir
September 3, 2014
I am still in shock after hearing about Kirk from my son Brad. Kirk was a role model not only for my son but many other young men that played football and baseball and basketball. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Mary Jo Carlile
September 2, 2014
We were so sad to hear of Kirk's passing. It was a pleasure to work with him with the Hunter High Football Booster Club. He was instrumental in keeping that club alive 2000-2001. Lots of good memories of a good man.
JAY AND CORA CLEGG
September 2, 2014
RUTH,
OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS HARD TIME IN YOUR LIFE. HERE IS A THOUGHT THAT MIGHT HELP YOU THROUGH THIS TIME.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Jolene Daniels-Bishop
September 2, 2014
Kirk and I go back to the Butler 9th Ward. I was always so impressed with his great determination in life. What a great example. Have not seen him in many years, but not surprised to read about his many accomplishments and all the good thins he did. So sorry for your loss, he will be greatly missed.
nikki Brown
September 2, 2014
Thoughts&prayor are with you all.nikki brown
Kelly Smith & Family
September 1, 2014
It was a true pleasure & honor to know Kirk. He was very impactful in my life as I grew up & taught me many things. It seems like I was ALWAYS over at the Brown home when I was a kid. Kirk always went out of his way to treat me just like I was one of his own children. He is a very kind & loving man, I am so happy that I was blessed enough to be able to know & spend time with him. My thoughts, prayers, & condolences go out to the entire Brown Family and especially all of those beautiful grandchildren who were lucky enough to have Kirk as their Grandfather. God be with you, my good Friend, til we meet again.
Mike Fraser
September 1, 2014
Dear Ruth and family, I was shocked and saddened by the passing of Kirk. It was just last year at this time that i submitted his name to our Board of the National Football Foundation and College Hall of Fame to be recognized as the outstanding official for our chapter. Kirk was a great official and an outstanding role model for young people. I am grateful that I had Kirk referee many of my games while i was coaching, and even more grateful that I became acquainted with both of you and your wonderfull children while I was the football coach and Principal at Hunter High. May the spirit of our Father in Heaven be with you and your family. Coach, Mike Fraser
Barbara Carr
September 1, 2014
To Ruth and family, I am so sorry to hear of Kirk's passing. I have such fond memories of our friendship. We spent many fun hours watching games refereed by Kirk and Tim and others. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Love, Barbara Carr
Rex Thornton
August 31, 2014
Ruth, kids and grandchildren,
I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your husband, father, and grandfather. Kirk was a great man and I have been honored to have called him a friend. He was a Cougar and I was Ute but that didn't matter. I was blessed to have the opportunity to walk out on the football fields and officiate with Kirk for many years. On the football field as in all walks of life Kirk was a man of complete integrity. I will miss him greatly. I am sad that I am out of town for the viewing and funeral. I would have loved to be there and give you a hug in person. I will be with you in spirit as you honor this great man.
With love and prayers,
Rex Thornton
Lacey Attebery
August 31, 2014
Uncle Kirk was the best Uncle! He was so caring and such a wise and thoughtful man. Made me so proud to hear him compliment me on how great of a kid I have. His words were so genuine. He taught Bodie how to throw a football. Bodie will never forget that. My heart goes out to Aunt Ruth and all my cousins and their kids. Wish I could be there with you all right now. I will miss you Uncle Kirk. I love you all.
Ashley Mills
August 31, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. What a wonderful man he was/is. Thinking of you Kenny and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
August 31, 2014
I worked at the Jordan River Temple with Kirk. He was a great guy, always friendly with everyone and great to work with. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.
Our best wishes to the family.
Regards,
Dick & Melba Morris
Darlene Roberts
August 31, 2014
I'm So Sorry Ruth and Family for the Loss of Kirk, He was Such a Kind and Wonderful Person! I'm Praying You All Get Thru This Difficult Time.
Candace White
August 31, 2014
Kirk was a loving and kind person
Lisa Bennett Pinkard
August 30, 2014
So sorry for your loss. Elder Beckstead and he were a wonderful set of companions. I remember them well with respect and fondness for their dedication.
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