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Laurence Altneu Obituary
Age 45, computer engineer from Anaheim Hills, Vice President of Research and Development for IMS.
Survived by his loving family, wife of 18 years, Dana (nee Victer), sons Justin and Adam, parents Shirley and Irwin, sisters Lori (Russell) Tice, Joan (Harry) Cottam, twin brother Brian, mother-in-law Ara Victer, father-in-law Ira (Debbie) Victer, brothers-in-law Ron (Beth) and Jeff (Stacy) Victer and many loving nieces, nephews, friends and Zoe.
Funeral services, 10:00 a.m., Thursday, January 11, Temple Beth Sholom, 2625 N. Tustin Ave., Santa Ana, CA 92705. Interment to follow at Harbor Lawn/Mt. Olive Memorial Park, 1625 Gisler Ave., Costa Mesa, CA 92626.
In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to the Altneu College Fund, for information contact [email protected]
Malinow & Silverman Mortuary (800) 710-7100
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Memories and Condolences
for Laurence Altneu
Elaine Rutkowski
January 8, 2008
Dana, I thought of your husband during this year's race and said a prayer for you...It doesn't seem like a year has passed already since that horrible day in your family's life...May your pain be lessened in 2008. Elaine
Dana Altneu
January 6, 2008
One year - 365 days without Larry. I miss him terribly. He was an amazing husband and we would have been married 20 years this month. Somehow 2007 is now over. Adam, Justin and I have somehow made it through the year - 365 long days. It hasn’t been easy and I know Larry is watching over us - giving us strength to move forward. Life is so precious and when someone is tragically ripped away from you - it changes you forever. I will never run a marathon - never understand why Larry crossed the finish line, but never came home. Life is full of the unknown. I just hope he knows how much he is missed - so immensely missed each day. So, as 2008 begins, we will continue to miss Larry each day. Yes each day.
Judy Intrator
November 25, 2007
I was sadden to hear of Larry's passing although our families haven't met. I was searching the web for Altneus when I came across the news article of his death. My mother, a Felstiner, said that her great, great grandfather had been an Altneu but other family (Felstiners) "adopted" him so he wouldn't have to serve in the Czar's army which meant death to Jews. Again my sincerest condolences. Judy Frank Intrator
Steve Atkins
March 29, 2007
I'd like to express my belated and sincere condolences to you and the entire Altneu family. I could probably write several pages to you expressing how deeply I feel about Larry's passing. Larry was part of my life all the way back to Kindergarten. I've always sort of considered him a brother that I never had. Sometimes we were raising hell and getting into trouble, at other times he was kicking me in the butt and setting me straight. I still valued his opinion and often called him to ask his take on some professional issue.
In the last 25 years I've had a lot of friends come and go, but with Larry we would sometimes see each other once a week and at times with our busy lives only once a year. But we always picked up where we left off and I had always assumed we would do that until we were both old.
In recent years Larry and my paths seemed to cross in really strange ways. We have ended up working in the same industry, independently know many of the same people. I have even gotten 2 jobs partially because the person interviewing also was friends with Larry. At Larrys service I even found out that my doctor (Doctor Joss) was a friend of Larrys. Really odd coincidences.
I thought that Larrys service was really, really nice. I wish I could have visited with you all and the family however I honestly was having a hard time keeping it together at that time. The entire circumstances were just very surreal and unfamiliar to me.
I was happy to see that you and Mrs Altneu looked very well (in spite of the sad occasion) and hope you are doing well. Larry had told me that you are still living in La Mirada.
I live in Anaheim Hills (just about 1/4 mile from Larry and Dana's house). My daughter Leslie is turning 18 next week. Hard to believe so much time has passed I guess I've just gotten old(er).
I know you are aware what a really special guy Larry was. You can be really proud of raising him. I love him and really miss him.
Warmest Regards,
Steve Atkins
[email protected]
Russ Tice
March 27, 2007
I miss Larry, as does my wife. We miss him very much. As time passes, I realize even more how he touched the lives of many. He left a legacy of love, talent, honesty, and friendship. How proud his family must be of him, just as much as they miss him. Larry, you rocked, my very good friend.
Joe Gillespie
March 26, 2007
Mr. Altneu (Mr. A, as I liked to call him) was more than just a neighbor. He was a high-spirited, funny, and most of all, loving friend. It is almost the third month anniversary, and is still very unreal to me. I could never think of him being gone. He was constantly helping everyone, including myself.
He taught me many new things, both on a computer, and in life.
I will always remember you, Mr. A.
Jeanene Jewett
February 7, 2007
Dear Dana, Justin, and Adam,
Though Larry started off on the wrong foot with me when he “stole” my roommate, I really couldn’t dislike him no matter how hard I tried.
Larry was an all around good guy, and everyone who knew him, knew this. He was extremely intelligent, had a charming personality, and a wonderful sense of humor. Though these are endearing attributes, his most endearing attribute was how he made you happy, Dana, and how he was a wonderful father to Justin and Adam.
Though I am at a geographic disadvantage living so far away, please know that I’m always here for you and the boys.
You are in my thoughts and prayers,
Love Jeanene
John Whitney Gillespie
February 4, 2007
Larry was one of my favorite neighbors, and was always genuinely interested in how I was doing whenever he was over visiting. He had a great sense of humor and always seemed to be in a good mood whenever I saw him. I will miss him.
Joel Serot
February 1, 2007
Larry i miss you so much, you were a great man, father, and uncle. Its so hard to bealive that you not hear. I will think of you everyday, i love you.
justin altneu
February 1, 2007
i miss you like crazy Dad!!!
I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!!
love your son,
Justin Altneu
Jeff, Stacy, Austin, Madison and Dylan Victer
January 18, 2007
Dear Dana, Justin, and Adam,
Words cannot express how sad we feel. Larry was a wonderful brother-in-law and Uncle. Our love and support will always be here for you guys!
walt wallman
January 18, 2007
Every language has words with double meanings. Yiddish has one--MENSCH..One meaning is--a very special man deserving of high respect The other meaning is--Larry Altneu. We will greatly miss you, Larry.
Debra and Anthony Guarna
January 17, 2007
Larry is going to be greatly missed. We love you and if you ever need anything ever, you know you can count on us. Love, Debbie, Anthony, Gregory and Lauren
joey schember
January 17, 2007
Larry,
My return to Tacuba drive brought back special memories.It was about 38 years ago I used to walk up that driveway, looking for Brian, but seeing you tinkering with some gaget or meticulously designing a radio or computer. We were only 8 at the time. I new then you were a pretty special kid. Your determination to be successful at such a young age blew me and Brian away. We just stepped aside and watched it unfold.
Larry, you taught me way back then, in order to gain wealth and personal enrichment, quit goofing off and find a passion. Thank you.
You should be proud Larry. Your friends and family think the world of you. You have touched so many people in positive ways.You will always be missed.
Natalie Koukladas
January 16, 2007
Dear Dana, Justin, and Adam and the rest of the Altneu Family...
May the Lord give you the strength each and every day. May you over come those obstacles in life and remember all the memories.
Dana please remember you are all in our prayers and if there is anything you need we are here.
god bless Natalie, Kosta and Koukladas Family ....
Debby and Gary Pancer
January 16, 2007
We are thinking of you at this difficult time. Our hearts our with you and your family.
Renee Gillespie
January 15, 2007
Larry was not just my husband’s running buddy; he was also a good friend to both of us. There were so many times he helped fix something or find a solution to a problem. He always helped out very willingly. We really appreciated that about him.
Larry was also a lot of fun. He was funny and he made us laugh. He had several trademark sayings that will forever be associated with Larry.
I was very flattered when Larry would ask my advice or opinion about something. He was so smart and he knew a lot about so many things. It was always a bit of a surprise to me that he wanted my input on anything—I really believed he knew it all.
I will miss him very much. My heart is breaking for Dana, Justin and Adam. We can never make up for their loss, but we will be there for them to help them get through this.
Ara Victer
January 15, 2007
Dear Larry, an e-mail I received recently contained the phrase "Aspire to Inspire before you Expire" I thought about this in relation to your life. I believe your sons Justin and Adam will be inspired by your dreams and set goals for themselves just as you have. "Aspire to Inspire before you Expire" - you are to be admired. Love, your mom-in-law Ara
Irwin Altneu
January 15, 2007
Thoughts of Larry:
I have 45 years of thoughts.They start when Shirley brought him into this world. He was always calm and serene. Always bright eyed and wanting to learn. And learn he did. He was always alert and smart. I was always able to help him with his math and science homework. Shirley helped with english, spelling and writing. In college I assisted him with physics and calculus. He could handle electrical/electronics on his own.
Upon graduation he was bursting with pride (and so was I). When he got his first job at Hughes he couldn't believe how much they would pay him. I told him that's part of the payoff for being a college grad.
We helped him buy a condo which was the beginning of his real estate empire. I was working on the same project as a guy named Ira Victer and found out he had a good looking single daughter. I showed him a picture of Larry and said "Why don't we arrange a blind date?" We did and they did, followed by almost 19 years of wedded bliss, birth of their lovely children and many successes.
Larry and I had many, many lengthy conversations about career direction, compensation adequacy, financial planning, timing of major purchases, negotiation tactics, and why his mother and I did not sell our house and move to a condo in Orange County. These were conversations, not arguments. They were satisfying to both of us and is something else I will sorely miss.
There were so many other things. Family gatherings at Thanksgiving and Chanukah, repairs at our home, acquisition of more advanced electronic computerized equipment, etc. I always told him I didn't need it and 6-12 months later I could not do without them.
He loved his mother's cooking and when he came here he would quietly pig out with food he could not get anywhere else.
That's a thumb nail sketch of Larry to give you an idea of why we'll miss him. How much we'll miss him I cannot put into words.
I cannot think of a better place for him to be than right here with all of us. But people keep saying he's in a BETTER place. How can that be?
Good by son,your loving Dad.
Debbie Bailey & Family
January 15, 2007
Dana, Justin & Adam,
We send our condolences and want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carl Dubois
January 15, 2007
I only met Larry once, and one of his sons, but they were both gentlemen I was happy to know were my sister's neighbors. May Larry rest in peace, and may his family find grace and courage in the many wonderful memories they have of him -- and may they draw strength from those near them. From across the country, I send warm wishes and empathy.
Joe Szopa
January 15, 2007
Dana and Family,
I spoke to Jackie today, and she sends her love and prayers for you and the boys.
I feel so honored to have met Larry. He was so nice to come help Jackie the night before she left for Africa. At first, I was a little annoyed because I wanted to be the one to show Jackie how to use her converter, but I was really impressed at how good he was at explaining it. I certainly couldn't have done that well. Funny, he almost broke her iPod in the process. It was sitting on top of a box on the table, and he bumped it as he was shuffling her electronics around. I caught it just as it was about to hit the ground. Close call.
I also thought the funeral service was extraordinary - especially Ira's reflection. You have such a beautiful family and support around you!
I'll see you soon.
Best Wishes,
Joe Szopa
Lisa Barrett
January 15, 2007
I remember visiting your house after Robin & Eric's wedding when you had a post wedding party for the couple. I said to Larry, it seems that everytime we visit you are having a party, and he answered "That is what this house is for." Dana, Justin, and Adam, you need to keep the traditions going! We love you!! Lisa, Bob, Ashley and Sanders Barrett
Dorothea Cooper
January 15, 2007
Will not forget what a wonderful nephew you were. I will cherish the memories of when you came to visit in New York and had to indulge in all ethnic foods..... and sights of the city. I will remember your kindness, the love that you had for your family, your patience, your life..... Why this happened, it will never be answered but you ran a great marathon!
Love, Aunt Dotty
BRIAN ALTNEU
January 15, 2007
TO MY BROTHER LARRY, I WILL MISS YOU MORE THEN I CAN PUT IN WORDS. I WILL CARRY YOU IN MY HEART AND KNOW YOUR WITH ME ALWAYS.I LOVE YOU BRO. I WILL DO ALL I CAN TO BE THERE FOR DANA AND THE BOYS I MISS YOU!!!
I LOVE YOU JUSTIN, ADAM AND DANA WITH ALL MY HEART. I'M ALWAYS AVAILABLE TO YOU !!!!
Kim Altman & Family
January 15, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Karyn Schonherz
January 15, 2007
Dana, Justin, Adam:
I just lost my mom. My dad in March.
So I know what its like to lose a loved one. Just know that my thoughts & prayers are with you.
Russ Tice
January 15, 2007
Larry was an awesome Brother-In-Law, friend, and person. Larry was a man of passionate goals; those of which he reached with gusto. Some day I will see Larry again.
The Feuerman Family
January 15, 2007
Dana,Justin & Adam,
We send our deepest condolences on the tragic loss of Larry. He will always be remembered in our hearts. We will always be here for you whenever you need us. We love you all.
MOM AND DAD Altneu
January 15, 2007
ODE TO LAURENCE MICHAEL ALTNEU
YOU WERE OUR BABY
EVEN THOUGH
THREADS OF SILVER
BEGAN TO SHOW
SHARP OF MIND
AND FULL OF LIFE
TWO GORGEOUS SONS
AND A LOVELY WIFE
WE ALL WILL MISS YOU
EVERY DAY
FOR WHAT YOU WERE
IN EVERY WAY
OUR LOVE FOR YOU
WILL ALWAYS LAST
IN THE FUTURE
AS IN THE PAST
TIME MAY DIM THE
WELL OF TEARS
BUT WE WILL LOVE YOU
ALL OUR YEARS
SO GOODBYE
OUR SPECIAL BOY
WHO BROUGHT US
SO MUCH SPECIAL JOY
Ira Victer
January 15, 2007
Introducing Dana & Larry more than 19 years ago was the best thing I ever did. I could not have asked for a better son- in -law. As the years went by, the “in-law” was forgotten & he became an integral part of our family.
My only regret was not giving him a thorough checkout on my sailboat. He not only got sea sick but on an early trip he cut open his jaw, trying to jump off the boat onto the dock – before we were at the dock. After repairs at the Hoag ER he never stepped foot on my sailboat again.
As an electrical engineer he & I had a minor disagreement – he thought everything should flow through wires and mechanical devices would only fail. We joked about this often.
His chopped liver was famous at our family parties. Dana dreaded the smell in her kitchen as he was making it. His only condition was that I had to give him, in return, an ample supply of fresh horse radish which I made for Passover.
Larry had a heart of gold and would do anything for anybody at a moments notice. He was my computer consultant & mechanic and tried to explain the 1’s and 0’s to me, but to no avail.
Although Larry is gone, he left memories and a legacy I will never forget. As an incredible husband and father I could not have asked for anything better for my daughter. His smiling face will always be a part of my life. With much love Ira.
Robin and Eric Garfield
January 15, 2007
Dana, Justin, and Adam,
We love you all so much and are here for you. You were blessed to have such a wonderful father and husband - as we were to have a cousin who was so special. Cherish the memories and remember the laughter and know he will always be a part of you.
Deborah Scott
January 13, 2007
I did not know Larry, but as a distance runner who lives and trains in Anaheim Hills, our paths have likely crossed at one time or another (literally). I just lost a brother unexpectedly a month ago under similar circumstances -– he collapsed while out running and could not be resuscitated. He was 47. The only race we ever did together was the local Firecracker 10K this past year on the 4th of July when he and his family and my parents were here visiting from out of town. I was surprised to note that Larry ran in that race as well . . . and that he and my brother crossed the finish line within two minutes of each other. Dana, Justin, and Adam – although I am a stranger, please allow me to extend my heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathies to you and to all of Larry’s family and friends. I can appreciate your shock and the depth of your sorrow at losing someone so special so tragically and unexpectedly.
Ron and Beth Victer
January 13, 2007
Dana, Justin and Adam,
We love you guys and we're here to somehow help you through this...Larry will be in our hearts forever!
Love, Ron,Beth and the boys
Jan Cycon
January 12, 2007
Our love and prayers go to your family - we love you very much.
Jan and Kimberly Cycon, Plano Texas
Marc Booth
January 12, 2007
Larry Buddy,
I had a blast working with you for nearly 10 years at 2 different companies. You were the most talented engineer I have ever known and you never hesitated to speak your mind!
But what I really loved about being around you was your sense of humor. We made each other laugh even in the bleakest situations. In fact, we were almost like school kids when we were in a ridiculous Dilbert-like business meeting together. We'd try to see who could make the other one laugh at the most inappropriate time.
I'll really miss our regular get togethers at Don Jose. I would look forward to those for weeks because I knew that it was going to be a couple hours of laughter and catching up on each other's lives.
I'm glad you left this world doing what you loved to do. I just wish it had been decades later.
Rest in peace buddy. We will never forget you.
Martha Burke
January 12, 2007
Dear Dana, Justin, and Adam,
We are so very sorry to hear of Larry's untimely passing. May you find comfort in your faith, friends, and precious memories. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
The Burke Family
Jim, Martha, Brenton, and Lauren
Steve Atkins
January 11, 2007
Larry,
I has been a long winding path from when we met in Kindergarten, but still much too short. How many times in highschool and college did we manage to get each other home when we were in no shape. How many times did we panic before exams... How many.....
Someone once told me that the definition of a friend is someone who bails you out. But a true friend is one that is sitting right next to you in the cell saying "boy we really screwed up". Thank you for being there.
I wish we had the opportunity to do just one more round of Margaritas at Don Jose's
Rest in peace my dear friend,
Steve...
Dan Borunda
January 11, 2007
Brian and family,
We our so sorry for you loss. Our deepest hearts, prayers, and sympathy goes out to you, and your family.
Love, The Borunda Family (Dan & Janelle)
Elaine Rutkowski
January 11, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies go to Larry's family. I hope you can find some comfort knowing that he was given a gift to be able to run to his new life on such a beautiful day. God only gives these kinds of gifts to special people. (participant 11113)
Paul Entrican
January 11, 2007
I'll miss you Larry. God's speed.
Tom Kaczmarek
January 11, 2007
Larry, I didn't know you but I know how hard you trained and how much it meant to you to run your PR. I'm so sorry it happened the way it did. My heart go out to your family. Tom- bib#8644
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