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Leslie Kandell Obituary

KANDELL, LESLIE. Died September 18, 2025, at her home on Riverside Drive, a few blocks from where she was born on July 29, 1936. After attending City and Country Day School and the Fieldston School, she earned a bachelor's degree in musicology from Bryn Mawr College in 1958 and a master's degree in secondary education from Bank Street College of Education in 1961. She was a teacher, a musician, a stand-up comedienne, and a classical music critic, writing for The New York Times, The Berkshire Eagle, Musical America and other publications. She was a long-time member of the Riverside Church Choir, and later the Choir of St. Michael's Episcopal Church. She had a copious memory for songs, including many by her elementary school music teacher, Pete Seeger. She spent more than 60 summers in her beloved Berkshires, where she covered concerts at Tanglewood and many other venues for the Eagle and The Daily Gazette in Schenectady. She was a daughter of the late Leonard and Florence (Levine) Kandell. Predeceased by her daughter Elinor (Friedberg) Blume, she is survived by her daughter Cindy Marvell; her son, Jon Friedberg; her grandson, Theo Marvell Brown; her former husband, Richard Friedberg; her former son-in-law Karl Blume; her sister, Alice Kandell; and her partner and "boo," Michael Schoeman. A memorial celebrating her life is being planned for early November.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Sep. 27, 2025.

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Cruz Elena Moreno

September 28, 2025

My deepest condolences to the family and friends,

Michael Smith

September 26, 2025

I was greatly saddened to hear of Leslie's death. I knew her as a fellow-chorister; we sang together in the choir of St Michael's Church, for oh, it must be almost 30 years. Like many Jews, she made a very good Episcopalian. Like all choristers, she & I enjoying exchanging sotto-voce snarkeries about the music, the tempo, the tenors, etc. Her musical instincts and judgement were flawless, which is to say that they aligned, in general, with my own. She could be quite crusty, and if you went a half-comma flat on that tricky E in alt, she'd throw you a stank-eye that would stop a Patton tank in its tracks. She *always* had something interesting and original to say, and I don't think I ever heard a cliche pass her lips. I will miss her.

Betsy D. Blachly-Chapin

September 25, 2025

Leslie, ypou always had much to say, when we met on the street, and we knew many people in common!!!!! I enjoyed our encounters, each and every one, and I want to extend my sincers condolences to your family. I will remember your feisty remarks and common concerns in our shared world of music and performance. In peace, Betsy Blachly music SFC and GE.

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Sue Michalson

September 23, 2025

Leslie was a very special person.Her 1945 class at Fieldston will always be grateful for her holding us together all these years.

Johanna Beale Keller

September 22, 2025

Leslie was a wonderfully supportive music critic colleague, a dedicated music journalist, an enthusiastic proponent of classical music---and all the arts. She loved words, the more obscure the better, and I'll always remember her delight when she came upon the word mahout (having to do with elephants). Leslie had a funny bone, and could be quite witty herself when in the mood. She was one of a kind and I shall miss her presence in our world of music.

Marjorie A. Mosier

September 21, 2025

Leslie, we will sorely miss your joy and sense of fun, your wit and your understanding. Rest in peace, dear friend.
Marjorie A. Mosier, MD
Bryn Mawr College, '58

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