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Lillian Duva

1928 - 2025

Lillian Duva obituary, 1928-2025, Monroe, CT

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1928

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2025

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Lillian Duva Obituary

Lillian (Julian) Duva
Lillian (Julian) Duva, age 97 of Monroe, CT, entered into eternal rest on October 23, with her beloved family by her side.
Born, September 26, 1928, to the late Anthony F. and Lillian M. Julian, Lillian was born and raised in Bridgeport, CT and attended Central High School. After marrying the love of her life, James V. Duva, they built their home together, where they raised their two daughters. She had spent the last 68 years there with her family, creating wonderful memories.
Lillian is survived by her loving daughters, Donna Duva Quaranta, Deborah Duva Lewis (Tom), cherished grandsons, C.J. Baumann, Vinny Quaranta and Justin Scianna.
Also, survived by sisters, Barbara Hragyil, MaryJane Lovanio (Dr. Richard), and sister-in-law, Paula Julian, who she loved like a sister. She leaves behind many nieces and nephews, far too many to mention, she loved and adored them all.
Lillian was predeceased by her husband, James V. Duva; brothers, Anthony (Sonny and Lyda), Donald, Raymond and Dominick (Butch) Julian; sisters, Elizabeth Nieuwboer, Katherine Lopatosky (Andrew), Mildred Cavaliere (Billy), Jean Picarazzi (Guido).
After retiring early, Nana dedicated herself to what she loved most, spending time with her grandsons. She shared an incredible bond with them, always ready to offer comfort or take the "wheel" as their trusted "getaway car". Whether she was driving them to a friends house, preparing Nana's chocolate or lemon cake, teaching them to play cards at the kitchen table, Nana created memories that will be cherished for generations.
She loved spending time at the Monroe Senior Center, where she made many good friends while playing cards and Mahjong. She also enjoyed spending time with her best friend, Fran, going to church, breakfast at Bills Drive-In and so many other adventures. She looked forward to doing her daily rosary with her friend, Donna, and a day was never missed.
She was a devoted catholic and has made great friends at St. Jude Parish, where she has been a parishioner for over 60 years.
Lillian cherished her family and always said we were so blessed to have such an amazing family.
Friends are invited to a visitation on Thursday, October 30, from 4 - 8pm at Spadaccino & Leo P. Gallagher Community Funeral Home, 315 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe, CT. Please meet directly at the church for Mass of Christian Burial, Friday, October 31, at 10:30am at St. Jude Parish, 707 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe. Interment to immediately follow at St. Michael's Cemetery, 2205 Stratford Ave., Stratford, CT.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a memorial donation to an animal shelter of your choice.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Oct. 26 to Oct. 28, 2025.

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Tom Kasper

October 30, 2025

God Bless your Sweet Soul I loved your sense of humor and the way you would go along with any gag ( posing smoking a BIG Old Cigar at Peg and Vinces wedding ) You are Loved and will be missed , Tom Kasper

Cindi Svec

October 30, 2025

Dear Entire Julian ,Duva 's, and Extended Families of many friends,
So sorry for your tremendous loss of a wonderful women. . Remb .her from many years ago. Cherish the many memories made & the many lives she touched along the way . . MANY Thgts & Prayers are with each of you . Rip. LILLIAN.

Karen Julian Jimenez

October 28, 2025

Deb, Donna, and the entire Julian Family,

We were so sorry to hear about Lillian's passing. She was such a fun, kind, vibrant person! We always loved our visits with her. I'm sure the family that has passed was waiting with open arms for her. Sending love and hugs!
Love, Karen, Jose & Ava

Valerie Suhanosky

October 27, 2025

Lillian and my mom, Rachel Gaudino , were great friends. So sorry to hear about your loss.

Genevieve Testo

October 27, 2025

My deepest condolences to Deborah and Donna and your family. Your mother was the best, I'm sorry I didn't keep in touch. I would also like to give my condolences to the Julian family, Mary Jane, Barbara and Paula.

Laura Wisniewski Pederson

October 26, 2025

Dear Debbie & Family, so sorry to hear of your mom´s passing. May she rest in peace.

The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home

October 26, 2025

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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Oct

30

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son Community Funeral Home

315 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe, CT 06468

Oct

31

Mass of Christian Burial

10:30 a.m.

Saint Jude Parish Church

707 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe, CT 06468

Oct

31

Interment

St. Michael Cemetery

2205 Stratford Ave, Stratford, CT 06615

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Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son Community Funeral Home- Monroe

315 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe, CT 06468

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