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Mary Holm Obituary

HOLM Mary Ellen, age 68, of Toms River, passed away at home on November 25th, 2010, in the presence of her husband, and her daughter. Mary Ellen was born in Hoboken, NJ, and lived in Fort Lee, NJ, before moving to Toms River in 2005. She was the supervisor of the Business Education Department in North Bergen High School before retiring in 2005. Mrs. Holm was a volunteer for Van Dyke Hospice and a Eucharistic Minister for St. Catharine's Parish in Seaside Park. Mary Ellen was predeceased by her parents: Raymond and Christina Bock, and her two sisters: Peggy Grierson and Christine Davis. Surviving is her husband, Dr. E. Richard Holm, to whom she was married 27 years; her daughter Erin Barna, and her husband Paul Jr. of Toms River; two brothers: Raymond Bock and his wife Patricia of Edison, NJ; and James Bock and his wife Lucretia of Tequesta, Florida; three sisters: Kathleen Meyer and her husband Donald of Toms River; Terry Jones and her husband Cliff of San Diego, California; and Lynn Bunch of San Diego, California. Visiting will be Sunday 2-4 and 7-9PM, at the Anderson & Campbell Funeral Home, 703 Main Street, Toms River, NJ. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 10AM Monday at St. Catharine of Siena Church, Seaside Park. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery in Toms River. In lieu of flowers, donations in her name may be made to: Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital, Att: Dr. Gregory Riely, 1275 York Ave., New York, NY 10065. Makes checks payble to: Thoracic Research Fund

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Nov. 27, 2010.

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Kim Cole -Rieger

November 10, 2011

Still doesnt seem real... Almost a year and cant imagine not seeing you again..
I think of you daily, we speak of you often and you will 4 ever be a significant part of who we are... Whole world and Back , Love you, Xo

Helen MacAlpine

December 5, 2010

Rich and Erin, I have so many fond memories of Mary Ellen. She was a beautiful and kind person with tremendous wit. She was also a part of our grand family, and we will all miss her so very much. All my love, your cousin and goddaughter, Helen

December 5, 2010

Dear Erin and Rich,
I have so many beautiful and sweet memories of MaryEllen, all the years and changes we went through together.
Her spirit was so alive in life and will always be here.
May God grant you strength and love.

Linda DiTullio

December 4, 2010

Mary Ellen you were a friend. Mostly you taught me how to laugh and know that life is not so serious. I treasure our friendship and feel that you are with me even here. Give my Janet a hug for me. I love you. Kathy Powers

Carol & Pat Sempier

November 29, 2010

Our sincere sympathy.So sorry for your loss.

Nicholas Malfitano

November 28, 2010

I remember going to Mr. and Mrs. Holm's house for a wedding after-party for Paul and Erin last summer, and being made to feel so welcome, even though they hadn't met me before. These are kind, generous people and their spirit is to be admired and commended. My thoughts, prayers and best wishes go out to Mrs. Holm's family, friends and loved ones during this difficult time.

Carol and Dave Dannenfelser

November 28, 2010

Rich and Erin, we are wishing you much peace and love.

Maria Romero

November 27, 2010

My deepest condolences to you, Rich and Erin as well. Mary Ellen has been so on my mind lately and wish I would have been able to see her. I am truly sorry to have heard of your terrible loss. I know you all loved her and I will say a prayer for you all.

Marianne Bocchieri Dilworth

November 27, 2010

So sorry to hear the sad news. I have many happy memories of MaryEllen and our deep discussions, (while hanging out with Terry & Lynn during our teen years) My deepest sympathy to her husband, daughter and siblings.

Meg & Jeff

November 27, 2010

Mr. Holm, Erin, and Paul...you are in our thoughts and prayers. Erin, your mom was a beautiful person on the inside and out. We are so happy we had the opportunity to know her...keep the memories close. She will always be on all of your sides. Love You.

Amy, Donald, & Lauren Meyer

November 27, 2010

We truly are so sorry and at a loss for the proper words..thinking and praying for you during this extremely difficult time. We were blessed to have her in our lives.

Lynn Amati-Bunch

November 27, 2010

Rich and Erin, Our sincere condolences during this difficult time. May God bless you with special strength. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Lynn and Robert

Lynn Amati-Bunch

November 27, 2010

Rich and Erin, our sincere condolences during this difficult time. May God bless you and your family with extra strength. We love you! Lynn and Robert

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