Matthew Wallace Bender

Matt appeared in our home last night. He looked stunning, young, handsome, and content. His presence was comfortable. As i awoke this a.m. I related what i saw to my husband, we held each other and smiled with Joy. Audrey & Nicole, you both will be forever protected, guided in so many beauitful ways.
Even when you do not see beauty, know that beauty is there. Your man is there makin sure its all good! Be kind to your mind, and know that memories will last a lifetime. You did...

I went to grade school and high school with Matt in Pacifica. Matt was a very sweet, kind and friendly guy. He was always nice to everyone. He was an incredible athlete and he had the most excellent freckles I have ever seen. God Bless you Matthew, your friend, Susan Hrvatin Henning.

I had the pleasure of working with Matt for a number of years at Cassie Hill. He always had a smile on his face and was always willing to lend a helping hand.
Peace be with you Matt, my friend.

I might have met Matt, but I am not sure. I had worked with him only briefly at his time Wells. It sounds like he will be deeply missed by all that knew him. I wish I could have shared some time with you Matt, it would have been a good time I am sure. Ride on Buddy with the Sun always at your back.

I never met Matt ---- my loss ---- but I did work with him on a few projects over the years at Wells Fargo, and I enjoyed him. Eternal rest, Matt!

Matthew~ even though Dean and I don't have many stories we have great memories! With Dean starting way back to Pop Warner Football and me since High School. You were one of the hottest and most admired guys in High School and forever the most admired guy! You were in our wedding and we even have a son named very similiar to yours (Matthew William) We shared great times at Wally World and some of the greatest memories at Whiskey Town! We enjoyed ski trips and one of the best harley rides...

Matt and I go back about 10 years now. We met when he managed QA retail at the Roseville Data center and we frequently interacted when issues would arise. I knew from the early beginnings of our friendship he was special in so many ways. Character comes to mind here, because he was a person of character; noble, honorable, honest to a fault, never petty or peevish, but the very best of the human family. These qualities really stood out in him and it drew others to him. He never kept his...