Patchy had the remarkable ability to walk into a crowded party, knowing that the people there either already liked him, or would be the time he left.

He was gifted with an extraordinary intellect, coupled with a charismatic sense of humor. What made him so immensely likable was that he made you take great delight in just how smart and funny he was.

Few people have the diversity of interests and the capacity to explore them that Patchy did. He was equally at home discussing the complexities of Baruch Spinoza's writings as he was marvelling at the beauty of a well-pitched curve ball he had seen in an obscure baseball game on late night ESPN. He liked to play pool, and that was probably because he was so fascinated by the geometry and physics of the game.

Even now, with his having passed, the thought of Patchy Redman brings forth a laugh and a smile.

Goodbye, Patchy. You went away far too soon. But you left behind a lot of memories of good talks and happy times.

Robert Anderson

March 17, 2018

I knew Patchy only after we all had finished at Rice, and sadly, not well. Reading his obit, I wish I had known him better (beyond the party thing.) Last saw him at I. Jay's funeral. Rest well, Patchy. We will miss you.

Sidney Schlusselberg

March 12, 2018

Patchy and I met in El Paso in the eighth grade, he being a 'Redman' and I'm 'Schlusselberg,' I was assigned to sit behind him in homeroom, that's how we became instant friends.

When we got to Coronado High School, in those four years, we were in 90% of our classes together. At that point we CHOSE to sit together... in Algebra, Geometry, English, Spanish,Chemistry, Biology, etc. I have cherished 'Patchy stories' from being together with him in ALL of those classes.

Patchy was considered to be the smartest guy in our grade. Never, and I mean never, did Patchy take home a book or study for a test! He was brilliant. He was constantly telling me random facts and I would ask, "Patchy how do you know that?" And his answer was," I know everything !"....He would tell me with his Patchy-est smirk!
More recently, whenever I would visit Austin, I would arrange for a lunch with Patchy. I always enjoyed seeing him. Even though the years sometimes lapsed between our visits, when we were together it was as if I had seen him just yesterday. My friendship with Patchy was one that I will always treasure and I'll miss him dearly. My thoughts are with all of you.
Sidney Schlusselberg

Michael Graham

March 9, 2018

I will miss you, Patchy. You were always a very close friend, during high school and the semester that we shared at Rice, well as the time that we knew each other in Austin. I will always remember your smile, your keen sense of humor and your engaging and outgoing personality. Thanks for being a friend, my dear old amigo.

March 4, 2018

The first time I met Patchy I was impressed. He was a good man. And my wife, Shirley, always said Patchy taught her how to make perfect boiled eggs. We miss him very much. Nelson Edgerly

Jessie Lewis

March 1, 2018

Because of Patchy I will always remember the important things in life such as :1) the art of making the perfect salsas as well as knowing to always pull your knuckles back while you are chopping/mincing anything. (very important) 2) How to (or in my case attempt to) make your cheek and mouth sound like a dripping faucet. Hell, who am I kidding? There are too many to count. To the best damn god father an atheist could ever ask for. Make an offer the universe can't refuse.

Dean Eubank

February 28, 2018

I wish I had known him

Neena Husid

February 28, 2018

What a pitch perfect obit for Patchy. I hesitate to chime in with my own Patchydote but here goes. When I was dating my ex we made a trip to El Paso to meet the crew that hadn't yet made it to Austin. I think it was the first time I met Patchy. We were at a bar and it was noisy. Patchy turned to me when my boyfriend was preoccupied, looked deep into my eyes and said, "you know, you're too good for him." Moments later, as I returned from the ladies room, still a little freaked by his weird comment, I heard him saying to my ex, in a tenor he surely wanted me to hear, "you know, you're too good for her." Nobody has ever made me laugh like Patchy. And no one ever will. He was sweet and droll and harmless. I actually use to go into the Randall's at 2222 hoping I'd run into him. He will be missed and never replicated. Neena Husid, Austin

Tom Spencer

February 28, 2018

So sorry about Patchy's passing. Hell of a bio and a great loss.

Nancy Timmons

February 27, 2018

Ah, dear Patchy; I missed you even before you passed...Sending gargantuan love to Kati David, Joseph, & Phillip--Thanks, also to Annie for your super-expressive words. I love you all.

Tamala Barksdale

February 28, 2018

My heart breaks for your loss but what a gift the universe gave your family in the life of Patchy Redman. Never read a more apt description of a life well lived. Blessings and love to you all.

Luke Bailey

February 27, 2018

Patrick, you were the consummate gentleman. Hold a spot for me, wherever you are!

Nancy Lewis

February 27, 2018

And it was Patchy who taught us to always say "Don't have any fun!" at each departure....much more palatable than "Be careful!" Dear Patchmo, we will never enjoy pulled pig or tequila shots or any among the myriad of joys we shared with you without smiling in remembrance. We love you Bro.

Susan Denneny

February 27, 2018

So long Patchy, it's sure been good to know ya. Wishing I could come up with a fine limerick in your honor, I'm sure YOU could! My heart goes out to Philip, Kati, David, Joseph, Annie. I'll treasure my wonderful memories.

Lori Person

February 25, 2018

Patchy was a great friend; clever, smart, caring & so funny. Condolences to his family and friends.

Robert Bremee

February 21, 2018

Rest in peace Patchy. May God bless you.

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