Peter Alexander Helldoerfer

Dear Kathleen, I think of you and your family every time I drive by the site in Novato. I say a little prayer to continue to heal your heart and to feel peace and comfort. We have since moved to Rohnert Park but I still think of you. This void will never be filled in a mother's heart but I hope with time you are healing and can feel happiness in your life. Take care. Pam Bing

Dear Peter and Kathleen,

Please receive our heartfelt condolences at the loss of Alex.

We only had the chance to visit with Alex four or five times over the past three years, but we always noted a very special presence that he had--he was always very aware of his surroundings and appeared to have a very wide variety of interests in life. His wit, style and luminous spirit will forever remain with us.

Warm regards.

Dearest Kathleen and Peter,

My heartfelt prayers to you in the most profound grief a parent must carry. It was an honor to minister to Alex during those precious elementary school years in Faith Formation at St. Anthony. I remember his cute smile and endearing, sometimes teasing, twinkle in his eye. May that same faith and prayer support be always with you.

With much affection,
Judy Ross

Kathleen and family, we are very saddened to hear of the passing of Alex. We have fond memories of him in grade school. He was sensitive, gentle, and creative. You are in our thoughts. Take care.
The Carter/Harvey family

I went to SRJC with Alex. We would sometimes hang out after school and the weekends. He was a cool and fun person to be around. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. My heart goes out to his family.

Kathleen and Peter, Janet and I were so saddened to read about your loss. Your family is in our prayers.

Kathleen
I'm so sad and so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. You are in my thoughts.

So terribly sorry for your loss. I know you have the strength, praying you find solace in knowing his kind spirit continues.

Love;
The Degans