Peter-Ruff-Obituary

Peter Ruff

Ft. Thomas, Ohio

Dec 29, 1958 – Dec 6, 2016 (Age 57)

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BORN
December 29, 1958
DIED
December 6, 2016
AGE
57
LOCATION
Ft. Thomas, Ohio
CHARITY
American Cancer Society

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RUFFPeter Gerard, devoted husband of Melissa (Hammerly) Ruff. Loving son of the late C.Sue Luebbe and Charles Ruff. Dear bother of Linda (Jerry) Buckmaster, Michael (Judy) Ruff, Debbie (Andy) Silverman, and the late Terry Ruff, Jeff Ruff, and Sallie Wegman. Also survived by many nieces, nephews,...

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Peter was a great friend to everyone! He never had a bad thing to say about anyone. So many occasions to mention-he was a good penpal-prom date, Best Man, great sense of humor-he'll be sorely missed-it is just too hard to believe he's gone & I can only hope I will see him on the other side. Melissa, you were the love of his life & I keep you in my prayers that in time your pain will ease. Nancy Kelley

MELISSA. CAN'T BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW SORRY WE ARE AT HEARING OF THE PASSSING OF PETER. I REMEMBER 1ST MEETING YOU BOTH WHILE WALKING NORMAN. WE OF COURSE HAD LUCY (OUR LITTLE SCHNAUZER). WE FEEL YOUR PAIN AND SHARE YOUR TEARS. IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO OR HELP OUT WITH PLEASE DON'T HESITATE TO ASK. WE JUST LEARNED OF PETER'S PASSING TONIGHT WHILE DINING WITH THE GOEHLES. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. WE'RE AT 2111 N FT THOMAS....................

My best/dearest/funniest grade school memories are from Pete. To have the memory of his smile is a blessing. I pray that his love for Melissa, family, and friends continues to inspire all of us. I am so sorry for your loss.

With deep sympathy,
Sue Duke Ferris

Melissa,

I am so saddened to know that you have lost the battle you and Peter have been fighting. I am feeling the pain all over again, this time for you. I pray for your healing. I also pray that you hold on to the loving memories of your life together.

I pray for your next chapter in life, and I will be there for you any way I can.

I wished I could have been in town to show my respects at the ceremony.

Becky

Dear Melissa,
My deepest condolences and sympathy. I am devastated to hear of Peter's passing. I know God was waiting with open arms, so glad to hold him again.
I treasure all the wonderful times we shared during my years in Cincinnati. I am so very blessed to have known this wonderful, funny, endearing man. Sending all my love,

Peter and Melissa were wonderful neighbors to my aunt when I couldn't be there for her. They went above and beyond and to this day, they are both there.
Peter had a wit and humor about him that could get through any challenge in life. I was in awe of his talent to turn a tired house into an immaculate palace filled with warmth and love. I envied the relationship that Peter and Melissa had; a testament to what a marriage should entail.
Peter's spirit and energy will stay with me.

I met Peter when I was in Corp. Real Estate with First Nat'l, Star, Firstar, etc. Bank. He, Jerry and the guys did projects for me at 425 Walnut. Peter was wonderful; always had a great pun and a smile and he and his team were amazing workers. He was getting a new carmaybe a BMW? I suggested his license read: "rrrRUFF." I can't remember if he took my advice. For several years I ran into Peter and his brothers down at Gethsemani on Good Friday. What a special man! I'm so sorry for your loss.

Melissa, I am so very sorry to hear this news; I know how incredibly devoted the two of you were and all the joy you shared over the years. Please know how much Dennis and I care and that we are holding you close in our thoughts and prayers.

with deep affection,
Marybeth Schroer

Melissa, I'm deeply sorry to hear of Peter's passing. I didn't know him but feel like I got to know him a bit through our stories and time at the salon. I know you two had a profound love and wonderful life together and you will miss him greatly. He is at peace now and is in a better place. God bless you both!