Photo courtesy of Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin
Ballwin, Missouri
Apr 30, 1934 – Jan 10, 2025
Hoeferlin, Raymond Lee. Ray passed away at home on Friday, January 10th, 2025, at the age of 90. He was born in St. Louis, a son of Elmer and Helen (nee Albrecht) Hoeferlin. Ray was a Riverview Gardens High School graduate and a United States Army Veteran. He married Dorothy Mae “Dot” Wienstroer on September 5th, 1959.
He was a retired auto mechanic from Roy McCoy Oldsmobile (formerly Yates) and a lifelong member of the International Association of Machinists and Aerospace Workers. Later, Ray and Dot owned and operated St. Louis Post Dispatch, Suburban Journal and Riverfront Times newspaper routes. Always wanting to be busy, Ray was then an Enterprise Mobility shuttle driver until fully retiring at age 85.
Ray was the ultimate family man. His love and commitment towards his wife, children, and grandchildren was legendary, and his strong work ethic and kindness made him a role model for his family. His dog Cooper was always at his side. Additionally, he also passed along his deep love of sports to his children. He coached his children’s baseball and basketball teams, was an original St. Louis Rams season ticket holder and was a lifelong St. Louis Cardinals fan. But above all, Ray’s family was the centerpiece of his life. Along with the usual family functions, he made it a point to attend as many of his grandchildren’s activities as he could, being their biggest cheerleader. The wonderful family that grew out of his marriage with Dot was arguably his proudest accomplishment.
Ray was the beloved husband of Dot Hoeferlin for 65 years; dearest father of Craig (Cheri) Hoeferlin, Keith Hoeferlin, Karen (Stuart) Higano, and Curt Hoeferlin; proud grandfather of Erica (Kyle) Steffensmeier, Reed Hoeferlin, and Connor Higano; dear brother of Geraldine "Geri" Pirrie-Toler, Elmer (Charlotte) Hoeferlin, and H. James “Jim” Hoeferlin; plus, numerous extended family and friends. Ray was preceded in death by his parents, infant brother Robert, sister Delores (Charles) Dietiker and his son Curt.
Services: Visitation at the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, 14960 Manchester Road at Holloway, Ballwin, Friday, January 17th, from 3 p.m. to 8 p.m. Funeral service at the Schrader Funeral Home Chapel, Ballwin, Saturday, January 18th, at 10 a.m. Interment New Bethlehem Cemetery, 9650 Bellefontaine Road, Bellefontaine Neighbors.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Heart Association or the Places for People (mental health).
Friends may sign the family’s on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.
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I worked with Ray many years ago at Oldsmobile. He in service and me in parts. I had the greatest respect and admiration for him. My condolences to all of his family.
Rest in peace Ray
Mark Reid
March 06, 2025 | St Louis, MO | Coworker
Great Man. Wonderful Family. I was the dentist for the family for many years.
Jeffrey Stephans DDS
January 17, 2025 | St Louis, MO | Friend
Keith, we are so sorry for your loss. Although we didn't have the privilege of knowing your dad personally, we know how much he meant to you and your family. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time, and we hope you find comfort in the love and memories you shared with him.
With deepest sympathy,
Randy Phillips and Maddie Reyes
Randy Phillips
January 17, 2025 | Ballwin, MO | Friend
To a great neighbor, will miss our street chats. Rest easy my friend, I will look in on Dot from time to time!
Tim and Barb McIntyre
January 15, 2025 | Neighbor
Stars of Life Standing Spray
Don Martin (neighbor)
January 15, 2025
So sorry for your loss! I want to remember Ray as I knew him in life! I worked with Ray at Enterprise, in Van 3 for probably 3yrs. He was known fondly as one of the backseat boys! I remember listening to all his interesting stories from his life. R.I.P Ray and thank you for your service, Sir!
Rich Getz
January 14, 2025 | St. Peters, MO | Coworker
Keith so sorry for your loss. May peace be with you and your family.
Linda Novack
January 13, 2025 | Waterloo | Friend
Keith, god bless you and your family. Sounds like your dad was an amazing dad & grandfather. Glad you were able to spend so many wonderful years with him & have all those memories. Prayers for you and your family as you celebrate his wonderful life
Twanna Amos
Twanna Amos
January 13, 2025 | Mt Zion, IL | Friend
Ray was a good guy. I worked with him at Enterprise and we got together for lunch at Gettemeier's in St. Charles once a month. Never heard him say an unkind word. He's the kind of person this world needs more of.
William Roach
January 13, 2025 | Wentzville, MO | Friend