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Richard E. Flamer

Tallahassee, Florida

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Richard E. Flamer, Ph.D. Richard E. Flamer, Ph.D., 72, who retired in 1997 as vice president of student affairs for Florida A&M University, died Monday, Jan. 24, 2005. He is survived by his wife, Arlene B. Palmer Flamer. The service will be at 2 p.m. EST Saturday at Bethel AME Church, with...

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We knew Sergeant Flamer very well at Fairchild AFB, WA from 1968-72. He was a wonderful man who was assigned to the base Comptrollers office and then promoted to Base Sergeant Major - the highest ranking office on the base for a non-commissioned officer. There is so much to say about this man who was so good natured and wise beyond his military station. My wife Karen knew him well due to her civilian job in the Comptrollers office. I write this in August 2022 and we still talk about Dick and...

August 24, 2012. Dear Arlene, I worked with Dick for several years when we both worked for the Comptroller at Fairchild AFB & later the Commander's office. I just found out today about Dick's passing and I'm just bereft! We feel so bad for all of you. He helped me raise Chuck & Charla from his office desk! I'd be in a meeting and the kids would call wanting something. He'd evaluate it and say yes or no. He was just my super, super friend! We hadn't been in touch for years but I still...

Dr. Flamer was a lifeline for me during a very tumultuous college career. I formally met him after the spring of my Sophomore year and he was a Godsend. Many times I would get myself in some stressful predicaments whether it were grades, financial aid or Lord knows what else and Doc would always be there but never without a few choice words. We talk about the nurturing and care we receive at black colleges and Dr. Flamer was a living testament of that. He was that visible nudge that we all...

I remember the first time I meet Dr. Richard Flamer. It was in the Spring of 1988 at a SGA retreat in Ft. Walton Beach. I was a freshman. Doc was funny, he was alive, the life of the party. You just wanted to be around him. Mrs. Flamer just stood at his side and let him do his thang(thing). Doc was in his element with the student. I immediately knew I had a valued friend in Dr. Flamer.

Every time I created a problem for myself with my procrastination, Doc stepped in. When I...

Condolences from The Disabled
American Veterans,Chapter,#5
Tallahassee,Fl orida.
Thomas W.(Bill)Deal
Chaplain

Mrs. Flamer:

From our family to yours. Please accept our sympathy in your time of loss and sorrow.

We have just returned from Pennsylvania where we had laid to rest our last parent during the past weekend and learned to our sorrow that Dick had departed during our absence.

Richard (Dick) will be dearly missed in the mornings where we would meet at the end of my driveway to discuss the world and every other topic.

Your neighbor,
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Mrs. Flamer,

Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God strengthen you and provide you with physical healing as you continue on this journey. May Dr. Flamer rest in peace.

With hearfelt sympathy,

Sandy Gregg

Dr. Flamer will truly be missed by all of us. He touched so many students & made a way out of no way for them. My prayers are with the Flamer family to give you strength & peace today. Everything that happens is part of God's enternal plan. Today what seems a mystery in time we'll understand. Love to all the family and God Bless.