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Robert Godley Obituary

Robert "Bob" Godley, age 89, died unexpectedly yet peacefully at his home on April 7, 2020 in Matthews, North Carolina, of heart failure unrelated to the coronavirus.

His beloved wife of over 60 years, Pat, preceded Bob in death by a year. He is survived by his daughter Kim (Tom), his son Peter, his son Mark (Amy) and their two children Callie and Ashton, as well as both of his brothers, Bill and Fred. Bob was preceded in death by his parents, Fred and Mabel Godley.

Bob was born in Springer, New Mexico. When he was six years old, his family relocated to the Oakdale neighborhood of Charlotte, where he grew up around the Godley Auction yard. He earned his business degree from Bob Jones University, and then enlisted to become a U.S. Navy Aviator. Bob was stationed in San Diego, California where he flew fighter jets from the aircraft carrier USS Hancock and was later an advanced naval flight instructor in Beeville, Texas.

Bob met Patricia Riley in San Diego, and they were married in Texas. They then decided to leave military life to return to Charlotte in 1957, where they started their family which soon included their three children. Bob joined Godley Construction Company, that built various projects in Charlotte and around the southeast. In 1972, he formed his own real estate development company, Bob Godley Enterprises, and built many industrial and commercial buildings in the Charlotte area.

Despite his busy work and family life, Bob couldn't resist the urge to continue to fly. He piloted many types of flying machines: a gyrocopter (an experimental one-man open helicopter), an ultralight (an experimental one-man fixed-wing open plane), a 60 year old vintage two-seat Piper Cub plane (usually flying with the side doors open) and a Cherokee Lance six-seat twin-engine passenger plane, not to mention occasional hot air balloon rides and parasailing escapades.

Bob and Pat would fly their family and friends to destinations throughout the United States, Canada and the Caribbean. Bob flew hundreds of trips with a perfect safety record for over 50 years, which was recognized by a U.S. Federal Aviation Administration Wright Brothers Master Pilot Award in 2010 when Bob was 80 - the most prestigious award the FAA issues to pilots.

In addition to his flying adventures, Bob crisscrossed the country with his family in recreational vehicles. They later also chose to travel by water, navigating their houseboat to places that few landlocked Charlotte-based boats ever see. They started in Lake Norman, then explored many major rivers, the Intracoastal Waterway, the New York Harbor and the open sea off the East Coast.

Bob and Pat didn't limit their trips to North America; they traveled around the globe on frequent tours and cruises. When Bob was in his seventies, he and Pat hiked the 73 miles of Hadrian's Wall, from the west coast to the east coast of Britain, along with three of their hardiest cohorts.

All the while, Bob and Pat remained active in both the Newell and Charlotte communities, in local ballroom dance clubs, at Newell Presbyterian Church and as hosts of countless parties and holiday events at their home. Bob never gave up the real estate business, and he actively managed properties until the last day of his life. He'd frequently say that he lived in a retirement community, but he never considered himself to be fully retired - he was putting that off until someday later when he got old.

A celebration of Bob's life will be held at a future time, when everyone is able to attend in person. Please email [email protected] with your contact information now to be notified later. Memorial donations can be made to Hospice and Palliative Care of the Charlotte Region (www.hpccr.org).

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Charlotte Observer on Apr. 19, 2020.

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Janet Knight

April 13, 2025

I think about Bob and Pat all the time. I still miss them.

Janet Knight

April 13, 2024

I am still fortunate to have Bob's and Pat's wonderful dog Riley. He is slowing down a little as he is now 15 years old. Bob and Pat would appreciate how well he is doing. I miss you guys.

Janet Knight

April 13, 2023

Although I didn't know Bob and Pat for very long I have the privledge of taking care of their beloved Riley. Riley grieved for them for some time but now the is the happy boy that they knew. I hope to have him for many years to come as he is a comfort and joy to me as he was to the two of them.

Janet Knight

April 13, 2021

Bob Godley was probably the kindest most generous man I have ever known and I am proud to call him my friend. I think of him and his beloved Pat very often. I miss him very much.

Alana

April 21, 2020

He was kind and sweet to me. I liked seeing him come into the dining room where I worked and say Hi Darling! Just before this whole Coronavirus stuff started he tried to get me to go to Hawaii with him so we could escape it , that is a memory I wont forget. We will miss you Bob, save a seat for me and we can finally have lunch together!

JANET KNIGHT

April 20, 2020

Bob, I remember the first time that we met. I was with our friend Shay and you and Pat were at The Landmark Restaurant. I didn't realize at that time what good friends we would become. The kindness and generosity you showed me was like no other and I will truly miss you. Rest in peace my friend knowing your little dog, Riley, will live like a prince with me.

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