MELBOURNE, Fla. | Cmdr. Robert Francis Wenzel, USN, Retired, 85, died in Melbourne, Fla. on Oct. 26, 2015.
Bob was born in Auburn, N.Y. on Sept. 12, 1930. He graduated from Auburn East High School and enlisted in the Navy in 1948. While in the Navy, he graduated from the University of Southern California, the U.S. Naval Post Graduate School, George Washington University (MBA), and the Armed Forces Staff College.
Cmdr. Wenzel had three distinct careers, the first and his proudest with the U.S. Navy, where he served his country as a fighter pilot in the Korean War, an aircraft carrier pilot, flight squadron commander, and instructor; the second as an executive with Bristol Myers Squibb in Syracuse, N.Y.; and the third as an international business consultant IESC (International Executive Service Corps) in Sri Lanka and Ukraine.
Bob served his fellow man as a volunteer in New York and in Florida, from chairman of Consolidated Industries, to President of the Cayuga County ARC, to the Satellite Beach Civilian Patrol. He was honored to be awarded the 4th Degree Knighthood with the Knights of Columbus of the Florida-Desoto Province.
Church, family, country, and the Navy were the highest priorities for Bob. He had very high standards for himself, his children, and those around him, and was proud of his professional and personal achievements and especially those of his children and grandchildren.
A farmer's son, he worked hard all his life and applied that work ethic to his achievements as a naval officer, executive, and community volunteer. An avid sportsman, Bob loved to hunt and fish, and shared his love of the outdoors with his family, camping in the Adirondacks and boating in the Finger Lakes. He was skilled at home improvements and carpentry, skills he taught to his children and grandchildren.
The family offers special thanks to the staff at Autumn House for the gift of their professional care rendered with tenderness and dignity.
Bob was predeceased by his parents, Herbert J. and Irene S. Wenzel, and his sisters, Elizabeth (Church) and Barbara.
Survivors include his wife, Diane; children, Patti (John) Callahan, of Syracuse, Susan (Charles) Glover, of Suffolk, VA., Nancie Arquette, of Auburn, Robert Jr. (Barbara), of Keller, TX, and Elisabeth (James) Devaney, of Wading River, NY; 14 grandchildren; four great-grandchildren; step children, Jeff and Scott Cargill, and two grandchildren. Opa will be missed by many! He is also survived by his former wife, June Purington Graybill; as well as many cousins, nieces, and nephews.
To celebrate Bob's life, a Mass of Christian burial was held on Wednesday, Oct. 28, 2015 at St. John The Evangelist Church, Melbourne, Fla. A memorial ceremony will be held in Central New York at a date/time to be determined. Bob will be buried in Arlington National Cemetery with full military honors.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Bob's memory may be made to Brevard Alzheimer's Foundation, 4676 N. Wickham Road, Melbourne, FL 32935, or Seneca Cayuga ARC (for Camp Columbus), 1521 Clark St. Road, Auburn, NY 13021.
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October 30, 2015
To all of the Wenzel kids from all of the Mogish kids, we're so very sorry for the loss of your Dad. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
October 29, 2015
Susan and Family, we were saddened to hear of your Dad's passing. We send our condolences, love, and prayers for strength and peace in the days to come.
RC and Janet Lilley
Chesapeake, VA
October 29, 2015
Good by to my boss and mentor he made me a better man Jean and I are very sadden for his family we loved
him so much
John Jean Finocchiaro
October 28, 2015
My prayers for peace and comfort go out to the entire family on your loss. Bob will be missed. Diane Zizzo
Nancy Chapman
October 27, 2015
Patti and family... sincere condolences on the loss of your Dad...
Love and Peace,
Nancy
Patti Wenzel Callahan
October 27, 2015
Note to anyone checking... the obituary does not include the date of the funeral. It will take place on Wednesday October 28 at 3 pm at St. John the Evangelist in Melbourne. Thank you to all who have our family in their prayers!
Joe & Ellie McAvoy
October 27, 2015
Patti, your Mom and whole family are in our prayers.
Bob...GOOD GUY!
Joe & Ellie
Moe Minarcin
October 27, 2015
Sorry for your loss, looks like you lost a great man plus he was your Father. Thoughts and prayer are with you and the family.
Hilda & Bill
October 27, 2015
"My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest" Exodus 33:14
May you rest in PEACE. Now, Uncle Bob, you are safe!......much love and our condolences to the family, Hilda Wenzel Sexstone and Bill
Richard VanGiesen
October 27, 2015
My condolences to the Wenzel/Callahan family.
S. Linda Joseph
October 27, 2015
peace to your family. The sisters are praying for all of you
Pam [Hewitt] Thomas
October 26, 2015
Dear Patty, Susan, Nancy, Robert, Elizabeth and families. My thoughts, love and prayers are with you all.
May the memories and love from family and friends surround you at this time.
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