Stephen K. Bender

hey uncle steve i miss you so much and i wish that you were here with us. i got my tattoo for khai and i no u no who he is even thought you werent here to see him bnut ino u were lookinh down on us a nd u seen him happier than ever. he is up in Heavan with u now so take careof him. i am going in a couple weeks to go git the tattoo for u i got khais already on saturday i love it. mom and eddie r having a hard time with all of this still and so is the whole family. can u keep an eye on my dad...

hey

i miss u so much. im about to graduate in about 3 months. Theres so much that u are missing. i wish that u were here its not the same with out u. Im still saying that i wish that u could have met chris he just bought a harley its really nice, we'll be carful on it. chris is the best thing that has happe to me and i think maybe that he might propose to me when it ourone year thats may 12. I love u so much a nd i miss u. Ill see u some day but till ten ill keep writing u.

HEY
i wish u were hear its been so boring and u havent met chris, i love this boy so much, you would like him. But everythings been going pretty good, me and jenn are about to graduate this year wishu were hear to see us walk across the stage. Grams been upset since aunt debbie moved to florida i think that she is going to move down there to but then you know that mom cant be away from her so she will to. I really think that i am going to marry this boy he is so great he plays around...

Hey uncle steve,
Well its like 5:30 in the morning and I cant sleep. A lot of things have changed here. Im married now, with 2 kids...well 3 if you include my stepson Corey. But yea..definately different. Josh is almost 3 now, I was pregnant with him when you died. And then there is Billy, my little Angel. He is not even 2 yet.
I think about you all the time still. My wedding was really hard without you there. But I know you and Granddad are watching me, and I hope your proud. Im not...

I miss u uncle steve 4real things have been crazy i think about u everyday not a day passes i dont sit back and laugh about sumthin u did. I havnt wrote u inawhile but i come out to visit u at least once a week its been crazy. Aunt Kristy is still a big part of my life Diane died and it just was fair she lost both u guys so close 2gether its kinda crazy i just cant wait untill im as high as u are so i can see ur smiling agian

Dear Uncle Steve i miss you alot you were my best uncle i wish that you were stil here everybody mises you you were so funy the bely dancing that you used to do i started doing it momy always tels me that it reminds her of you.On Christmas everybody missed you everbody was also crying because you were not there.You are the best person in the world that i new you always new how to cheer a person up when they were down.Well got to go i miss you soo much Love you always Rebecca!!!!!

Hi Brother,

I think about you and miss you everyday. Its ben over 2 years and I stil fel like I am going backwards. I feel like my whole life is out of control.I know you are in a better place, but how I wish you were still here with us. I play that last day I saw you over and over in my mind. I have learned one thing you left us, and that is just how important my family is to me. I get so scared when I start thinking who wil be next. I don't know how I will go through the pain...

Uncle Steve,
well IDK where to start...2006 was one of the worst years..alot of bad things happened last year...well i wish u were still here because u made life seem fun but now its just not worth living anymore..everyday seems harder and harder...i am about to graduate next year i cannot wait...i miss u so much i think about u all the time..me and jenn laugh sometimes when were together at the things u used to say to us..nd the things u used to do with us..i remember when me, jen, and...