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STEPHEN P. SHAW
Stephen Palmer Shaw, born July 14, 1972, in San Diego, CA, was killed in the line of duty on May 17, 2013. Steve was passionate about all aspects of life, his family, his friends and his work. No matter what the task at hand, Steve gave everything of himself. He was an inspiration and a role model to everyone he encountered - his work ethic, diligence and determination were unparalleled. He served his country for his entire adult life throughout many government agencies, Border Patrol, Diplomatic Security, Customs, and finally to his dream as a Special Agent with the Federal Bureau of Investigation. He personified the embodiment of being a loyal, selfless, and courageous member of the Hostage Rescue Team. He gave his life in the defense of his country. Servare Vitas. He is survived by his loving wife, son, daughter, sister and mother. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to either of the following organizations, Search Dog Foundation, SDF Headquarters, 501 East Ojai Ave., Ojai, CA 93023 - (888) 459-4376 or the Children's Hospital Foundation, 2924 Brooke Rd., Richmond, VA 23220 - (804)228-5814. Services private.Online condolences may be made at mullinsthompsonfredericksburg.com
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Jim Sperry
July 1, 2013
RIP, Steve. God bless you and your family. You will always be remembered as a friend and example of a life well lived. Thank you for making my college years all that much better and for the pictures when we visited from Colorado. Of course, thank you for serving our country.
Armando DC
June 18, 2013
From the moment I met Steve he showed many of the great qualities he had as an individual. He always welcomed questions and did not hesitate to assist in whatever way he could. He was a true leader and a great friend.
May 27, 2013
As you turn to God through your tears and sorrow, bear in mind, “He is the healer of the brokenhearted ones”. (Ps.147:3)
C Johnson
May 27, 2013
Stephen reach his goal in his work. He was so happy in his job..He gave it all he could Work, Family and Friends. YOUR THE BEST STEPHEN.
Comfort to his Family and every one he reach and touch through his life.
May 25, 2013
Words cannot express the sorrow my family and I feel at this time. Steve will always be that neighborhood kid on the move, playing with my son and daughter on Angell. We can only imagine what his wife, mom, and sister are going through, as well as his many family members and close friends. This Memorial Day weekend we thank Stephen, the heroic FBI Special Agent, for serving his country with courage and unselfishness. God bless you, Steve! We send our prayers and thoughts to those left behind who so loved you for your goodness and generous spirit.
With deepest sympathy,
The Lippe Family
Wayne and Jennifer Wheatley
May 25, 2013
We want to tell you how sorry we are for your terrible loss. We did not know your husband but did briefly meet him at our daughter's and late son-in-law's house, Becky and Rick vonMeister. Rick worked with your husband at MSD. We want to thank you for being there for him and supporting him in his job defending our country. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and family. God Bless you.
S. I. Drake, Lt/IPD (Ret)
May 24, 2013
~ Christie eleison, Kyrie eleison ~
Rest In Peace, faithful servant.
Beverly Wright, Chapter Secretary
May 24, 2013
The DC Chapter of the Society of Former Special Agents of the FBI extends its deepest sympathy to Stephen's family. We mourn the loss of our colleague who was among the strongest and bravest in our ranks.
Ashley
May 24, 2013
Stephen led an exemplary life, dedicating it to the service and protection of others; with passion, fearlessness, stalwart commitment and humility. His professionalism was balanced by a rare loyalty, compassion and omnipresent humor. He died tragically but doing what he loved and believed in to his very core. His family and friends will always remember his legacy of love and laughter. You will be honored and missed, Stephen Palmer Shaw. We will love and support your family. God speed and safety to your incredible HRT Brothers.
Jim Styn
May 23, 2013
I have many fond memories of sleeping over at "The Shaw Sheraton" (as Steve called it) when we were kids. Steve was a great friend and so fun to be around. Sending love and hugs to the Shaw family.
roger hayes
May 23, 2013
I am sorry about the loss of Steve. He worked for me at Trader Publications in San Diego while in high school. I remember he always wanted to be with the FBI. He and his close friend Mark Hittenger were 2 of my best employees. hard working and dedicated. Our country has lost a great american. RIP Steve
May 23, 2013
Godspeed. Thank you for your service.
Betty and Michael Gromme
May 22, 2013
We were sorry to hear of your family's terrible loss. Our love and prayers are with your and friends during this sad time.
Betty and Michael Gromme'
San Diego
Margie Smith
May 22, 2013
While we did not know Stephen, we saw his obituary in the L.A. Times and wanted to offer our condolences and say 'thank you' to Stephen for defending our country. And to his friends and family, thank you for supporting him in performing the most important mission in our country. Our thoughts are with you and are so sorry for your loss. What he did for our country will not be forgotten...
Rebecca von Meister
May 22, 2013
My heart breaks for you and your family. I met Steve on a number of occasions when he & my late husband, Rick von Meister, worked together at MSD. Steve visited as well as called to check on me & my son after Rick passed away. He was kind, attentive & giving. Always looking out for others. I am so sorry for your loss.
A. Ford
May 22, 2013
I Am Still In Shock...Your Smiling Face And Fantastic Personality Makes This News That Much Harder To Swallow...I Can't Say I Have Encountered Many Guys Like Yourself, You Were Always Pleasant And Your Aura Was Unforgettable. You Gave The Ultimate Sacrifice, And I Will Forever Be Grateful. Thank You And May You Rest Easy.
Todd Kmentt
May 22, 2013
Those of you who read this and know my relationship with Steve was a relationship that only the closeness brothers could have shared; we were inseparable at DSS, Gold's Gym, the gyro shop. I lost touch with Steve over the last several years after DSS and MSD due to a very difficult divorce that Steve and my good friends knew about. Even without contact, my bond with Steve was never from my heart; and with the deep sorrow and regret I carry for losing contact, I know he felt me as much as I felt him. There is a great emptiness and pain in my heart today. God has a new Warrior in his kingdom; a great friend and a man I loved; Shawzie. Thank you for touching my life Steve Shaw. Todd Kmentt; DSS/MSD
May 22, 2013
Everyone who worked with you in MSD will always remember you as a great teammate and friend. See you again someday Brother.
SA Steve Shaw
May 22, 2013
RIP Steve. . . You will be sorely missed by your sisters & brothers in arms. You projected a subtle air of confidence, humility, dry wit of humor, intelligence, trustworthiness & zest for everything life has to offer. I have fond memories of our training sessions at the gym & runs all round Orange County, CA wherever work took us & time permitted. You embodied every notable characteristic I admire in an individual, a partner & as a best friend.
SA Steve Shaw
May 22, 2013
RIP Steve. . . You will be sorely missed by your sisters & brothers in arms. You projected a subtle air of confidence, humility, dry wit of humor, intelligence, trustworthiness & zest for everything life has to offer. I have fond memories of our training sessions at the gym & runs all round Orange County, CA wherever work took us & time permitted. You embodied every notable characteristic I admire in an individual, a partner & as a best friend.
Mariam Saadvandi Lisker
May 22, 2013
I am so sorry to see the news about Steve. Although we hadn't spoken in years, I will always remember him for his friendliness,kindness and dedication to everything he believed in. He was a great man and will be missed, but never forgotten. Steve and his family are in my thoughts.
May 22, 2013
Thank you Agent Shaw for your service to our county. Because of men and women like you and Agent Lorek, our country remains free. May your life of service bring peace to your mother, wife, children, and siblings.
A Proud American
May 22, 2013
God bless you Steve and your family. You were a hero and a friend to those of your academy class. You will always be missed.
K
May 22, 2013
Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, “Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?”
And I said, “Here am I. Send me!”
May 22, 2013
Gone but never forgotten HR 73.....we will miss you always, your teammates on HRT
A Grateful American
May 21, 2013
Thank you for your service to our country. May God comfort your family and friends and your co-workers in the difficult days ahead.
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