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BARTMAN THOMAS ROBERT BARTMAN Thomas Robert Bartman, 59, died on May 13, 2013 due to complications from ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease). He is survived by his wife, Caroline Dixon Bartman "Nenie"; and daughters, Caroline Ruth Wyche Bartman and Jane Watkins Dixon Bartman of Washington, DC. He is also survived by his mother, Pauline Ruth Eidt Bartman; sister, Elizabeth Bartman Smith; brother-in-law, John D. Smith; and niece and nephews of McLean, VA; and brother-in-law, Joe Dixon, Jr. of Columbia, SC. He was predeceased by his father, Robert Bartman. Tom was born in Frankfurt, Germany, and spent most of his childhood years in Frankfurt and Munich, developing a lifelong interest in German language and culture. He graduated with honors from Haverford College in Pennsylvania, received a Masters of Philosophy from Yale University in German Literature and a J.D. from the University of Virginia. Following law school, he clerked for the Honorable D. Dortch Warriner in the US District Court for the Eastern District of Virginia. Tom practiced law in the fields of environmental and Native American law with various DC law firms, the Department of Justice, and most recently the Solicitor's Office of the Department of the Interior. An active member of the National Presbyterian Church, where he served as deacon, elder, and Stephen Minister, he was especially proud of his participation in the National Presbyterian Church choir, which complemented his love of classical music. For the past few years, including December 2012, he participated in the NPC Festival Choir's performance of the Messiah. Tom's life was exemplified by his willingness to serve, whether it was writing the deacon's newsletter for his parish, donating blood and platelets to the Red Cross or helping his daughters create Halloween costumes. He also approached life with a deep intellectual curiosity. He researched the best ways of staying fit and ran most recently in the 20ll Bethesda-Chevy Chase Turkey Chase 10K with his daughters. Traveling was another passion of his, with trips to Europe, China and India as well as a memorable rafting trip down the Colorado River in the Grand Canyon with South Carolina friends. The family wishes to thank Narine, Laura and Julie as well as staff members at The Washington Home for their supportive caregiving. The family is also grateful to the staff at Iona Senior Services' Wellness & Arts Center for the many hours Tom spent in their exceptional program. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the National Presbyterian Church (4101 Nebraska Ave. NW Washington, DC 20016), the DC/MD/VA Chapter of the ALS Association (7507 Standish Place Rockville, MD 20855), or Iona Senior Services (4125 Albemarle St. NW Washington, DC 20016). Services previously held

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Published by The Washington Post from May 22 to May 24, 2013.

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Edris Nawin

February 24, 2018

Hello. Tom Bartman was a friend of mine and I was saddened to hear that he left us. As my condolences go to his family, I am obligated to state that the obituary on his legacy site is not written by me. I can assume it was written by someone who knew me and knew about my friendship with Tom. I am asking the admin of this site to kindly remove the obituary that someone else has written using my name. Thank you. Edris Nawin / Washington D.C.

Pat Burke

June 2, 2013

Dear Nenie, Caroline, and Jane,
There is little to add to what has already been said but I've known Tom from church for almost 15 years and he was the most thoughtful, devoted, kind and totally effective man I've dealt with. No job was too large or too small for him and he did them all with joy and total dedication--both to God and to his family as well. His time with you and with us was much too short. May our prayers support you all and may God's arms encircle you, just as Tom's did, to give you comfort. He will not be forgotten and he has left you all a legacy of love.

May 27, 2013

Grief can be unbearable, but our special memories help us cope. Praying for strength for you and your family. (Ps. 46:1)

C Johnson

May 26, 2013

I give my condolences to the Bartamn family. May the God of all comfort be with you during your times of sadness.

Marci

May 23, 2013

I can only imagine the loss you are feeling at this time. Although I never knew Tom, it is obvious he was a wonderful person to have so many people that love and care for him. He is now precious in God's eyes as Psalm 116:15 says. I pray it brings you comfort to know that he is now in God's memory and will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

May 23, 2013

May the God of refuge and strength be your source of comfort at this time.

Craig Messner

May 20, 2013

Dear Bartman Family:
I am so sorry to learn of Tom's passing, and regret that I missed the memorial service. He always had a smile and a kind word for me, especially during my painful divorce. I am glad his suffering has ended, and I look forward to joining him in singing praises to God in the heavenly choir one day.

Rene Bowditch

May 19, 2013

Dear Nenie,
Tom leaving this earth so young is a shock, but I'm so glad he had you and the girls to make his life so rich! I remember well your wedding and recently came across a photo of all the Judge's clerks together with you. I wish I could have been at the service but John R. says it was perfect! I am talking to the two Johns about meeting in Gloucester for our own reunion in the not too distant future, and would love to have you attend as well. We could spend the whole time telling stories and celebrating your Tom. With affection and many hugs, Rene

Sonny Rimback

May 18, 2013

Dear Bartman Family,
Always ready with a friendly smile and greeting, a wonderful, faithful Deacon, I will miss his presence at NPC.

Laurie McDonald Fite

May 18, 2013

Nenie, Please know that you are in my prayers during this time. Cherish all the wonderful memories and know that Tom is now healthy and at peace.

Cathy Sturkie

May 17, 2013

Oh, nenie-this just breaks my heart for you. It sounds like Tom was a wonderful person full of spiritual love. Please embrace your memories and hold them them tightly.

May 17, 2013

Nenie, You and your family are certainly in my thoughts and prayers. Reading the notes about your husband from his friends confirms that he must have been a very special man. Anne McNeely Forest

May 16, 2013

Nenie,

You and your family are very much in my prayers.

Jamie Burnett

Dennis Daugherty

May 16, 2013

We miss Tom and I know you miss him much more. He brought much encouragement to those of us who had the privilege of working with him. Now he's with His Lord whom he loved so much.

May 16, 2013

Dearest Bartman Family, Neenie and Ruth especially – good neighbor (briefly), great friend always, Tom shall be in our hearts and prayers until our own days –Helen and Dutch

Mike Lucero

May 16, 2013

Dear Bartman family,
I had the pleasure of knowing Tom and developed a friendship with him during his work at the Interior. We enjoyed some time searching for documents in Lenexa, KS and a great steak dinner in Kansas City! He will be missed by the OHTA Tribal Team as well as by all. May the Great Spirit carrying him on the wings of an Eagle to the heavens above. May the love of family and friends carry you through...
Mike Lucero

Jill Kern

May 15, 2013

Dear Bartmans,
I have many wonderful memories of Tom -- visiting him at UVA long ago, sharing meals with him recently at Indian, Mexican and Mediterranean restaurants, singing some of his favorite hymns with him, and walking around your neighborhood while he told me all about his favorite landmarks. I was so impressed with his knowledge of music and German, and his love of learning in general. Our family will miss him very much! Love to all of you.

Joan

May 15, 2013

Dear Nenie,
We hold the memory of Tom deep in our hearts, especially from the good times with our daughters at NCS and U of Chicago.
With sympathy,
Joan and Clay

Jonathan Kern

May 15, 2013

To all of Tom's family, know that I will always remember him as a great friend and a fine person, and will miss him keenly.

Phyllis Leslie

May 15, 2013

Dear Bartman family,
May the Lord comfort you this very hour. I'm proud to say that I knew Tom--as my DOI colleague, as my Bible study partner, as my friend. I will miss him, but I'll cherish his memory forever. Be encouraged in Jesus' name, Phyllis Leslie

Edwin Betsill

May 15, 2013

Dear Neenie, May your hearts soon be filled with Wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Edwin

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