Thomas Allen Bentley

I have many memories with Tom together on the wrestling team in high school. We had a great friendship during those years and spent time listening to music. I remember we installed an 8-Track player and speakers in my 1967 oldsmobile and drove around listening to the beatles, Cream and many other Classic Rock bands just enjoying life. I lost touch with Tom after High School, but the words I have read about him don;t surprise me. That he was compassionate, a lifelong student that was...

The following is the eulogy I gave at Tom’s memorial service on Saturday August 23. I was honored to have the opportunity to speak about my brother before his family and friends. More than that, I am honored to have been his brother. Thank you to all who were able to attend, and to those who have posted messages, sent personal emails, and called any number of us:

Webster’s defines the term Renaissance man as a person of varying skills, interests and abilities. I can think of no better...

I was so sad to hear of Tom’s death. My heart felt sympathy goes out to Tom’s family and friends. Tom was a clever, playful person I am so sorry he is gone. I have countless fond memories of our days together. From watching him playing softball, installing drywall, fishing and telling stories…there is so much more.
My thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. With deep Sympathy. Sincerely, Sylvina W. Rollins

My deepest sympathy to Tom's family. Tom was a dear friend of mine since the 6th grade. We shared many happy moments, in school, in sports, out of school, and we've managed to keep in touch all these years. I will miss our conversations very much!! Rest peacefully, my friend!!

I am very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. It has been a long time since I have known Tom, but I have fond memories for him and his brother John. Tom will be in our prayers.

Rick Beaulieu

To Tab's family,

We are saddened to hear of Tab's untimely passing and so very sorry of your loss. Ken recalls fond memories of childhood times spent together on Lake Saint Catherine, in Vermont, riding in Uncle Bob's "booby-hatch" car. He also recalls eating mayonnaise sandwiches in the Stonybriook, Long Island house.

May your cherished memories be a comfort to you during this difficult time.

Love and deepest sympathy to Uncle Bob and Aunt Odette.

You are in our...

Tom was an extraordinary man who guided me through many tough times in my life. Sometimes it was "tough love" as he would call it but it made me a better man and father to my kids. He was a good father,friend,and confidant. We will miss him very much. He was always the guy I sought out for advice on a variety of issues. I want to extend our condolences to the entire family.

Uncle Bob and Aunt Odette, We were so sad to hear about Tom's passing. You have my deepest sympathy and will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Our sincere and deepest sympathies go out to the family and friends of Tom (Tab).