Thomas A. DePersis

I miss you. Have a Gin and Tonic waiting for me when I get there.

Tomas, You will be deeply missed by all whose lives you have touched. as you always said once a friend always a friend. and I am so glad that we kept in contact with one another through out the years, To the DePersis family my prays are with you at this time \. Cindy

What can I say about you Tommy, you were a great friend to me and father over the years! I will never forget all the good times and laughs we all spent together..wish I could have made it up!! You will be greatly missed, love ya man!!

For those of you that could not attend the funeral yesterday, below are the words that I spoke of my uncle....

My grandmother asked me to say a few words about my uncle. I told her that there was no way I was going to be able to speak today and then I got the look that told me I would be doing exactly that and standing here speaking. Now any of you that know my grandmother know what I am talking about and that somehow you don’t quite say no to her. My uncle used to tell me that she...

Tommy was a spirited person. He had a special gift about him that made everyone feel welcomed and loved. We were truely lucky to be apart of his circle her on earth. Till we met again big guy...... may your cup overflow........ Much sympathy to the family. Our thought and prayers are with you. Tommy will be greatly missed. The world has lost a precious gift. Love ya Tommy!

The DePersis Family,I am so sorry to hear of Tom,s passing.I met Tom back in the 80,s when he worked for the Town of Dickinson with my father.We later became better friends as we got to know each other.I will remember Tom for the good man he was and how he enjoyed his family, friends and life.May He Rest In Peace.

Dorothy and Theresa, I have known your family for 33 years. Tom was unique!! He tried to act tough but had this gentle side that few people saw. Family and friendship were important to him. Once you were his friend, you were always his friend. Through out the years, I could call him at any time and he would be there;something I always cherished.
The last time I talked to Tom was in April when Theresa was in the hospital. We ironically talked about death. He wanted to be at...

Many sympathies from Sue (Terenzi) Seidenberg and our whole family in Rochester.

Dorothy & Theresa:

Sorry to hear of the passing of your son and brother. Please know that our prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Hank and Sheila Runyon