Merced, California
1943 - 2017
Thomas Caswell Grave March 20, 1943 - October 4, 2017 Tom Grave of Merced, CA, died at home surrounded by friends and family at the age of 74 after a long struggle against relentless inflammatory lung disease. He packed many lifetimes of adventure into those years, on lengthy camping trips in the...
Read MoreI was inspired by the wit and wisdom of both Tom and Kara. Serving with then to benedit our kids was empowering and challenging. Thanks to both of you gifted ones for your professionalism and caring. Fred Fredette, retired MCS- counselor
October 16, 2017
I am glad I had the honoring of knowing and protesting with you. Love to Kara and your children.
Byerly Woodward
October 16, 2017
Had the privilege of working with Tom at Merced City Schools. He was one-of-a-kind. Sincere condolences to his family.
Emilia Torres
October 15, 2017 | Merced, CA
My condolences to Toms family. Tom encouraged and supported me professionally and for that, Im extremely grateful. My thoughts are with all of us whose life he has touched in some way.
Karen Steele
October 12, 2017
Aaaah, such a good guy. He made the world a better place.
October 12, 2017
My condolences and sympathy to the family. I remember Tom best when he worked for a brief time as my school site administrator. He will be greatly missed.
October 12, 2017
You truly touched so many lives. We will miss you dear friend...
Leslie and Claire Littlefield
October 12, 2017 | Turlock, CA
I am sad about Tom's passing. I met him when I lived in Merced and attended the antiwar protests. And we both had compassion for feral and stray cats. I feel blessed that I got to know him.
Mary Lou Wilson
October 11, 2017 | Albuquerque, NM
Tom was intelligent, professional, reliable, witty, and an advocate for children. A good man. May he Rest In Peace.
Alice Van Der Laan
October 11, 2017 | Indio, CA
