Thomas Francis Lehmkuhl

Dearest Tom, it's 2021, and,I miss you more than ever. You and Dick are in God's strong arms. We three take care of each other, and remember happy times with you. Blessings and love forever. Joan

Tom, it's been three years since you died, but you live with God, your Creator,and you live in my thoughts, great memories, and in the love of Dede and Megan. Blessings and love, forever.Joan

Tom,I'm blessed to be here with Dede and Megan,who miss you terribly, and so do I in my way. You brought so much love, gentleness,fun,safety into my life.I'm honored to call you son and love you forever. I hope you and Dick are at peace and joy.

Tom, it's been almost a year since you died, but you remain alive in memories, in spirit...your spirit...which I feel closeby often. The life you shared with Dede, your wife, our daughter, brought Dick and me assurance that goodness prevails. Your legacy is smiles, kindness, generosity, love, still alive in all who knew you, most especially in your daughter, our granddaughter, Megan, who reminds us of you so much. Thanks for being you. GO GIANTS, GO 49ers

I just had a friend of mine convert an old VHS tape to DVD of my surprise 30th birthday party. Tommy and DeDe were there at my parent's home in Stockton. My 59th birthday just passed a month ago and I usually would get a call from Tom around that time every year. You are still alive in my memories and missed Tom!

I have only recently learned of Thomas's passing. I did not know this man, but I knew the Wagner family well, having done a lot of growing up in that household and having been close to Dede in our younger years. By association, although I never met him, I know that Tom must've been a man of extraordinary quality. I offer my sincere condolences and wish the entire Wagner family, and especially Dede and Megan, comfort and the smoothest possible path forward during this challenging time. All the...

My dear son-in-law, Tom--how I miss you already. However, I feel you nearby,through your wife--our daughter,Dede;and through your daughter--our granddaughter, Megan. I also feel you because I've known and loved you since 1986. Rest easy, as you lived, bringing peace and love to us all. You will always be in my heart.