Tom Lehmkuhl passed away suddenly on Saturday. Everyone loved him and will deeply miss his gentle nature, kindness and sense of humor. He was born to the late Bettye & Herman Lehmkuhl and raised in Millbrae, attended St. Dunstan School, graduated Capuchino High School and earned a degree at College of San Mateo. He worked faithfully in the grocery business for Draeger's Market the last 10 years and before that, Cala Foods for 27 years.
Survived by Dede, the love of his life, married 29 years; devoted daughter Megan; sisters Catherine Chrisman (Dale) of Pahrump, NV & Shirley Sarracino (Kelly) of South S.F.; nephew Tony Sarracino (Suzie); grandniece Lily of Santa Clara; and nieces Amy Buckwalter of N. Las Vegas & Elizabeth Sarracino-Vilanova (Rob) of Pacifica.
Tom enjoyed his annual backpacking in the Sierras, as well as golfing, reading, listening to his extensive music collection, being with friends and extended family and especially being with Dede and Megan. The trio are longtime enthusiastic Giants fans and went on their first trip to Europe last summer, seeing Tom's countries of heritage in Germany and Ireland and also visiting the Netherlands. We are forever grateful for Tom's loving presence in our lives.
Memorial Service will be held at 2pm on Saturday, April 29th at the Episcopal Church of the Epiphany, 1839 Arroyo Ave., San Carlos, CA. Reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations are welcome to either Junior Giants baseball or Second Harvest Food Bank.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Apr. 25 to Apr. 28, 2017.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Lehmkuhl

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21 Entries

Joan Wagner

April 19, 2021

Dearest Tom, it's 2021, and,I miss you more than ever. You and Dick are in God's strong arms. We three take care of each other, and remember happy times with you. Blessings and love forever. Joan

Joan Wagner

April 20, 2020

Tom, it's been three years since you died, but you live with God, your Creator,and you live in my thoughts, great memories, and in the love of Dede and Megan. Blessings and love, forever.Joan

Joan Wagner

April 21, 2019

Tom,I'm blessed to be here with Dede and Megan,who miss you terribly, and so do I in my way. You brought so much love, gentleness,fun,safety into my life.I'm honored to call you son and love you forever. I hope you and Dick are at peace and joy.

Joan Wagner

April 10, 2018

Tom, it's been almost a year since you died, but you remain alive in memories, in spirit...your spirit...which I feel closeby often. The life you shared with Dede, your wife, our daughter, brought Dick and me assurance that goodness prevails. Your legacy is smiles, kindness, generosity, love, still alive in all who knew you, most especially in your daughter, our granddaughter, Megan, who reminds us of you so much. Thanks for being you. GO GIANTS, GO 49ers

Jim Sutherland-Moore

December 8, 2017

I just had a friend of mine convert an old VHS tape to DVD of my surprise 30th birthday party. Tommy and DeDe were there at my parent's home in Stockton. My 59th birthday just passed a month ago and I usually would get a call from Tom around that time every year. You are still alive in my memories and missed Tom!

Gary Gibson

August 2, 2017

I have only recently learned of Thomas's passing. I did not know this man, but I knew the Wagner family well, having done a lot of growing up in that household and having been close to Dede in our younger years. By association, although I never met him, I know that Tom must've been a man of extraordinary quality. I offer my sincere condolences and wish the entire Wagner family, and especially Dede and Megan, comfort and the smoothest possible path forward during this challenging time. All the best to you all.

Dede Lehmkuhl

June 18, 2017

A light shines for you, dearest Tom, always. Especially in this month of June, in honor of our wedding anniversary, and for Father's Day 2017. We love you now as we did in your earthly life, a love that endures forever. Love from Dede and Megan

Dede Lehmkuhl

June 18, 2017

Joan Wagner

May 6, 2017

My dear son-in-law, Tom--how I miss you already. However, I feel you nearby,through your wife--our daughter,Dede;and through your daughter--our granddaughter, Megan. I also feel you because I've known and loved you since 1986. Rest easy, as you lived, bringing peace and love to us all. You will always be in my heart.

Jimmy Sutherland

May 2, 2017

Tommy was my neighbor and my first and oldest friend since we were 5 years old. I am saddened beyond words and wish all who loved him, and he loved, the best

April 29, 2017

We were so sorry to hear this. Condolences to the family.
Mary Jo and Trish
Paddy and Ellen

Jean Forbes

April 27, 2017

You will be missed Tom by all the Forbes family. We have such good memories over the years growing up in Millbrae. They will never be forgotten. Love, Jean Forbes, Valerie and Scott.

April 27, 2017

Megan and Dede.

Please accept my condolences on the loss of Tom. Ar dheis dé go raibh a anam.

I will be in New Jersey Saturday, for my mother's 95th birthday celebration. And so must miss the service.

My heart goes out to both of you.

-Chris Donnelly

Annette Gutierrez

April 26, 2017

I am so sorry, Dede and Megan, for your loss. May he Rest in Peace. ✝

Alex and Meredith Watt

April 26, 2017

Memories of Tom will enrich our lives forever and heaven is improved by his presence. We wish him "fair winds and calm seas" on his journey. With all our love,

Matthew Wagner

April 26, 2017

Quiet, thoughtful and always ready with a witty quip (with perfect timing!) - thanks for taking such good care of my sister...we miss you terribly...

Mary Ann Draeger

April 26, 2017

Tom always had a gentle wonderful smile for everyone that entered his department. Tom you are truly missed by all.

Karen Tezyk

April 25, 2017

I, too, have been a long time neighbor of the family. Tom was so dedicated to DeDe and Megan. Whenever I would see him, I always got a smile and a wave. In a time when people seem way caught up in themselves, Tom was the opposite. I loved seeing the family's excitement on opening day of the Giants. I pray that those who knew him can find peace in knowing that he is now in the loving arms of God.

Bob and Judi Seguin

April 25, 2017

We are sending love and hugs to Dede and Megan. We didn't get to see Tom very often, but when we were together we found Tom to be a loving, devoted husband and father. Bob totally enjoyed playing golf with Tom when we were visiting Dede's Mom and Dad. We wish we could have spent more time with him in Maine.

Nicole McKeever

April 25, 2017

Sending our prayers and thoughts to all of you!

Michael & Diane French

April 25, 2017

Tom was my neighbor and was one of those guys who always had a smile and a wave for you. He was quiet and likeable. A great guy to live next to for all these years. Tom and DeDe were there for my wife and I after we lost our son to suicide always with a comforting voice or smile when needed. Tom was one of the old-timers here at 707 Old County Road and he will be missed. God Bless You Tom and God be with your family at this time of sorrow.

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