Thomas-Messmer-Obituary

Thomas A. Messmer Sr.

Rochester, New York

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Messmer, Thomas A., Sr. Rochester: February 12, 2010, at age 77. Loving father of Janet Whitbeck, Ellen Eberts, Tom Jr. (Dragon) Messmer and their mother Mary Jean Bissett: grandchildren, Carolyn & Tom Whitbeck, Jane & Brit Eberts and many dear friends. Tom was a friend of Bill...

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Mary Jean - I am saddened by Tom's passing - I received no notice and did not realize he was having serious problems. The last I heard from him was at Christmas where he hinted at having some issues but he did not say they were life threatening. "Pete"

Belatedly, I express my deep sympathy to all of Tom's family and friends on your great loss. I especially remember his sense of humor and fun. May all your memories comfort you now!

I will miss Tom tremendously.I was very fortunate to have him as a friend.He taught me a great deal about life.So he will always be part of me. Mike & Lin Gates

So sorry to hear of the passing of your dear father/grandfather! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May he live on in your memories forever.

Dear Tom and family,
Your dad was a fine human being with gentle strength and conviction. It was wonderful seeing him and listening to him share his life stories. Everyone loved and respected Tom. I will miss him very much. My prayers are with you all.

Dear Tom's family, We are deeply saddened for the loss of your Dad our dear friend. Tommy lived near and was our brother Bill Bonamies best friend during their teen years. We kept in touch on and off over the years as he was like a brother to all of us. He fought this battle with great courage, faith and dignity. We will miss this special man. God's blessing to all of you. Cathy and John (Bonamie) Rombaut and Bobbie and Gene (Bonamie) Barringer.

Jan,Tom & Ellen...
There will never be another person who touched my life the way your dad did..this chapter is closed for me, but Tommy will live in my heart forever. I know that he is in heaven with Grandma & Grandpa O'Neill, probably arguing politics with grandpa!! He was a ray of sunshine & an outstanding brother-in-law... Love to all of you.
Aunt Joby

Bygone memories of picnics, parties, summers on Crescent Beach, bonfires and fireworks on the 4th, baseball in the sand. Connie, Barb,and Tommy Messmer, The Lapples, Coyles and Daltons........So much fun....Those precious recollections. Bless you Tom, thanks for the memories all.