Thomas (T.R)-Ocheltree-Obituary

Thomas (T.R) Ocheltree

San Francisco, California

Sep 19, 1968 – Oct 5, 2025

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BORN
September 19, 1968
DIED
October 5, 2025
LOCATION
San Francisco, California

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Thomas Russell Ocheltree, Alexandra Grace Ocheltree and MacKenzie Louann Ocheltree left this earth in early October, 2025. They departed way too soon and will be forever in our hearts. Thomas Russell (T.R.) Ocheltree was born in Napa, CA September 19th, 1968. He grew up in Napa the youngest...

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I´ve know Alex all my life went to the same schools as her since kindergarten, we were best friends for a while, and we hung out everyday if we could. truly the kindest person I´ve ever met. I hope she´s in peace, I hope she knows she´s missed.

I didn't know Alex, and i was not in the same grade as her, but I saw her around the school and with my mutual friends. She was always smiling and laughing, and I remember thinking she was so pretty. Everyone misses her.

I was friends with Alex since 1 grade and I really miss all the time we hung out and had play dates. T.R Alex and MacKenzie were all very nice and I will miss them so much. Rest in Peace Ocheltree´s.

I was not that close with Alex but when I was around her she was always smiling. Her joy felt like it always radiated through the school! Rest in peace sweet girl.

We are missing our cherished, longtime and close friend TR and his smart, beautiful girls every day. Our hearts are broken over this tragic act of domestic violence that took TR, Alex and Mack far too soon. The laughter, joy and friendship we shared will remain with us forever. To honor TR and his girls, we made a donation to Rainbow Services, Ltd., a DV organization in Southern California that provides safety, shelter, healing and hope to survivors of DV, where Laura serves as the...

Our sincerest condolences in the terrible loss of Thomas, Alexandra, and MacKenzie. We did not know them, but we are close neighbors in Westwood Highlands, with children of similar age, and are just heartbroken for them and for you all. You're in our prayers. May they Rest in Peace. - Helen & Michael Ballard

Rest in eternal peace, TR, Alex & MacKenzie. Grace and blessings to your family and friends. Remembering happier times with you guys over the years.

To the family of Mr. Thomas Ocheltree, I did not know the family, but wanted to convey my sincere sympathy on this heartbreaking tragedy. I cannot fathom the loss of these beautiful children and their dad. May you find the strength to accept this loss. I'm so very sorry. I also pray that Alexandra and MacKenzie's classmates and friends can cope with their grief.

I miss my dear friend TR and his infectious joy and generosity. I will miss seeing his beautiful girls grow up. Such a huge loss of all the beauty and joy they could bring to the world. My heart weeps yet I cherish the memories that we shared over 3+ decades. Aloha o´e