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Toby Flowers Obituary

Toby Jackson Flowers, 80, of Germantown, TN, died Saturday, December 7, 2019, at her residence after a long battle with lung cancer.

Toby was born in Trenton, TN August 2, 1939, where she lived until she married the love of her life, William P. Flowers, Sr. They began their life together while William completed medical school, and started a family. They raised three boys, William Jr., Ken and Richard.

Toby was an active member of Germantown Baptist Church, where she was a member of the adult choir and the Hallelujah Chorus. She also taught an exercise class there (Flexercise) for over 25 years. She was a giver and gave all of her time and talent wherever needed.

She was an avid reader and always had a good book and a bible at her bedside. Her faith was obvious in her life and she took the diagnosis of lung cancer in stride, saying "It is what it is".

She was fun-loving, witty and wise, and lived life to the fullest.

She is survived by her three sons, William P. Flowers, Jr. (Kerry), Kenneth J. Flowers (Vickie) and Richard N. Flowers (Emily); Five grandchildren, Parks (Grace Ann), Molly, Preston, Steven (Allie) and John Scott.

She is predeceased by her parents, Eldon and Helen Jackson, and her husband, Dr. William P. Flowers, Sr.

Visitation will be from 11 am to 1 pm Friday, December 13, 2019, at Germantown Baptist Church, 9450 Poplar Avenue, with services to follow.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Daily Memphian on Dec. 10, 2019.

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January 5, 2020

I wish condolences to the family. We graduated from High School in Trenton TN in the same class. I did not know her that well but it seems was an exceptional person that got all she wanted from life. May she rest in eternal peace.

Paula Swain

December 11, 2019

You boys may not remember me, but I was your babysitter when you were little and lived on Philsdale. I lived across the street. Your Mom and Dad both were very special to me during that time and have never forgotten how wonderful they were. I loved you all 3 so much. When Richard was a little baby, I would go into his room, get him out of crib and rock him till he was asleep. You 2 older ones were a little too bit to be rocked but loved your antics and energy. I am just sorry I lost touch with your Mom. Just wanted you to know what fond memories I had of them, you boys and my many many times in your home that you may not even remember. Praying for comfort and peace. Paula Swain Alberson

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