Todd Barnes Cantlay

To my best friend and brother
I'm so sorry it ended like this
You were the best man I ever knew
You will be sorely missed

To Brooks: Even though I only met your dad in one meeting, he left an impression. I could tell how much he cared about you and how proud he was of you and your accomplishments. I cannot imagine how tough it is for you to have lost him in such an awful manner and then had to move. I pray for you often that God will give you the strength to go on and that your broken heart will mend a tiny bit each day. I hope you are making it OK.

I know there are no words but please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We shared a love of horses. He would often call and share stories of their latest antics. He always spoke of his sons and how much he loved them. He was a kind and gentle soul who will be missed. Our love and deepest sympathy to all of his family.

I worked with Todd at The Don and he was a good friend of mine. He gave my son tennis lessons. He was always fun to hang out with.He will be remembered for the kind and funny and loving friend that he was.

My deepest sympathies to Todd's Family. It was with great sadness that many of his classmates from grade school read and shared his obituary in the Bernardsville News. His family is in my thoughts and prayers,

Our deepest condolences to the entire Cantlay family. We knew Todd as a wonderful personality and great guitarist. He was a very good friend and customer of Stevie B's Total Guitar in downtown St Petersburg Fl. We always had so much fun joking around with "Antleg" as we called him. He often spoke proudly of his sons who were his life and passion. May you "Rock on" on the Stairway to heaven Todd. RIP

Todd was a wonderful person who was a dear friend of ours for nearly 40 years. Laurie and I had just spoke to him the night before his passing and his spirits were high, always happy and we would talk about the good ole days. We worked in the hospitality industry together back in the days of Victoria Station - Dale Manry / TGI Fridays in Hyde Park and later, the Don Cesar.

We pray for his family and friends, knowing that the world will not be the same without Todd.