Tom Schadler

Martha,

Although I never knew you and your husband I am a friend of Tom's sister Cyndy. The phone call I received from her was heart wrenching. She spoke of her dear friend Martha often and I can remember when you were pregnant with Bo. My heart breaks for you and your family. Tom was too young to be taken so soon. Remember the good times and pass the wonderful memories you two shared along to Bo. Give Gail a HUGE hug for me and tell her that you are all in my prays. May God give...

Arnie and Family ~
Words cannot express the pain I feel for all of you , I lost my sister almost three years ago so I know that wrenching pain and sadness you are carrying and what its like unfortunatly to lose a sibling. My thoughts are with you , but he is here in your hearts and youll see, like I have with Vic what a teacher he will truly be in time to come . Its amazing the strength youll feel from him and his love for all of you .
Love and Light ,

Dear Schadler family and friends,
I spent years with Tom here in Santa Barbara. We were best friends.
We laughed together, went skiing in Tahoe, went to Vegas.
He was an amazing person and always there for you and me.
Tom and his best friend and roommate, John, shared also a special bond.
However, he never forgot about Martha.
I truly believe, was, and is the love of his life.
He had an old picture of the two together in his room when I first met him and I...

Dear friends and family of Tom,
I am sorry to hear of his passing and want to express my condolences. The cute guy with a great smile will be missed.

During this time of mourning, I would like to express my sincere condolence at the sudden loss of your loved one. May you find comfort in persistent prayers, as “the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your heart and your mental powers.” [Phil. 4:7] It's comforting to know that God cares for all of us and losing a loved one is something we cannot get used to. The Bible gives us hope that one day we can see our dear loved one again. On behalf of all mankind Jesus surrender his soul...

Dear Shadler family- The Catani and Thebarge families are thinking of you this evening, and our hearts go out to you - Arnie, how well I remember your handsome brother and your deep love for him.. I am so very sorry. More words only get in the way ... Carol Catani- Thebarge

Hello Martha and Bo, We are all shocked and feel so badly for your family. Please let us know if there is something, anything, that we can do to ease the burden of your loss. We have thought of you daily, and will continue to do so.Let Bo know we love him and have missed him. Jen Baker , Mark (and staff).

We are sorry for the loss of Tom. We had the pleasure of having Tom as a teacher for our three sons. They enjoyed being around him everyday!

Dear Martha,

I am so terribly sorry to hear of the passing of your dear husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sons.

Hold tight to your wonderful memories, may they help you through these difficult times.