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Valerie O'Brien Obituary

Valerie Michelle O'Brien HUNTERSVILLE - Valerie Michelle O'Brien, 45, of Charlotte, passed away suddenly Wednesday afternoon, December 10, 2014, at Novant Presbyterian-Huntersville. Born in Franklin, Indiana on September 4, 1969, she was a daughter of Stephen Lawrence and Nancy Ann Lawlis Schlehuser. She lived in New Jersey until moving to Charlotte in 1990. Valerie was a 1987 graduate of Highstown High School and had worked as a customer service manager for a welding shop supply company. She was a member of University City United Methodist Church and the International Ladies Bible Study. In addition to her parents, survivors include her husband, Kevin O'Brien, whom she married November 24, 1990; three daughters, Victoria, Sara and Catharine; a son, Richard; two sisters, Shari Beams of Corpus Christi, TX and Lisa Duffy and her husband, Mitchell of Belle Meade, NJ; and two nephews, Liam and Harry. Memorial services are planned for 11:00 am Wednesday, December 17, 2014, at University City United Methodist Church, 3835 WT Harris Blvd., Charlotte, NC 28269. McEwen Funeral Service-Derita Chapel is in charge of arrangements and online condolences may be made at www.mcewenderitachapel.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Dec. 13, 2014.

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Angela Collett

January 16, 2015

My heart broke today as I learned of Val's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you and know that Val was very dear to me (as are each of you). Even though we didn't keep in touch much over the last few years, our "tax season" days are always remembered this time of the year. I was always amazed by how loving and special Valerie was and I know she has left a void in your world. May God grant you peace and keep his comforting arms around you all! Love you guys!!

Jill Duncan

December 19, 2014

Dear Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Valerie was a faithful member of our Bible Study. We had just welcomed her back this fall after being out for a while. She will be missed. I am praying for you all. Know that V is healed and in the presence of our Lord Jesus. Revelation 14:13

Chenarah McClurkin / Latanya Gray

December 17, 2014

Victoria and family may the Lord bring you peace and comfort in your time of bereavement. Your West Charlotte Cheer squad/moms love you and will be here for you. God bless you and your family.

Lena Simpson

December 16, 2014

Gevon and I are still greatly saddened by the news of Val passing and send our love and prayers to the family. Heaven has a new beautiful angel watching over us and there is no more pain.... this is my only comfort.

Karen Pocta

December 16, 2014

You are all in my prayers - certainly there are no words to express my sympathy at this time.

Joe Castellano

December 13, 2014

Kevin we are so sorry for your loss. Valerie will be missed. If you need anything let us know.

Sherry And Family Hall

December 13, 2014

Valerie will truly be missed. Our hearts and prayers are with her family in this time of loss. We love you guys.

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