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Walter Douglas Willett

1943 - 2022

Walter Douglas Willett obituary, 1943-2022, East Hartford, CT

Walter Willett Obituary

After battling cancer for several years, W. Douglas Willett passed away peacefully while surrounded by family on Sunday, April 10, 2022 in Cape Coral, FL. Doug was born Dec 21, 1943 in Hartford to parents Emil and Erva Willett. He is survived by his loving wife of 56 years, Diane Willett; his three sons: Wes and his wife Stacy, Jamie, and Jonathan and his wife Emma; grandchildren: Marleena, Shealah, Draedon, Spencer, Ada and Talia, plus five who joined along the way: Raquel, Thomas, Kacie, Lucas, Nicole and great-granddaughters: Teagan, Finley and Skye. He is also survived by his brother, Greg Willett with partner Jen Prieto; sisters: Erva and Denise with husband Victor Nejfelt. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his brother, William and sisters, Virginia and Michelle. Born into humble circumstances in East Hartford, Doug grew up in Mayberry Village and on Tiffany Rd. before it was paved. He remembered his childhood as a happy one full of his boisterous, loving family and his favorite pastimes of reading and playing baseball. He attended East Hartford High School, where he played junior varsity basketball and baseball, served as the sports editor of the school paper and was elected President of his junior class, foreshadowing his lifelong love of sports, language and politics. After high school, he attended the University of Connecticut, where he received a BA in English. After completing a teaching credential at Central Connecticut State College, by his mid-twenties he became a beloved English teacher at East Hartford High School. During his tenure at EHHS he was active in the teacher's union, Department Chair of English, coach of the girls' softball team and went on to serve for five years as the school Principal. At age 40, thinking he would get a little business experience before seeking a Superintendent position, he went to work for Travelers Insurance in Hartford. Eighteen years later, he had climbed the corporate ladder to become Sr. Vice President of Human Resources. Doug retired at age 58 and spent his remaining years traveling the world with Diane, spending time with family and giving back to others. Doug's love of competition was reflected on the golf course, in the stands at many a game of his beloved UCONN Huskies, and in his many years on the pitching mound for East Hartford Dovalettes and then Reed's Construction, whom he helped lead to the Softball National Championships several times while earning an induction into the Connecticut Softball Hall of Fame. Although he built a lot for himself and his family, he always gave a lot back to the communities and institutions that shaped him, from being accused by the local paper as the shadowy advisor behind his best friend Bob McNulty's two terms as East Hartford's Mayor, to his funding scholarships and generous donations to his alma mater UCONN, serving on the board of the Hillstead Museum to welcoming a French exchange student into the family, Doug believed part of a well lived life was service to others. Doug was very active with the East Hartford Rotary Club. When he served as Club President, he was instrumental in allowing women to become members for the first time. He was a 6-time recipient of Rotary's highest honor, the Paul Harris award. Doug co-wrote and edited the club newsletter for many years. He served as chair for numerous committees, was club photographer, and devoted many hours to volunteer activities. World traveler, photographer, father, husband, brother and grandfather, he meant a lot to a lot of people and will be sorely missed. The family will receive relatives and friends on Wednesday, April 20 from 3:00-7:00 p.m. at the D'Esopo-East Hartford Memorial Chapel, 30 Carter Street, East Hartford. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to East Hartford Rotary Club Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 380035, East Hartford, CT 06138-0035. To share a memory of Doug with his family, please visit www.desopoeh.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 14, 2022.

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Larry & Kathy Cole

April 24, 2022

Diane, we are so sorry to hear of Doug's passing. As former GNB neighbors, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Juliette Musetti Cross

April 19, 2022

Diane and family,
I was so sorry to hear of Doug's passing. I remember him fondly. He was a warm presence during many chapters of our lives. I'd like to think that my dad, my "Uncle" Bob, and Doug have reunited for some laughs and walks down memory lane.
My deepest condolences,
Juliette (daughter of Guy and Madeleine Musetti)

Renee Sharlow

April 18, 2022

Diane, I am so very sorry for your loss, Mr. Willett was so very special to me in so many ways. He was my softball coach at PHS from 1975 to 1979. He taught me so very much and I became such a better person because of his lessons and our talks. I owe him so very much and I wish we would have stayed in touch. God just gained a very special angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Ken from Cape Coral

April 15, 2022

Doug and I worked together on our community communications group. He was a great mentor, and didn't suffer fools gladly. I will always try to live the kind of life he did. My condolences to his family.

Lisa McNulty & Bill Gonzalez

April 15, 2022

Sending strength and love.

Bruce, Bill and Kathie(Marsh)Healy

April 14, 2022

Our deepest sympathy to Doug's entire family. We grew up on Linden Street. Bruce and Erva were classmates and friends, Doug and I worked at Willards Fine Foods after high school and Billy took over Doug's job of deliveries. Wonderful memories of when we were all a great age. He was someone very special. Again our condolences.

Bob Herd

April 14, 2022

Diane, I´m so sorry to hear of Doug´s passing. We were all together from Woodland School thru EHHS. Lots & lots of good memories.

Bob
Naples, FL

Peter & Phyllis (DiGennaro) Del Mastro

April 14, 2022

Diane, Phyllis and I were saddened to learn of Doug's passing. By all accounts, he was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather......An outstanding human being. Phyllis has fond memories of the fun she and Doug had in Latin class.

Bob and Caryl Hockenberry Donovan

April 14, 2022

Diane and family, sending love to each of you, remembering fun high school days together. Doug has left this world better off by all his many gifts to others. Love, Caryl

Virginia Smith

April 14, 2022

Mr Willett was my journalism teacher at Penney High school in the early 70´s and influenced my life in a positive way. He was kind and tough at the same time, all while being fair. Condolences to his friends and family.

Franco and Peggy ( DeLeo) Gaglioti

April 14, 2022

Diane,
Our heartfelt condolences at the loss of your beloved Doug. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your entire family during this sorrowful time. May Doug Rest In Peace.

Jim Montenieri

April 14, 2022

Heartfelt condolences to Diane and the family. Doug was a great teammate, friend and someone I always looked up to. Rest in peace, Dugger.

D'Esopo East Hartford Memorial Chapel

April 14, 2022

Our deepest condolences on your loss. The D’Esopo Family.

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