Nancy Webster (Fisher) Grady, a gracious lady who was loved and respected by all who knew her, died on Sunday, May 4, at Hospice House in Concord, New Hampshire after a courageous battle with cancer. She was 87 years old. Nancy was born on December 22, 1926 in Boston, Massachusetts to Frank G. Webster and Polly Baldwin Webster. Following the Webster's early divorce in 1928, Nancy lived in Honolulu, Hawaii and on the island of Maui with her Mother. Nancy remained connected to Squam Lake during her long summer trips to Squam Lake in Holderness, New Hampshire to visit her Father and grandparents, May and Laurence J. Webster. Nancy was May and Laurence's first grandchild and she was very close to them. In those days, the journey from Honolulu to Holderness was a two week long voyage by boat and train.
Nancy moved to the Boston area in 1937 to live near Frank Webster and attended The Winsor School. After graduating from Winsor she attended Bennington College in Vermont. At the end of World War II she married Edward Fisher Jr. and lived in Vermont before moving to Groton, Massachusetts. Nancy relocated to Concord, Massachusetts following their divorce in 1957. She fell in love with Robert (Bob) E. Grady, an artist who taught anatomy and drawing at The School of the Museum of Fine Arts, in Boston. Nancy and Bob were married in 1959 and during their many years together in Concord, Nancy raised her four sons.
She volunteered as chairman of the Associate Counsel, a volunteer branch of The DeCordova Art Museum in Lincoln, Massachusetts. After completing a two year language training course at Boston's Children's Hospital she became the first tutor to work in the Concord Massachusetts Public School system during the 1960's. Nancy continued teaching in schools located in the Concord area as well as providing educational testing services for children with learning disabilities. Upon her retirement twenty years later, there were twenty-four remedial reading school tutors working in the Concord Public School system. During this time Nancy also served as a director on the board of the Gifford School in Weston, a school for learning disabled and autistic children.
Nancy and Bob moved north to her family farm in Holderness, New Hampshire in 1991 after having summered on Carnes Island on Squam Lake for forty years. In Holderness she served as trustee of the Holderness Library and was on the board of Church Yard Cemetery. Nancy was a director and Vice President of The Squam Lakes Conservation Society, a land trust founded by her father, Frank Webster, in 1960. Nancy also volunteered at the Squam Lakes Natural Science Center and at the Holderness Central School until her husband's illness required her full-time care. At that time they moved to an apartment at Pleasant View, Concord where they resided during the winter months. They relocated to her Farmhouse on Burleigh Farm during the spring, summer months, and early fall where her grandchildren and gardens were a source of great joy. Nancy's death was predeceased by her son, Laurence Baldwin Fisher in 1996 and her husband, Robert E. Grady in 2005.
Nancy is survived by three sons; Edward Wilson Fisher of Mission, Texas, Timothy Otis Fisher of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, Holderness, New Hampshire and Santa Barbara, California and Matthew Emmet Grady of Portland, Oregon. Nancy is also survived by 10 grandchildren: Michael Elberg, Brooks Fisher, Matthew Fisher, Lilah Wise, Nina Hamilton, Edward Fisher, Pollyanna Fisher-Pool, Suzanne Fisher, Ryan Grady, Keenan Grady and nine great-grandchildren and also her long-time devoted friend, Dr. James Lawton.
A celebration of her life will be held at Starr King Unitarian-Universalist Fellowship Church on Fairgrounds Road, Plymouth, New Hampshire at 4:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 10.
There will be no visitation.
In lieu of flowers donations may be sent in her memory to the Nancy Webster Grady Land Monitoring Fund at the Squam Lakes Conservation Society, P.O. Box 696, Holderness, NH 03245.
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June 16, 2014
Both Nancy and Bob were very special people. I remember swimming at Sandy Beach and listening to the bagpipes coming from Carnes Island on Squam Lake at dusk. A picture of Carnes Island hangs in my family room to remember the good times with the Grady family. I always had fun visiting Nancy with my grandmother Dorothy Forbes who loved all of the "Webster" clan dearly as we all did. My extended condolences to Matthew Grady. We had a lot of fun as kids on Squam. Sending blessings to your family.
Mark Giuliano
May 17, 2014
I have fond memories of Mrs Grady. We lived next door on Heaths Bridge and she was my tutor at Willard school. She played Matt and I the first jazz I remember really listening too (Les McCann Compared to What).
May 17, 2014
My childhood was warmed by the presence of Mrs. Grady next door, always gracious, always beautiful, always kind. Through her good works and through her way with people, she left the world better than she found it. My love and condolences to her family.
Anna Fisher
May 17, 2014
Such a wonderful neighbor in Conantum growing up and mother to my classmate, Matthew. I remember her a very beautiful woman, always smiling, and had a lovely distinctive voice that attracted everyone's attention. My deepest condolences to her family and friends, thank you for her commitment to the environment and conservation.
Earle Jenkins
May 10, 2014
A wonderful person and real mother figure in my life. I will miss her.
Wendy Wise
May 7, 2014
I shall always remember Nancy's bright smile and warm eyes. She had a kind and loving heart that made you feel accepted and appreciated. She was a gift to all who knew her. My condolences to her family.
Daniela Gracidas
May 6, 2014
Agradezco a mi amiga Polly la oportunidad de haberla conocido y entender porque fue y seguirá siendo tan querida siempre. Fuerte abrazo y mi más sentido pésame a sus seres queridos.
May 6, 2014
Such a beautiful, graceful lady. I will sadly miss our chats in her kitchen, the garden tours, and her wonderful voicemails and emails. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of her friends and family during this time of loss. -Colleen O'Neill
Carmen Naveda
May 6, 2014
Siento mucho la muerte de Nancy , tuve el gusto de conocerla y convivir con ella en varias ocasiones, ella fue una gran dama ,pilar de sus hijos y nietos. Un beso y un abrazo para todos , en especial para Ted, edward, y polly. Los quiero
Samantha Wood
May 6, 2014
I am a waitress at Pleasant View Retirement, and Nancy was my favorite resident. Although I didn't know her very long, I felt close to her and it brightened my day seeing her smiling face in the dining room every night. I painted her a picture of a rose, and I could tell it made her so happy and from then on we were friends. I was extremely saddened to hear of Nancy's passing, but I know that she is now in a better place, free of suffering. I wish the best for her family, and also for Jim.
Cristina Naveda
May 6, 2014
Nuestro más sincero pésame para Ted,Edward y Polly .Les mandamos muchos abrazos .
Familia Croda Naveda.
May 6, 2014
Nancy's wisdom still touches us and she was like a mom to us. We remember her in her summer flower gardens, sitting on the porch at squam and her love for her children and grandchildren.
Louise and David Vania
May 6, 2014
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2.
James R Viar
May 6, 2014
The classiest lady I ever met.
Kath Blake-Morrill
May 5, 2014
Dear Judy and Larry, We are so sorry to hear about your sister. We hope all the happy memories of Nancy will keep her close to you. Our sincere sympathies and love to you and your family, Kath Blake-Morrill and Christopher Morrill
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