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Robert Bates Obituary

BATES, ROBERT NELSON Robert Nelson Bates, age 84, of Wallingford, passed away in Meriden, CT on March 6, 2013. Born in New Canaan, CT on January 29, 1929, he was a son of the late Roswell J. & Mabel Mather Bates. A former resident of Branford and Spring Hill, FL, Robert is survived by his wife, Joan Daniels Bates; his daughters, Lorraine Mayer of Johnsonville, SC & Rev. Lynda Bates-Stepe & her husband Atis Stepe of Commack, L.I. N.Y; his son, James R. Bates of Branford; grandchildren, Heather Mayer, Jonathan Mayer, Michael Ferraiuolo, Steven Ferraiuolo, Bethany Bates & Tyler Bates; step-granddaughter, Deanna Stepe and his son in-law, Charles Ferraiuolo of Johnsonville, SC. He was predeceased by his daughter, Louise B. Ferraiuolo and siblings, Ida Benke & Fred Bates. Robert is a US Army Veteran of the Korean Conflict and a graduate of the Bridgeport Engineering Institute. Robert was an electrical engineer, retired from Southern New England Telephone Co. He was a member of the Telephone Pioneers and member and Past Master of the Mason's Widow's Son Lodge # 66 A.F. & A. M. and Ashlar Village Lodge # 332, and a longtime member of the United Methodist Church in Branford. Friends may visit with his family at BEECHER & BENNETT FUNERAL HOME, 2300 Whitney Ave., on Sunday, March 10, 2013 from 3:00 to 6:00 PM. During this time a Masonic Service will begin at 5:00 PM followed by a Prayer Service with Pastor Kent Jackson at 5:15 PM and concluded with Military Honors. Interment will take place privately with his family. All may also attend a Memorial Service at the Hartog Center in Ashlar Village, Wallingford on March 17th at 4:00PM. In lieu of flowers please send memorial contributions in Robert's memory to the Masonic Charity Foundation, P.O. Box 70, Wallingford, CT 06492. To send a condolence to his family please see: www.beecherandbennett.com



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Published by The New Haven Register from Mar. 8 to Mar. 9, 2013.

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Sally (Hinton) Post

September 27, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you Aunt Joan and your family. I have great memories of my summer visist(1970) when you were building the swimming pool in the backyard and I helped mix cement with Uncle Bob. Enjoyed meeting my northern "cousins" and their friends you thought I had a southern accent? Glad we had recent visits for Linda's wedding and when you traveled to Florida and stopped in Gainesville. Uncle Bob was a terrific man and will be greatly missed. Love from your sister Louise's family.

Ernie VanderKruik

June 9, 2013

Thanks, Bob, for your grace, humor and playing the organ with your headphones on. Thanks for the terrific job you did in raising your children.

Alice Verrastro

March 21, 2013

Now he is with Louise.

Harold & Arline Neu

March 12, 2013

Our love and prayers to the family of our Uncle Bob. What great memories we have of him!

Ed and Debbie Behnke

March 12, 2013

So sorry to hear of Uncle Bob's passing. A gentleman. I feel honored to call him family.

Jerry Shea

March 11, 2013

My condolences. Bob was great guy to work with at SNET.

AR

March 11, 2013

An old-school gentleman who will be dearly missed.

greg whitcher

March 9, 2013

My condolences!

Judy Stevens

March 8, 2013

Holding you in prayer

Rick Edwards

March 8, 2013

Condolences from Rick, Cathy, and Carrie. We're thinking of you through these days.

Elaine and Dan Winward

March 8, 2013

Thank you Lord that You will make known to us the path of life; in Your presence is fullness of joy; in Your right hand there are pleasures for evermore. Lynda, may the joy of the Lord be your strength as you carry on through these days remembering your father. I will always remember when my mother died in 2004 and after immediate family I called you. It was then I had peace and could carry on. Blessings and love, Elaine and Dan

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