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Paula Decker Everitt

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Paula Decker Everitt obituary, 1954-2016, Sussex, NJ

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Paula Everitt Obituary

NEWTOWN, Pa. - Paula Decker Everitt, age 61, passed away on April 2, 2016. She had devoted her life to family, travel, compassion, and art. After a year's struggle with a brain tumor, she died peacefully at home, surrounded by her loving family.
Born on July 19, 1954, in Sussex, to Chester E. Decker Sr. and Madeline (Johnson) Decker, Paula spent her childhood in Sussex. For her senior year of high school, she became an exchange student in Lund, Sweden, before attending Colgate University to study religion and philosophy. Paula attained a master's of divinity degree from Andover Newtown Theological Seminary, was ordained in the United Church of Christ, and served as associate minister of the Hingham Congregational Church in Massachusetts.
After taking a professional break to focus on raising her three children, Paula subsequently became more focused on compassion and counseling. She received an M.A. degree in education and counseling from West Chester State University, in Pennsylvania, and served as a guidance counselor at Great Valley High School in Paoli, Pa.
When the family moved to Cambridge, England, for three years, Paula poured her compassionate energies into her lifelong love of art. After moving back to Berwyn, Pa, she earned a four-year certificate in fine arts at the Pennsylvania Academy of Fine Arts. Paula was a professional artist for the last 10 years, working in oil colors and multimedia drawing. Her most recent art used abstract figure drawing to depict vulnerable people living with disease, war and/or poverty. This body of work, characterized as "raw and disturbing," won numerous awards in juried art exhibitions.
Paula is survived by her husband, Daniel E. Everitt; her parents, Chester E. Decker Sr. and Madeline Johnson Decker, of Sussex; her son, Rory L. Everitt, of Berkeley, Calif.; her daughters, Dana P. Everitt and Morgan T. Everitt, both of New York; her sister, Christine Decker Henry, of Wantage; and her brother, Chester Decker Jr., of Wantage.
A private family graveside service was held on Wednesday, April 6, at Clove Cemetery, Sussex. A service of celebration of Paula's life will be held at 2 p.m. on Saturday, April 16, at the Newtown Presbyterian Church, 25 North Chancellor St., Newtown, Pa. 18940. The family requests that memorial donations may be made to the VAD Foundation, www.vadfoundation.org which provides desperately needed education to children in South Sudan. Online condolences may be offered to the family at www.pinkelfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The New Jersey Herald on Apr. 10, 2016.

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Morgan

May 11, 2022

hi mom,
Things sure aren't the same without you. My love for you continues to deepen every day.
I'll see you in a little while.

VAD Foundation

March 24, 2017

Our condolences to the Everitt family. We will use your donations wisely to translate the compassion and love that Ms. Everitt was to so many people around her.

Jennifer

April 16, 2016

My sincere condolences to the family on the loss of your loved one. May you find comfort in the promise found at 1 Thessalonians 4:14. Knowing there is a hope for the ones we have lost in death is so reassuring.

Gene and Sue Chin

April 12, 2016

"Do not let your hearts be troubled; have faith in God and faith in me. I will go up to prepare a place for you, then I'll come to take you with me, so where I am, you may also be."

She was truly an amazing woman- a wife, mother, daughter and sister, who fought a hard battle. We were truly looking forward to Daniel making plans for her visit to Hawaii.

Wishing you comfort at this time.


Sue and Gene Chin
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Bob Grzesik

April 12, 2016

I am so sorry to hear the sad news about Paula. She was my classmate in junior high and High Point and I looked up to her. She was smart and nice and a real good person every day that I had seen her. She always had my respect and my admiration. She will be missed always. Let me please extend my condolences to all her family and friends.

J. Miller

April 11, 2016

Morgan, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. You and your family are in my prayers and I send my deepest condolences. Please keep all of her memories alive on your hearts and minds because God promises that he will do the same thing (Malachi 3:16) May God bring you comfort in this time of distress.

Don Conklin

April 11, 2016

So sorry to hear of Paula's passing. Prayers to the family and her loved ones. The lord has another Angle in his arms.

April 11, 2016

So sad to hear. Thinking of the family. She sounds like she was an amazing person. Even though her life was cut short, she did great things with the time she had.
Jane (Stock) Morrelli

Pat Stanton/Wolf

April 10, 2016

So sorry to hear of my fellow Sussex native passing. All my sympathies to her family.

April 10, 2016

We are so sorry to hear of Paula's passing
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during this time of sorrow Our sincere sympathy
Linda and Harry Predmore
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Luette Guilmette

April 10, 2016

I am so very sorry to hear of Paula's passing. We were best friends growing up as children in Sussex. Although I had not seen her since high school, I often thought about her and remember the good times we had. My sincere condolences to her family.

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