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STEADMAN WESTERGAARD Obituary

WESTERGAARD--Steadman H., died April 4, 2015 at the age of 58 following a brief illness. He was a partner of the firm Fulton, Rowe & Hart LLP and was also a director of the van Ameringen Foundation and the Lily Auchincloss Foundation. Mr. Westergaard graduated from the College of Charleston in 1978 and subsequently attended Columbia University earning an M.A. in 1980 and a J.D. in 1983. Mr. Westergaard practiced in several firms prior to joining Fulton, Rowe & Hart LLP in 1996. Mr. Westergaard is survived by his partner of 30 years, Michael Young, and by a brother, Andreas Westergaard, III. A brief memorial service will be held at the Columbarium of the Cathedral of Saint John the Divine on April 15, 2015 at 1:15pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a contribution to the Cathedral of Saint John the Divine.

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Published by New York Times on Apr. 8, 2015.

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Dan Gorgoglione

October 13, 2024

Thinking of you, Ted... those glorious years at International House, where you demonstrated your wicked sense of humor (and don't worry - they never did figure out who created & posted those hilarious "tasteless tabloids"). And then there were our countless get-togethers in the Village - so many joyous good times. I miss your kindness, gentleness, your gentlemanliness - you were one in a million. Rest in eternal peace, dear friend.

George Kramer

April 1, 2022

I remember Ted exactly as you describe him -- as a gentle man who was generous, kind and witty.

Barbara Sievert

April 17, 2015

A shocking and profound loss. Ted was extraordinarily kind and generous to me. I am so sorry we will no longer see that wonderful smiling boyish face AND those seersucker suits. Deepest sympathies to Michael.

Harry Walters

April 15, 2015

Very sorry to hear of Ted's death. We were law school classmates, and I remember him as gentlemanly, archly humorous, scholarly and universally well-liked. We will always remember you, Steadman! Rest in peace.

Dennis Duffy

April 14, 2015

Ted was a law school classmate and good friend. We had many good times and laughs that I will not forget.

John Cummerford

April 14, 2015

Very sad news -- I am law school classmate of Ted's too. We shared many a beer at CDR and the West End, back in the day ... he will be missed.

George Barbero

April 14, 2015

Shocked and saddened to hear of Ted's passing. I've known Ted for over 20 years and consider him a true friend. He was such a good guy. Kind, generous and funny. My deepest sympathies to Michael and rest of his family.

Bernard Hebda

April 13, 2015

I was so sorry to hear of Ted's passing and am sure that he will be missed by many--I am delighted that there are so many who remember his kindness in law school?

Janet Gallo

April 10, 2015

I was shocked to learn of this. My condolences to his family.

Mark Floyd

April 9, 2015

I will be forever grateful that our paths crossed in law school. I will always remember you Ted.

April 9, 2015

Ted was a beautiful light in our lives.

Mary Messner Martin

April 9, 2015

I have very good memories. Just an all around good guy. Knew Ted from law school. Sympathies to all his loved ones.

George Kramer

April 9, 2015

I have known Ted since law school. More importantly, years ago Ted introduced me to a young woman named Cathy who is now my wife of 27 years. Cathy and I send our deepest sympathy to all those who loved him.

Rolf Asphaug

April 8, 2015

Prayers to Ted's family and local friends. Ted was a law school classmate of mine, and when I saw him at informal class reunions in more recent years he looked ageless, with the same winning smile and personality as ever. Rest in peace, Ted.

Robert

April 8, 2015

A gentleman and a scholar. Always showed my family and me great kindness. Knew him 35 years. Will miss him.

Margaret Egan

April 7, 2015

A wonderful model of kindness and generosity. Ted's service to so many will be a great absence.

No one could pull off the seersucker suit like Ted. So very sorry for the loss and love to Michael.

Clyde

April 7, 2015

Thoughts and prayers for the family and friends at this sorrowful time, may your beloved R.I.P and may your memories, prayers, and support of all comfort you always

April 6, 2015

A fine man with high integrity and beauty of soul. I will miss him every day of my life

Eugene Meyer

April 6, 2015

May you rest in peace Ted.

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