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Paul Stiffler Obituary
Age 56, of Bethel Park, passed away suddenly on Thursday, April 30, 2009 at Allegheny General Hospital surrounded by his loving family. Beloved husband for 34 years of Susan (Staley) Stiffler and devoted father of Jason R. Stiffler and Nathaniel P. Stiffler. Born September 22, 1952 and raised in Windber, PA he is survived by his parents, Paul and Norma Stiffler and siblings, David Stiffler, Mark Stiffler, Ann (Todd) Moyer and Karen (Michael) Wadsley. He will be terribly missed by numerous brothers and sisters-in-law, nieces and nephews. Paul attended Mt. Aloysius College and worked for many years at Parental Stress Center. He then decided to follow his true passion and became a chef by earning a degree from the Pennsylvania Institute of Culinary Arts. His professional highlights include working at Nemacolin Woodlands Resort, Southpointe Country Club, his own restaurant, Bella Bistro and most recently at the Peterson Events Center. Paul was also a member of The Slow Foods organization. Paul was known for his kind and generous spirit, his wit and humor and his ability to deliciously mix family, friends and food with lots of spice! The traditions and memories he inspired will live on forever! Funeral arrangements by BEINHAUERS. Friends welcome at 2828 Washington Road (Peters Twp.) 724-941-3211 on Saturday from 6-9 PM and Sunday from 2-9 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday at 10 AM in St. Thomas More Church. Interment Queen of Heaven Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to World Vision, P.O. Box 9716, Federal Way, WA 98063 (www.worldvision.org). Please add or view tributes at www.beinhauerfamilyservices.com
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Marva Maul
May 11, 2009
Susie: So so sorry about Paul. Nellie just called me and I am shocked at the news. I have met him only a few times but what a joy to have known him - so pleasant, so joyful and with a happy happy countenance. I am praying for the family. I love you and you are in my thoughts. May you find comfort in knowing that "underneath are the everlasting arms". Love Marva
May 8, 2009
Nate,
So sorry to hear about your father. I hope everything is going okay. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayer.
-Keonda Thompson
Karen Wadsley
May 6, 2009
Sue, Jas and Than...
I grieve so very deeply for Paul's earthly passing...
But I rejoice in his birth into the Kingdom of Christ.
My heart is broken for the tragic loss of my big brother..
But it is filled with the hope of being with him again in the boundless glory of Heaven.
My soul is wounded by the deep chasm he has left..
But time will temper the pain of that wound and countless happy memories of Paul will help to lessen tremendous void he has left.
Jane Mars-Holt
May 5, 2009
Dear Susie and family,
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Even though we have only met a few times, you all are part of our family. This does not happen a lot in extended families. I remember talking to Paul the first time at Rich and Joyce's wedding. Paul will be well remembered and Susie you and Jason and Nathaniel will be in our thoughts and prayers. Love Jane and Dan and Evida and Allen
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Joyce Cannoni-Altimus
May 4, 2009
To the Stiffler family,
I was saddened to hear of Pauls sudden passing. I grew up with Paul on 21st Street in Windber and remember the great times we had as kids. It's been over 30 years since I saw him but I still remember his sense of humor and infectious laugh. Having recently lost my husband suddenly I understand what you are going through. I can only say God will get you through this somehow. Have faith. My prayers to you all.
Diane Fedor
May 4, 2009
Sue and Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this hard time of your recent family loss.
Sincerely,
Diane, Esther & Joe Fedor
Ann & Bryan Ward-Heselbach
May 3, 2009
Sue and Family,
Life is always too short yet love is
forever. May that love warm your heart and soothe your spirit today and in the days to come.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lester Block
May 3, 2009
To the Stiffler Families,
Please accept my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Sincerely,
Lester Block
May 3, 2009
Dear Stiffler family,
I am so sorry to read about the death of your precious loved one.
Although we don't know each other personally, My dear husband died two years ago, at 55 and we, too, were married 34 years.
I just wanted you to know that my thoughts are with you today, and I pray for God's peace for your family today and in the days ahead.
Chris Crytzer
May 2, 2009
Sue and family,
I was saddened to hear about your husband, Paul. Please accept my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barry Fleming
May 2, 2009
Sue, Jason, Nathaniel and the entire family, What a tragic loss for everyone that knew him. His laugh will be with me forever. We have been friends since we were early teens in Windber. We use to sit on his front porch in the early AM hours eating hot pepper sandwiches we swiped from the garden. He will be missed by a large famiy and many friends.
Words cannot express the sorrow in our hearts.... God Bless.
The Fleming Family
Jaclyn Weiss
May 2, 2009
I am really going to miss Paul. We were really close. At any of the family functions we would sit and talk about life in general. He helped me get my girlscout badge too. When he owned his restaurant he took me, taught me how to cut the meat and all. And afterwards he made us these big hoagies to eat, I swear bigger than me!! They were so good too. I am going to miss Paul so much. I wish I could find the picture of us at the restaurant with my chefs hat on. Paul was an awesome guy, and an awesome cousin! I'll miss you! Love you forever.
May 2, 2009
Sue and Family,
Our hearts ache for the loss of Paul. He was a great person and neighbor. We will keep him in our thoughts and prayers.
Christine and Bill Engel
Dale
May 2, 2009
I have had the pleasure of working with Paul for the past few years. He was an excellent chef, a great friend and person. The Peterson will not be the same without him. I am deeply saddened and will keep the family in my thoughts and prayers.
Cathie Caliguiri-Kahn
May 2, 2009
Sue, Jason and Nathan:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. Paul was a sweet soul and a joy to work with and be included in my circle of friends
Heaven just got a new precious angel.
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