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Paul R. "Shook" Suchma
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Paul Suchma Obituary
Suddenly on Saturday, June 23, 2007, age 51, of Millvale. Brother of Mary Ellen, Robert, Michael, Charles, Regis Suchma and Patricia Armstrong. Also survived by loving Aunts, Uncles, Nieces and Nephews. Preceded in death by his parents Paul and Rose Suchma. Friends will be received Monday 7-9 pm and Tuesday 2-9 pm at SPERLING FAMILY FUNERAL SERVICES, 123 North Ave., Millvale. A Funeral Mass will be held Wednesday in Holy Spirit Parish at Noon.
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Rege suchma
July 23, 2025
18 years have past since you passed my brother losing you was a big loss to our family and friends you was my oldest brother i idolized you and me like some music but not agree on some bands the void you left in my life could never be filled by your passing only memories will be all i have until that day comes i´ll be reunited with you rest in peace and hope your with mom -dad& bobby
Thomas MILLER
January 25, 2024
Upon searching for former coworkers at Ohio Barge Line, I am saddened to find that Paul has passed away. We made several month-long round trips traveling south to the port of New Orleans in the 1970s. Paul had a pleasant personality and he was a good man to work with. I also remember his musical talent as he played his guitar in the evening hours on the return trips to Pittsburgh. May you rest in peace!
August 18, 2020
Wow, here is what surfing the Internet gets you. I knew Paul in the early to mid-eighties. He lived in Pittsburgh and I lived on the Upper West Side. He came to NYC to record and I came to Pittsburgh on work trips. Eventually we fell out of each other’s orbits.
I am so sorry to learn that he left us so soon. He was smart, funny, passionate, and creative; the world needs more of that.
Laura Cella
Emma Suchma
April 2, 2018
oh uncle paul - sometimes i sit here wondering what our relationship would be like if you were still here. as the years go on, i lose memories i have of you since i was so young when you passed, and it's frustrating. you had such a love for music and so do i, that's something we share, and i love it. i wish you were here to teach me how to play guitar and tell me about all the places you had traveled. i hope you're proud of the many things i've accomplished. i wish you could've seen me graduate. i hope you and uncle bob watch down on the family every day and keep us safe. i love you, sweet angel.
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Mister Peanuts
July 11, 2017
Saw that there was a new notice on here, so visited.
God bless Paul. Hope he is in God's hands & is missed by many who knew him.
Dave Penn
July 9, 2017
I am not sure what made me think of Paul today, but i decided to check online to see if he was around. I was shocked to read of his passing. I knew Paul back in the early 70's. I lived in Millvale and Paul introduced me to a world of music beyond top 40 that i never knew existed. He showed me music and bands i never knew existed, and as such changed the course of my musical life. My family moved to Florida in 1973, and i lost touch with Paul. I moved back to the area, but never reestablished contact with him. It makes me feel good that he turned his great love of the guitar into a lifes passion.
5-22-82
Mike Chedwick
June 10, 2016
5-22-82
Mike Chedwick
June 10, 2016
March 15, 2016
Never met such a down to earth well grounded person.
Paul fronted me some noise toys that survived a fire. He knew I was good for the money simply because I went to school at St. Anthony's a few years behind him.
I am sure the twinkle in Paul's eyes and his huge smile are a million times brighter now than ever.
God bless Paul and Family.
Tim Razz, Millvale and Shaler Pa.
Michael
June 16, 2015
I hope you & Uncle Bob are together looking down on Connor. He would have loved you guys. I think about you everyday.
March 20, 2014
I still think about Paul quite a bit. I have a picture of him on my China cabinet and often think about the man that was taken too young. I miss him greatly and was the man that made me want to play guitar.
Kurt 'Stevens' Foltz
December 3, 2012
Knew Paul from back in the early 80's and stayed a friend with him through a lot of years. When he was moving to LA, I was leaving for NYC and tried in vain to get him to come with me. I visited him in LA a few times, either when I was on tour or just to hang, and he came to stay w/me in NYC quite a few times. We spoke many times about working together, but alas, other than some jams/songwriting, it never came to fruition. As time went on he developed into a truly great guitarist. He is and will be missed.
Bill Park
October 5, 2009
Time passes, wounds heal. But we still long for your quick smile, the twinkle in your eye, your bursting joy and curiosity, your generosity and childlike wonderment. Our lives are lessened. We miss you, Paul.
October 4, 2009
Paul was a rare friend. Met him in the early 80's at a Norman show at the Decade, where he invited me to his home and the studio, and well, it's a frienship I'll never forget..Joe Ariondo
Martin Kelly
September 2, 2009
I was searching the internet to see if Paul was doing anything musically in the current time. I was dismayed to learn of his passing. I got to know him at an early Norm Nardini show through my distant relative Mark Lewandowski from the SPUDS. I ran into him regularly when he was back from California. I remember his spectacular generosity, his friendliness and his style. To a guy who worked at Mellon Bank, he was refreshingly the opposite of so many of my co workers. I honor his memory and wish you all belated condolences.
Eric Patterson
August 17, 2009
Paul was not only a great player, able to play the main lick of any song title I called out, he was also full of passion for the music. I only met him 2 or 3 years before he past but wow. I got to sit and hear the best rock stories and learn so much. We jammed a few times and I actually got him on stage on his 50th birthday at a gig at the Bloomfield Bridge Tavern. I consider myself a blessed and lucky guy for getting to spend time with him. From one lefty rocker to another, I say "rock on Paul". Missed but not forgotten.
January 16, 2009
Rich Bitter
May 26, 2008
This is what surfing the web gets you, sad and bad news. Shocked and saddened to learn of Paul's passing, deepest sympathies to his family and loved ones. Many good shows and many great memories. Ricky B, the Fast Lane and The Rest
Laurie Andrews
April 8, 2008
Shook, was Shook. Nason's best friend-at our house all the time, so sweet and a really nice guy. I know Nason is at peace to have him by his side right now. I miss them both deeply.
Greg Grech
March 30, 2008
I grew up in Millvale and have so many awesome memorys of Paul. I remember Paul as a tough, street smart , rock and roll guy with a heart of gold.. Paul was simply .... really cool..he was nice to everyone and its no wonder he has so many friends. And even though I havnt talked to or seen paul in many years I truly feel a deep loss. Id like to offer my sincere condolences to the Suchma family and also to say hi to the many people in pittsburgh whom I havnt seen in years. Feel free to contact me.
Paul, Linda, Debbie & Nason
Linda Malie
January 19, 2008
Great Memories of A Wonderful Sweet
Gentleman. LM
Paul, Linda, Debbie & Nason
January 19, 2008
Mike Chedwick
November 16, 2007
Sorry to hear about Paul's passing. I remember all those crazy shows at the Decade and Fat City. What a time! "Shook" was
a great guy and will be missed.
Mike
Joan Marie Patrici
November 3, 2007
Twenty-five plus years ago, I met Paul. Wonderful man. Excellent musician! I, and, my mom adored him! The Quiet One!
Working with the band, back when, losing him, and before him, Nas.
It tells us, we are getting older. It tells me, to hold on to the memories and, to enjoy life. At 50, you have to let life roll off your sleeve and just continue on...
Paul, you will be missed.
Love, J
P.S. Say Hi to my buddy Nason!
Sue (Tommarello) Berardini
October 16, 2007
To the Suchma family & Paul's friends: my deepest sympathy to everyone. I only found out about Paul's passing the weekend of the Memorial Tribute at Moondog's and unfortunaltey I was not able to attend that.
I just wanted to extend my sympathy and I am so sorry for the loss we all share. I knew Paul from the 80's and his sweetness and genuine concern for people really shined through as strong as his music and love for his guitar! He is missed and Lord knows he is rockin' Heaven and keeping a close hand on all of us!
God Bless you Paul! Thank you for being YOU!
Love, Sue
Norman Nardini
October 2, 2007
I’d like to thank everybody who came out to the Paul Shook memorial show at Moondogs. What a rush! It was so cool seeing all those ole friend’s faces again. I’d also like to thank all the musicians who played, Steve Acri and Larry Germack who helped put the show together, and Jon Bon Jovi who sent out the autographed guitar we auctioned off. It was painfully obvious that Paul was loved dearly by his wonderful family and friends. We’re all gonna miss that left-handed guitar playin man. God took a piece of us all, when God took Paul. I’m Paul Shook up........Norman Nardini.
Christy & Ray Schindler
September 27, 2007
Deapest Sympathies for the Suchma Family. Paul was the greastest man I have ever known. He was the best friend anyone could have ever ask for. He will be greatly missed by me and my family. God will now forever be by his side.
Mr. Peanuts
September 27, 2007
For all those within driving distance Friday night, September 28,
there is a benefit for Paul Shook's family at Moondog's, 378 Freeport Rd., Blawnox, PA
Norman Nardini and his band will headline along with appearances by the Trash Brats, the Road Vultures, Torn and Frayed, Frank Soriano and others.
8 pm - 2 am and call 1-412-828-2040
for further information
Steve Meier
September 26, 2007
So sad to hear about Pauls passing. I roadied for the band at The College of Wooster in the eraly 80's. We spent a lot of time that night talking about Pittsburgh and playing guitar. He was a great and talented guy.
Robert Czapko
September 26, 2007
I am saddened by the news of Paul's passing. In our youth we had much fun and frolic. The Decade days will never be forgotten. "Tarzan" was a good guy, he will be missed. Ellen, it has been many years, you are a special person, my sympathy to you and your family. Bob
tim[d] toth
September 25, 2007
Even though I moved to florida we always stayed in touch. He was certainly loved by everyone he touched and now he's playing in God's church of rock and roll with Nason.See you in a few paul.Maybe I can do the lights again like I did with the tigers.
Hope O.
September 23, 2007
So sad to learn of the passing of Paul. He was always so nice to me in the 80's. Every gig Norman and the Tigers had were some of the best times of my life.
Shook and Nason can rock together again.
Love, Hope.
KEN MORGAN
September 17, 2007
Im shocked to here of paul's death . I saw paul and the guys for the time at stageone night club I was 15yrs old and Norman and Paul got me in that night .I never forgot that night or him may the angels find you a special place in heaven your friend and life long fan of the tigers.
Ken Morgan
Lenny Ferrari
September 7, 2007
I am so sad at the loss of Paul "Shook" my sympathy to his family and all of his friends. I first met Paul while he was with playing with Norman Nardini and the Tigers. They came to NYC and rocked this town and captured a fan base at the height of New York's rock scene. Paul was a kind man and when he hit the stage he was a real Tiger on guitar. He will surely be missed. I regret that I won't be at Moondogs for the memorial, but I will be in spirit.
paul sapienza
September 6, 2007
Just heard of Paul's passing. He was a nice person and a monster guitar player. And even after not seeing him for yrs. It was like we never lost touch. Norm Nardini and the Tigers with Shook were Pittsburgh Rock n Roll. He will be missed.
From old Someplace Else "Big Paul Bunyan" (The Doorman)
missy gibbons-gordon
September 4, 2007
it has been over two months and i am still flooded w memories of paul. they pop up at odd times during my day and usually bring a smile and tears. i hope every one is able to come out to Moondogs on sept.28th for pauls memorial gig. i think it will be good for all of us to hang out in honor of the wonderful guy who brought us all together.
Callie Bartos
August 28, 2007
Bob and Mike,
So very sorry to hear of your loss. I apologize for my late message, but I just got the news down here in Atlanta.
It's been years, but those crazy fun days seem not-so-far-away. I remember Paul as a great guy and a great musician -- and I'm so sorry you didn't get more time with him.
Thinking of you and your families,
Callie (Bittner) Bartos
Scruffy Graft
August 24, 2007
I just found out about Paul's passing. Very sad news. I have so many great memories of Norm and The Tigers. Paul was a great friend and I hope that his passing was peaceful.
Paul Kotlinski
August 8, 2007
With deepest sympathy to Paul's family, it's sad to hear of his passing. Haven't seen or talked to Paul in probably 15-20 years. Me and many close friends were hard core Tigers fans back in the days of the Decade. Paul was not only a good musician, but also a really good guy. Two quick memories. We got to hang out quite a bit back then either at the rock clubs, Norman's softball team games, or even some parties that me and my friends had that Paul showed up at. I will never forget one party I had that Paul came to. He met my brother who is 11 years older than me, and never could quite understood how we could follow a band 2-4 days every week! Paul and him talked for probably an hour about music. Never seeing the band, my brother became a "Shook" fan! The second one is a decade classic. I met the Bon Jovi crew through the Tigers. I was working part time at the Decade. Jon Bon Jovi and the band come in and are surrounded by girls that were at the club. Jon kind of blows off the girls when he saw me, walked over said hi and asked me if I knew if Shook was coming out! He did later and I am sure thrilled lots of the ladies! Paul your memories will never be lost. The way you used to jam out "house of the rising sun" still rings in my head. Rest in peace.
Judy Angel
August 7, 2007
My deepest sympathy to Paul's family and many friends.Either being on stage playing guitar,or sitting in a room full of friends....Paul had a personality larger than life.And he really knew how to ROCK a crowd. He had the most beautiful infectious smile, with such a kind, gentle soul!!!He really had a way of making people feel special...as special as he was.He was a TRUE ARTIST and will be greatly missed by so many.Until we meet again in the big Rock 'n' Roll Heaven.
Bill Kennedy
July 24, 2007
I found out sad news of Paul from an friend of mine.Knew Paul from playing with the Norman Nardini and he will be sadly missed.He always had an friendly hello.My deepest sympathy goes out to his family.
Denise DeJulio
July 23, 2007
To Paul's family,
I never knew Paul well, but I certainly remember seeing him hundreds of times when I saw the Tigers at various clubs. He was a beauiful guy and a great favorite of all the ladies in the audience. I have some very nice picures of Paul and the band from those days. Paul being gone truly marks the end of an era in Pittsburgh music. My deepest sympathy on the loss of your brother. He will never be fogotten.
Denise
Jon Gelsdorf
July 21, 2007
We just found out the news today, a very sobering moment. Karen and I met seeing The Tigers in the early '80's, and Paul always held a special place in our hearts and lives. A true gentleman in a business not known for that. He will be greatly missed. Our sympathies go out to the Suchma family.
Fare thee well to great person.
Jon and Karen Gelsdorf
Tigers '82
Tommy Larklin
July 15, 2007
TO THE SUCHMA FAMILY,
Ijust recieved confirmation concerning PAUL'S passing. MY Thoughts and PRAYERS Are with you during this difficult time...
PAUL was truly a genuine soul.He would always go out of his way to speak with me,whether at work or on the street.Ihad the oppurtunity to have worked with him backstage at the biggest ROCK SHOWS IN PITTSBURGH.BE proud of your brother,he was a special soul.The Pittsburgh Music Community has lost
a great ambassador,I have lost a great friend... He came over to my house about a year ago,this would be our last encounter...
God bless you Paul!!!!!!!!
Thank you for your friendship
Until our paths cross again
Love Ya brother
Tommy Larklin
July 15, 2007
TO THE SUCHMA FAMILY,
Ijust recieved confirmation concerning PAUL'S passing. MY Thoughts and PRAYERS Are with you during this difficult time...
PAUL was truly a genuine soul.He would always go out of his way to speak with me,whether at work or on the street.Ihad the oppurtunity to have worked with him backstage at the biggest ROCK SHOWS IN PITTSBURGH.BE proud of your brother,he was a special soul.The Pittsburgh Music Community has lost
a great ambassador,I have lost a great friend... He came over to my house about a year ago,this would be our last encounter...
God bless you Paul!!!!!!!!
Thank you for your friendship
Until our paths cross again
Love Ya brother
Thomas Larklin
July 15, 2007
TO THE SUCHMA FAMILY,
Ijust recieved confirmation concerning PAUL'S passing. MY Thoughts and PRAYERS Are with you during this difficult time...
PAUL was truly a genuine soul.He would always go out of his way to speak with me,whether at work or on the street.Ihad the oppurtunity to have worked with him backstage at the biggest ROCK SHOWS IN PITTSBURGH.BE proud of your brother,he was a special soul.The Pittsburgh Music Community has lost
a great ambassador,I have lost a great friend... He came over to my house about a year ago,this would be our last encounter...
God bless you Paul!!!!!!!!
Thank you for your friendship
Until our paths cross again
Love Ya brother
Tommy Larkin
July 15, 2007
To the Family Of Paul
Ijust heard the news of this tragedy today.Paul was a great ambassador from Pittsburgh.He had such a sincere and genuine spirit!
He would always give me such attention when we would encounter each other.He always made me feel so much better.The Pittsburgh Music
Community has lost great Ambassador... I have lost a truly GREAT friend... I LOVE YA MY BROTHER AND UNTIL OUR NEXT ENCOUNTER... FARE THEE WELL!!
Thank you Paul For the Friendship
Luther Russell
July 13, 2007
Dear Suchma Family,
Sorry I'm a bit late to the game here...just found this guestbook. I don't even know where to begin! Paul Shook was quite simply one of my best friends and even though we lived in different cities for the last decade or so, we stayed in touch pretty dilligently. He was first and foremost a kind and caring soul and a first-rate musician. Paul taught me many things about guitar and was quite the guru for me in that dept. He helped me unleash a more original sound and approach and I'll always be grateful for that. He was a great collector of music and memorabilia as you all know, and hipped me to so much "inside" info on all my favorite artists. We worked together professionally (he tour- managed my first band, The Freewheelers) and so we got to do some extensive traveling. On our roadtrips he opened my eyes to the real America--hell, we even got into a little trouble out there. It was fun! Paul had a wicked sense of humor and a humility/realness that just is hard to find in these "know-it-all" days. He will always be in my thoughts and prayers and I know it may sound like a cliche, but I really think he's up there trading licks with his idols. I had a conversation with him just a month or two ago and it was full of love and laughter. He will always be one of my true heroes and main inspirations as a human being and musician.
God bless,
Luther.
Wil
July 12, 2007
To all of Paul's family and friends,
Met Paul when he performed with the Tigers in Asbury Park. He will be missed.
bill murphy
July 9, 2007
Sorry for everyones loss.
Terri McGough (Wokutch)
July 5, 2007
Dear Ellen,Bob,Mike,Patty,Chuck,and Rege,
I just heard about Paul from my brother last Friday. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It's been years since I'v seen any of you, but I still have my childhood memories of all of us playing together as kids. I wanted you all to know that I care and feel for all of you in this time of sorrow.
Love,
Terri
Bill Park
July 4, 2007
Paul was not of this world. He was just stuck here for a while.
Like any seasond traveler stuck in a seedy nowhere bus station at 3am awaiting his connection, Paul made the best of his situation. And he touched many of us, and brought his unique view and joy of life into this world to brighten his small part of it.
But he has finally resumed his journey, and I'm sure that he is discussing his itinerary with his travel agent.
I hope that he finds peace. Fare the well, brother. See you on the other side.
Bill Park
Kathy Obringer
July 3, 2007
I was heartbroken to hear about Paul's death. I'm sorry I was unable to pay my respects in person, I was out of town. You were in my thoughts and prayers. Paul was such a wonderful friend. Always had a huge smile and hug everytime I saw him. My family knows the pain you are feeling at this time as we also lost a sister two years ago. She also fought the good fight. Our comfort is that she is in Heaven shining down upon us. There is a saying that there are not stars in the skys but openings where our love ones look down upon us. There is one more opening up there tonight from where Paul is shining down and looking over us. Please know that I will be holding you close in thoughts and prayers during this very sad time. Love Kathy Dugan
Deb Cathcart (Fitzgerald)
July 3, 2007
Tiger Patty:
I was so sorry to hear about Paul. We had such good times back in the day...I was going through some old photos just the other day and came across the whole gang, Susan, Paul, Norm etc. at the Decade. I will always remember you and Paul and the special times we had. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
July 2, 2007
To the Suchma Family,
My sincere sympathy to you all on the death of Paul. It seems like only a couple of weeks ago that he passed by my house and asked about Herbe. He told me to tell him that he asked about him and I did. Who would have thought that Paul's life on this earth would be so short. He always had a smile for everyone. Nice guy! Will keep all of you in my prayers. Joanne Herbe, Millvale
Madd Maxx Gallo
July 1, 2007
...Rock in Peace old friend.
Frank Zarisnak
June 30, 2007
Our deepest sympathy to the Suchma family. Paul was a kind and gentle soul. Paul and I would talk about music always after the Tiger shows. The last time I spoke to Paul was about 5 years ago, he was working for a company called Pro-Com and I was in Gateway Center doing some remodeling. We had a great time remembering all the musical moments from our past. I will always remember what a special person he was.He will be sadly missed. God bless you Paul.
Lou & Julie Lombardi
June 30, 2007
Dear Ellen, Bob, Mike, Patty, Chuck and Rege,
I'm deeply sadened to hear about your loss with Paul's passing. A few memories I'd like to share include listening to him practice on your porch while we were in the street playing some type of sports. He'd always give us a riff of "Cat Scratch Fever" when I'd yell over to him "play some Ted Nugent".
As we both moved on with our careers, travel was a prime topic I looked forward to while home on leave with the Air Force. He ALWAYS made it a point to look me up when I was in town because he wanted to hear about my duties and especially, the overseas travel stories. Paul would share his rock-n-roll stories about the places he'd been and what artists he encountered. And as a music fanantic, I must tell you this was one highlight of being "home".
I've shared this story with many fellow servicemembers and friends throughout the years because he is someone I've respected for a long time. He truly was a great person. He will be missed!
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May my Pittsburgh spirit be with you to help heal the sorrow. God Bless.
Kurt
June 29, 2007
What a great guitar player and soul. Had some really great times together. I will surely miss that guitar and conversation
Debra Zellmer Lamm
June 28, 2007
Paul~
You were one of the kindest and most gentle souls I've ever known. One of those rare individuals who could light up a room just by walking into it. You brought so many of us together with your talent and your spirit...always a smile, a wave, or a hug. Our mothers were great friends, and your mom was always so proud of you!
Godspeed my friend.
My deepest condolences to the Suchma family.
Julie-Paul-Katie at Heaven 25 Yrs ago
June 28, 2007
Peggy Donovan-Hamilton
June 28, 2007
Dear Ellen,
I was truly sorry to read about your Brother Paul. I know that it has been "Decades" since I saw you last, but I think of you often and our days at Eckstein Company.
Terry Thomas
June 28, 2007
My symphathy to Paul's family and friends, which I count myself among. I met Paul back in the mid-ninties when my band was just getting started. He was a friend of Osh and Angelo and would hang out with us at the former Decade or at Wiggy's apartment. I always remember his kindness, laughter, and sense of fun. He was an elder statesman of rock & roll to us and we all respected him, enjoyed his stories, and appreciated his presence. I had not seen Paul in many years and so I was really sad to hear of his passing. He was above all a great guy. Like so many other rockers, under that imposing appearance of leather and denium beat a gentle and loving heart - one that did not go unnoticed by God. I know you are at peace now Paul and in the presence of other dearly departed friends so rock on and bend God's ear with a prayer for the rest of us who must carry on with daily struggles.
karen nickel
June 28, 2007
Dearest Suchma Family,
We are very saddened to hear of the loss of Paul. As our family knows too well it is difficult to lose a loved one. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen and Dan Nickel
Howard and Judy McKown
June 27, 2007
Bob, Even though we really did not know Paul very well, our hearts go out to you and your family.
Zane Arillotta
June 27, 2007
What a wonderful guy! I can't believe he's gone as I was just talking about him the other day and was wondering if he was getting a band together again! He will be greatly missed.....
Luv,
Zane
Glenn Herbe
June 27, 2007
I'll never forget following the band to where ever they were playing and working my way to the front of the stage to the side where Paul was playing.I would yell his name and everytime he would say my name and give me that smile.He always knew where he was from and I respected that.Very cool guy who will be missed but always remembered.
Mr. Peanuts
June 27, 2007
Word just got over here about Paul's passing including a phone call from Norman last night after the wake.
All of Paul's Cleveland friends send their thoughts and prayers to all in Pittsburgh, especially from the musicans that were on bills with Paul when he came over with Norman to play (way too many names to leave here).
I think the last time I saw Paul was the after show party for Bon Jovi downtown when the latter played out at Star Lake (I assume that's what it is still called)
a couple years ago. He looked good and was real upbeat.
******************
To Whitey, Norman and Ray:
We all now have an extra guardian angel, watching over our shoulders.....
Pam Buttersnitz
June 27, 2007
Ellen, Bob, Mike, Pat, Chuck & Rege
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you, especially today.
I have always just thought of Paul as my "cousin". After reading the many beautiful things which have been written about Paul, it has given me a greater insight as to who he was and how much he meant to so many people. What a wonderful testament!
This past year was one of great personal change and growth for Paul and I believe he was more content and at peace than he had been in a very long time.
Although he is gone from our sight, he will remain in our minds and hearts forever.
Love from
Cousin, Pam
lynne barrow
June 27, 2007
Paul was a wonderful person who always went out of his way to make everyone welcomed. A talented musician with a heart of gold, Paul will be deeply missed and remembered fondly by me...and many others...
Lynne
Tom and Ilona McPherson
June 27, 2007
Paul was an awesome person and has brought back lots of memories to our family in the last few days. We have not seen you in the last few years but we kept track of you through Tracy and rege many times. You left this world way too early but still left a huge great sounding mark upon all of us. Godspeed!!
Bill J. Oliver
June 27, 2007
Aw, Pauly... I just can't believe it!!! Paul, you were a prime example of what John Lennon referred to as a "Rock 'n' Roll Patriot". I just found out a few minutes ago when I opened my e-mail. I didn't get out of bed 'til 2PM and that seems so utterly apropos for Rock 'n Roll news like this!!! Such horrible, terrible news. You will be sorely missed, my brother... sorely missed. I offer my most profound sympathy and condolence your family and many friends. Oh, how I remember those halcyon days that now seem somehow eons past!!! I am proud that you called me friend, as I called you. Not even death can change that. Peace be upon you.
Alice Thomson
June 27, 2007
To My Dear Cousins: Ellen, Bob, Mike, Patty, Chuck and Rege
Our Deepest Sympathy and Love go out to all of you at this time.
Paul certainly was a legend in his own time. Although his life was way too short he completed his mission in life by touching so many people and making such a big influence in the music industry and with all who had the pleasure of knowing him. He also conquered his own personal misson over the last year for which we were all so VERY PROUD of him. He proved to so many how beautiful life was and he truly appeciated each day as a new beginning. I had a wonderful converstion with Paul a few months ago and he shared so many feelings about how much he loved and repected his brothers and sisters. What a wonderful time we had talking and laughing. I told Paul how much I loved him and how proud I was of his accomplishments. He was proud too...and I know he is smiling down on all of us today. His beautiful blue eyes will never be forgotten and I know I will see that smile again someday. God Bless You Paul and keep you in his Care! I know you will continue to "Rock On" in Heaven with the rest of the Family at your own "Family Reunion"
Love,
Cousin Alice, Dave & David Thomson
GT Mitchell
June 27, 2007
Paul was a true rock 'n' roll cowboy and bro. I'll never forget the day I met him, the years we spent hanging out, his corny jokes and mostly his infectious laugh.
He will be missed by many but his memories will live on forever. He was truly one of a kind.
God bless you and may you rest in eternal peace. GT
Rob Kopar
June 27, 2007
To all friends of Paul I wish to offer my deepest condolonces to you and your family. He will allways be fondly remembered by us. I know that Paul will always be remembered for his musical talents but I remember him as a friend. Clifford is up in heaven with a cold one waiting to greet Paul. I am so sad that I didn't find out until after the viewings that he had passed. Please Ellen, Bardo, Patty ,Cow, Rege if you need anything or just want to talk call me E-mail me or just stop by the house on Geyer road. I know what you are going through. Love Rob and Joe Kopar. Ron Kaminski and family also would like to express their heartfelt sympathies!
Julie Giffen
June 27, 2007
Shook,
My emotions have run the gamut the last few days. You are gone way too early, my friend. Although, we had not been in touch recently, I always thought of you. All of the great times we had. The clubs, concerts, our lunches at the Gandy, photo sessions with Papi, New Years Eve parties at my house, your crazy driving, and us trading clothes to wear. I will miss your infectious laugh and great smile. I think what I will miss the most are those mischevious blue eyes that sparkled so much. Farewell my friend, I shall never forget you. I am heartbroken right now. I was so happy to hear that you looked great and were at a good time in your life. All my love to you and your family, Your friend, Julie
Shayla Wagner
June 27, 2007
Dude I dont know what im gonna do without you! I wish you could see Dalton grow up like you watched Cory and I. Even before my mom and Chuck were married you treated us just like family no matter what the situation. I wanna thank you so much for that. You went hrough a lot the past year and a half and you did it strong like I knew you would. I never thought I would see the day that I would have to say goodbye to you! Now that the day has come its gonna be harder than I ever imagined and everyones taking it hard including me! I love you and I'll make sure Dalton knows everything about you and how great you were to Cory and I. I'll never forget what you've done for me! I LOVE YOU!
You keep rocking your guitar like you always do!
Matt Little
June 26, 2007
Paul was a good friend and an inspiration to me for playing guitar... what a tremendous talent
he had. I very much wish to speak with his sisters.
Miss u and love u, Shook.
God Bless,
Matt Little
Susan Imhof Sines
June 26, 2007
Dear Suchma Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss of your beloved brother, Paul.
I have such happy memories of spending many evenings with my good friends rocking to his music with the Tigers.
Paul was talented, handsome, and lots of fun.
We'll all miss him, but he'll never be forgotten.
Love and Peace to you all.
Joseph & Susan ( Bush) Cipollone
June 26, 2007
To The Suchma family
Please except my sympathy and condolences on the passing of Paul. Rock n Roll and Millvale will never ever forget you
Panfilo DiCenzo
June 26, 2007
To Paul's Family,
On behalf of all the residents at A.D.A.'S House,and members of the C.A.S.H. CLub, Paul will be deeply missed by all. He touched many of us through his gentle words, compassion and understanding.We were
proud to have spent his last hours with us over pizza,hoagies and plenty of laughter. Paul's love will always remain with us.
Mary Ann Thomas
June 26, 2007
Dear Suchma family,
Please accept my condolences for the loss of Paul, whom I’m sure, was well loved and will be missed. I hope that your happy memories of him last you a lifetime.
I worked with Paul during the hey days – which were many – of Norman Nardini and the Tigers. One of the most popular Tigers, Paul was a legendary and beloved guitar player, who, along with Norman, Whitey Cooper, the late Nason Gieg, Warren King, and a few others, helped create the “Pittsburgh Sound” in the late 1970s and 1980s. (A groove, which by the way, continues to inspire generations of local musicians.) It was a lot of fun, with a lot of great gigs, and a lot of good people: The Stone Pony in Asbury Park, the Agora in Cleveland, the China Club in New York, the Decade. (The list is too vast to summarize, and then there’s Europe.) There were hordes of fans, loyal fans. Photo shoots with tiger-striped guitars. Black muscle shirts. Buster. Guitars, amps, and vans at Woodstock Avenue in Swissvale and the Transport Records studios.
The women loved him, as did everyone else. Those were the days when we worked hard, were just glad to be alive and celebrated life in the Church of Rock ‘n’ Roll everyday. I was lucky to not only have known Paul, but to be his friend during one of the most exciting times of our youth. Amen.
Executive Secretary to Norman Nardini & the Tigers
John & Karen Demko
June 26, 2007
Ellen, Bob, Mike, Patty, Chuck & Rege:
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother Paul.
Paul was a great person and a great musician, and will be
missed by all!!
Our condolences to Paul's family
Joyce Davis
June 26, 2007
Dear Ellen, Bob, Mike, Patty, Chuck, and Rege,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your brother, Paul, one of Millvale's favorite sons.
What a great talent and how wonderful that he knew so many and travelled so far and wide. He will always be remembered as a "really cool" guy and a great musician by those of us hanging at the Lincoln while he was starting out in his career.
I know words are hard to express at this time however upon his passing just remember this: "He can't fall out of the Universe." My condolences extended to you all. Peace.
michael brett
June 26, 2007
I will never forget paul,everytime he got up to do a song with us at the decade everyone would cheer for him,I loved him like a brother,then all the goodtimes in los angeles we shared together,some of the best times in my life were with paul,I will miss him very much
Holly
June 26, 2007
Truly, one of the "Great Ones"
jeffrey lyle
June 26, 2007
a good soul and a fantastic musician. he will be missed.
Laurie Conroy
June 26, 2007
Ellen and family - I hope all your good memories will surround you and cushion your sadness until your tears are gone.
SUSAN JERGEL (PALMA)
June 26, 2007
When I heard the news of Paul's passing a piece of my heart was lost forever. We were such good friends and have so many great memories. I haven't seen him in about a year or so but everytime we did get together it was as if we didn't miss a beat. Paul and I had a unique relationship which lasted throughout 20 years plus. We had many a talks and helped each other through difficult times. He was simply the BEST and everybody loved him. I have my memories and photos to keep. My deepest condolenses to his family.
Kelly
June 26, 2007
Aw..Shook...so much to say right now, but i'm still in disbelief.. You were a good friend, a great musician, and you had a good spirit. Rest in peace, brother...
Ruth (Chippich) Murphy
June 26, 2007
Bobby, Patty & family ~ Rock n roll will never be the same. My thoughts are with you.
Lori Strafalace
June 25, 2007
Dear Patty, Ellen, Bobby, Mike, Chuckie, and Rege, my deepest sympathies go out go all of you at the loss of your brother Paul. Karen is right, family reunions will be less with out him. I didn't know him as the rocker, I knew him as a cuz. Thinking of him now I can only smile. I send you all my love and prayers.
Paul Sundo
June 25, 2007
Patty,Ellen,Mike,Bobby,Chuck,Rege;
I was very saddened to hear of your loss. I still bring Paul's name up to this day. Your family was a bright spot on my path in life and Paul especially. I remember being at Moondogs with him and Patty when he sneezed and lost his partial. What a howl!!! I think about you guys a lot and you are in my prayers. My condolences.
Jim Slaugenhaupt
June 25, 2007
Paul,
I'll really miss you, buddy. You alway made time to help anyone that ever needed anything. I would be there but I am stuck in Seattle on businees. It was my pleasure to work with you and see you play guitar. Anna and I will always remember you.
Sandy Skrinjaric
June 25, 2007
Paul was so much a part of the heart and soul of the Pittsburgh music scene. I can't say how many times in my travels around the country, when I would speak to a musician and would say I'm from Pittsburgh, they would say "do you know Paul Shook?" That's the kind of guy he was - he was so friendly and made an impression on everybody he met. My condolences to his family and all of his good friends back in the 'burgh.
Julie Walsh
June 25, 2007
Paul was good friends with my sister, Jody and as a result came out to my house quite a few times. I also used to see him at the Stiletto gigs....he was always so nice - and what an incredibly talented musician!
You'll be missed, Paul......my most sincere sympathies to his family and friends.
Blessings,
Julie Walsh
Karen Straub
June 25, 2007
Paul~ You were my cousin, but also my friend. You had a great influence on my son Greg with your long talks about music at the family reunions. He truely looked up to you, but I don't think you ever realized it.
Our family is so devistated by your passing, I don't think your Aunt Lynn will ever get over the lose, she loved you as a son.
To Ellen, Patty, Mike, Bobby, Chucky and Regy, I can't even imagine your pain. You know that our thoughts and our prayers are with you.
If there is anything that any of us can do for you, please call.
Our entire family shares in your lose, and our reunions will never be the same!
Love,
Cousin Karen, Greg, Gregory and Jacob Straub
& Uncle Jerry and Aunt Lynn
Dawn Tornese
June 25, 2007
Dineen and family,
Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your former gym coach,
June 25, 2007
Patty & Family:
Please accept our deepest sympathy on the loss of of your brother. Hold onto the memories, they will help you through the difficult times ahead. When you find a penny they say an angel tossed them down to you. May you find plenty of them. If there is anything we can do to help, please let me know.
Take Care and God Bless all of you
Alison, Ray & "RJ" Wagner
Barbara (Meyers) Yoest
June 25, 2007
Suchma Family
Growing up in Millvale brings back a lot of memories every time I return to work at my old house on Mary Street where my daughter now lives. I grew up with Paul. My sister Robin went to school with Mary Ellen, and my sister Debbie and I always hung out at the "big" house at the bottom of Mary Street with Paul and many others - I am deeply saddened by the loss of your brother and your thoughts and prayers are with your family in this truly difficult time. Barbie (Meyers) Yoest
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