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The Rev. Dr. Robert C. Vaughan Jr., of Brandermill Woods, Midlothian, Va., died suddenly but peacefully, surrounded by his loving family on April 23, 2012, 12 days short of his 93rd birthday.

Born in Clarksville, Va., on May 5, 1919, to Robert Crews Vaughan Sr. and Glenna Hailey Vaughan, he was predeceased by his parents; his beloved first wife, Anne Cocks Vaughan, the mother of his children; and his younger brother, John Dickson Vaughan.

He is survived by his wife of 28 years, Doris Johnston Vaughan; his children, Robert C. Vaughan III and his wife, Ellen, Susan Vaughan Henry and her husband, Marshall, and Hugh Schuyler Vaughan and his wife, Carolyn; seven grandchildren, Jay Henry and his wife, Emily, Hailey Robertson and her husband, Rob, Liza Coonse and her husband, Jeffery, Anne Mann and her husband, Kelly, Anne Marie Vaughan and her partner, Lisa, Christine Maloney and her husband, Mike, and Robert C. Vaughan IV; and eight great-grandchildren and a ninth due any day. He was also a much loved uncle of their Scottish family.

Dr. Vaughan graduated in 1940 with a BA, Phi Beta Kappa, from Hampden-Sydney College. After teaching for a year in Bath County, he joined the U.S. Army, was commissioned a second lieutenant at Fort Monmouth, N.J., and was honorably discharged as a captain in 1946. With the help of the GI Bill, he enrolled in Union Theological Seminary, Richmond, to answer his call to the ministry. He graduated with a bachelor of divinity in 1949, moving then to pursue graduate study at Union Theological Seminary, New York, where he earned a master of systemic theology in 1950. In 1960, he was awarded an honorary doctor of divinity from Hampden-Sydney. He was a devoted alumnus who served the college as a trustee and planned to attend his 72nd reunion on April 27-28.

From New York, Bob returned to Virginia, where he held pastorates at Pryor Memorial Presbyterian Church in Crewe, Oakdale Presbyterian Church in Norfolk and Second Presbyterian Church in Petersburg, which he served for 27 years, retiring in 1984. He was elected pastor emeritus. He also served short-term pastorates at the Church of Scotland in Bermuda and St. Columba in Kilmacolm, Scotland, where he created a lasting, happy relationship between the congregations in Petersburg and Scotland, a relationship that led ultimately to his marriage to Doris. After retiring, Bob worked in development for Union Seminary and served as interim minister to several congregations, including Ginter Park, Gregory Memorial, Rosewood, Woodlawn and Colonial Heights Presbyterian churches. After moving from Petersburg to Brandermill Woods in 1997, he was associated with Southminster, where he served as pastoral associate.

Also with the Presbyterian Church USA, Bob served as moderator of the Synod of Virginia and as a member of the Board of Massanetta Springs. Among many community commitments, he was president of the Kiwanis Club and active in civil rights, founding Downtown Churches United and working successfully on the integration of churches, schools, and civic organizations. For many years he devoted a week day to free counseling for teens and adults.

Dr. Robert Vaughan, Bob, was a remarkable intellectual and theologian, a gifted teacher, a beloved minister, and a devoted friend to all, regardless of background. His life mirrored his faith, which influenced everything that he was and did. He dearly loved his family; his children and grandchildren were his great delight. He believed in us, and we thought him the best person we ever knew.

A memorial service celebrating the life of Robert C. Vaughan Jr. will be held at 11:30 a.m. this Friday, April 27, in Second Presbyterian Church, Washington Street, Petersburg, Va. A reception will follow. Condolences may be registered at www.jtmorriss.com.

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Published by The Progress-Index on Apr. 25, 2012.

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April 28, 2012

My husband and I were married in 1962 and will celebrate 50 years of marriage on August 4. Dr. Vaughn was the minister of my in-laws, Bob and Catherine Stinnett in Petersburg at that time. Dan and I lived in Arlington and were frequent visitors to Second Pres in Petersburg during the early years of our marriage. Dr. and Mrs. Vaughan gave us a beautiful figurine when our daughter, Tracey, was born and it is still proudly displayed in her home in Urbana, Maryland. We will never forget the wonderful messages that Dr. Vaughan delivered and will never forget his friendship with Bob and Catherine. In many ways he was the inspiration that led Peg to pursue studies to become a Certified Lay Pastor within the PCUSA. We have also lost his dear friends, Bob and Catherine, and the joy of recognizing each other in heaven is now a reality. You and your family are in our hearts and in our prayers.

Dan and PegStinnett,Calabash, North Carolina

Wendy Weber Ralph

April 28, 2012

Hugh, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. He was truly a remarkable man and I am blessed to have known him and your mother. My mother passed away in February, and I know the loss that you are feeling now is so very painful. But they will always be with us; and you will see and think of your father in everything that you do. And I pray that you find comfort in these loving memories. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sue Stinnett Young

April 27, 2012

Dr. Vaughan's incredible journey on earth touched thousands of hearts. The remarks made by my friends Frank Dunbar and Donna Allen express the sentiments of so many Christians whose cornerstones of faith were begun or enhanced by Dr. Vaughan's teachings and nurturing. My parents, Catherine and Bob Stinnett, joined Second Presbyterian in 1962 and shortly thereafter I also joined having completed Communicant's class taught by Dr. Vaughan. His friendship, dedication, and passion for ministering to all of us will never be forgotten. I thank God for allowing me to know and be taught by such a wonderful man. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Frank Dunbar & Family

April 26, 2012

I have had the privilledge and honor of knowning Dr.Vaughan since he accepted the call to serve as our pastor at Second Presbyterian Church in Petersburg in 1957. Even at the age of seven(7),I loved to hear him preach and I always looked forward with anticipation to his "children's sermon" on Sunday mornings. But more than his phenomenal preaching abilities,it was his kindness, his gentle nature and his gift for being so nurturing that will always mean so much to me.
Above all of my wonderful memories of Dr. Vaughan, I will never forget and could ever hope to repay the love, kindness and support he gave to my parents and me when my mother(Pat)was dealing with a brain tumor in 1961. Because of her illness she spent the better part of a month at MCV and it was Dr. Vaughan who took it upon himself to take me to see my mother in the hospital on numerous ocassions while she was recovering from surgery. During those few weeks we spent a considerable amount of time together traveling to and from Richmond. I always looked forward to those trips and thoroughly enjoyed our time together as talking to him always made me feel more at ease about my mothers illness. He also made a tremendous impression on me how he made me feel very special, treating me not like a child of 10 but as a friend or anyone he might engage in everyday conversation. It was only years later that I truly came to understand that he was using that time together to minister to me not as a preacher but rather by example and throught the strength of his character. As anyone who knew Dr. Vaughan can attest this is but one of countless examples of his dedication to his calling to minister to others, always giving selflessly of himself to his congregation, his community, his family and everyone he touched during his life.
In 1973 Dr. Vaughan traveled to Chesapeake, Va. to perform the wedding ceremony for my wife Ann and me, later he baptized my two childern and later still helped me to bid farewell my mother and father in 1999 and 2004, respectively. No question, no hesitation, Bob was always there for my family. I can barely begin to imagine how many others could say the same or much, much more about Dr. Robert Crews Vaughan,Jr!
Let us all be thankful to and praise God for allowing Bob to be a part of our lives. It was through his ministry, his guidance and support, through his love and by his example we can know the type of people and Christians each of us should all aspire to be.
May God's blessing be with and keep Doris and all of Bob's family. Thank you for the love and suport you have given Bob and for sacrificing precious time together with him over the years so others could be served through his ministry.

Carmine Ruffa

April 25, 2012

A great man. He was an inspiration and role model for us all.

William Prizer

April 25, 2012

Rob, I am sorry to hear about the death of your father. He was a wonderful man, whom I remember fondly. Do you remember when, in high school, we were listening to a Dick Gregory comedy album in your living room and he said that the humor might do more good than all the protests to get rid of segregation? That was the insight and gentle wisdom I remember from him.

My thoughts are with you.

Bill
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Page (Cook) Bishop

April 25, 2012

Such a great man. My family thought the world of him. He was my pastor at 2nd Presbyterian for many years. A great loss for this world, but a wonderful celebration in the next.

Sara and Jack Patterson

April 25, 2012

Bob Vaughan was a marvelous pastor whose valuable teachings are still remembered and quoted. He was a true model of what a Christian should be: accepting, practical, patient, tolerant and non-judgmental --he had the whole package and was as close to Jesus as we'll ever see on this earth. In addition he was a dear forever friend. He said once he never knew if his preaching bore fruit; we believe it produced orchards.

Bob Graboyes

April 25, 2012

Having the good fortune to live next-door to Dr. Vaughan meant that his intellect and his kindness were constant gifts throughout my childhood. To his dear family, Alanna, Jeremy, and I wish lifetimes and generations of wonderful memories of a great man.

Donna Allen

April 25, 2012

Dr. Vaughan taught me in Communicant's class,presided when I joined 2nd Church, performed my first marriage, counseled me during my divorce and baptized my son. He was my life long preacher and there has been none that have spoken to me or my heart quite the same! He will be missed! Mrs. Vaughan, Thank you for all of your love and care with this wonderful man!

Daniel Stinnett

April 25, 2012

My parents, Robert and Catherine Stinnett, dearly loved Dr. Vaughan as their pastor and friend. May the peace of God's abundant love comfort the Vaughan family now and always.

Scott Pelfrey

April 25, 2012

There are no words to fully appreciate what a man Dr. Vaughan was to me and my family. He was a tremendous influence in my youth and admired him greatly my entire life. He assisted in my marriage to my lovely wife Laura in 1998 14 years after his retirement. There will never be another Robert Vaughan. Rest in peace knowing the many lives you touched.

Tim Gay

April 25, 2012

Doris

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tim Gay former Director of Music Second Presbyterian Church

April 25, 2012

Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers

Martha and Jim

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