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Steven McDermott Obituary

Steven T. McDermott Steven T. McDermott 73, of Los Osos passed away at home with his wife, Marilynn by his side on Friday, August 21st, 2020. Steve was a professor of Communication Studies at Cal Poly for 24 years and loved his life in "sleepy" Los Osos-Baywood Park. After retirement in 2013, Steve wrote two novels, became a lifetime NAACP member, a Master Gardener through the UC extension program and painted over 50 canvases from abstract to modern to nature scenes. He was never idle, always reading, researching for his books, working in the garden and yard and enjoying his family and friends. He was full of curiosity and always ready to debate a topic and advocate for civil liberties. His love for travel coupled with his amazing memory of his life in California and Michigan was shared with his survivors, wife Marilynn, two daughters: Nicole (June) Rivera, Michelle (Joey) Penaflor; grandchildren: Harper and Mason Penaflor and Sienna Rivera; Sisters: Lynn LeFevere and Terry Semon. Everyone who knew Steve could retell countless "Steve Stories". His sense of humor and quick wit will be remembered forever. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to: tree.tributecenterstore.com, the ACLU or a charity of your choosing.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Oct. 4, 2020.

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Catherine B Wilkerson

September 28, 2024

My best cousin.....loving and intelligent!
Still mourned by all who are better for knowing him....

Vlasek Family

November 30, 2022

Dear Cousin Marilynn and Nicole and Michelle and families...I just found this searching for your address for a Christmas card..disbelief and sadness prevail..He was the nicest guy every time we had the chance to see you guys..I love you guys I pray for u guys and RIP Steve.. Much love ur Ohio Cousins Chuck Denise & Family

Carol Fissori

October 7, 2020

wow...will miss that smile. Marilyn, Nicole & Michelle...your husband and father was a good man. With deepest sympathy...much love to all of you.
Mark & Carol Fissori
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Katherine Kirby

October 6, 2020

I was so fortunate to have Steve and Marilynn volunteer with my class in our school garden. They were there every week taking time out of their day to teach us about plants and kindness. We still have the “Peace Pole” that they helped the students make right outside our room as a reminder of how we should treat each other. Thank you for being such dedicated and patient role models. Take care, Marilynn, and keep enjoying those lovely grandchildren.
Katherine Kirby

Nic Smith

October 5, 2020

I had the great fortune to meet Steve when I was in high school in San Jose CA in the early 1960s. We were friends and shared a number of amusing adventures. We went separate ways and I met Steve again in 2015 living in Los Osos, eight blocks away. The Steve I met in 2015 was the same wonderful man I met all those many years ago. His generosity of spirit, his willingness to share himself authentically. We love you, Marilyn. You both truly are in our hearts and minds forever

Terri Studnicka

October 5, 2020

I will never forget the smile on Steve's face, the laugh he had and his warm heart. He always took his time at family gatherings to ask about everything you've been doing. He will be missed terribly. Marilyn, Nicole and Michelle, you have been and will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Cathy Wilkerson

October 4, 2020

Steve had the warmest heart of our family. I am a better person for having had him as a relative and a friend.... His absence leaves a massive emptiness in my soul. My love to Marilynn, Nicole and Michelle with all my heart.

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Sonia Garcia

October 4, 2020

My deepest condolences, sorry I did not know. I am so sorry for your loss my friend, Marilynn

Lisa Kawamura

October 4, 2020

Steve was a great colleague, always happy and upbeat. He was always fun to be around and loved that he fought had for things and people he loved. We will miss him. sending prayers and well-wishes to Marilynn and the rest of his family.

Van Fleet

October 4, 2020

McDermott Family:
What a beautiful tribute to a life well lived and accomplished.
We send our sincere condolences and are so sorry for your loss.

All our love,
The Van Fleet Family

Stephen Penaflor

October 4, 2020

He is and always will be one of the most amazing men I have ever met. Honest, funny, kind, and smart. The world lost a great man. I love you Steve

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