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James Spencer Obituary
James "Jim" Ross Spencer, a local artist and General Contractor, died peacefully on January 16, 2008 at the Veterans Hospital in Livermore, California after a long illness, just one month shy of his 65th birthday. He was taken from this world much too young, but he is now free from pain. Jim was born on February 15, 1943, in Palo Alto, California and spent most of his adult life living in Corralitos where he raised three children and enjoyed the rural country lifestyle. He was an accomplished artist with extensive creative ability. His most recent work featured watercolors of classic Woodie cars that he loved so much. His tag line for his work was "Wooden it be Nice" and Jim it certainly was a nice journey for all of us that went on it with you.
As a child of a Coast Guard Officer, Jim moved throughout the United States from Bethesda, Maryland to Oahu, Hawaii. He graduated from Kailua High School on Oahu, Hawaii in 1961. He attended the Academy of Art College in San Francisco before joining the Coast Guard where he served at the Port of San Francisco. Shortly after his tour ended he married and started a family. Working nights and weekends to support his family, he graduated from San Jose State with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Fine Art. During this time he took on the challenge of constructing a Trimaran boat in his modest sized backyard. When completed, the Trimaran that he named the "Mandella" was removed by a large crane and relocated to the San Leandro Harbor. Eventually he moved the Mandella to Santa Cruz Harbor where it was moored for many years. He loved the ocean and in his younger years, he would take his extended family out for memorable cruises of the San Francisco Bay and Monterey Bay. His love for the ocean is what brought Jim and his growing family to Santa Cruz County in 1976.
Jim's gift was working with his hands to create beauty through his craft. He was a General Contractor for approximately twenty five years where he designed and built numerous custom homes throughout Santa Cruz County. When he retired from construction, he enjoyed woodworking, restoring classic cars, watercolor painting, and spending time with his family. One of his favorite classic cars that he lovingly restored was a 1946 Ford. An avid sports fan, he rarely missed watching a 49ers game, cheering for and coaching his children at soccer games, or watching his youngest son Matthew play in high school football games at Aptos High School. Jim enjoyed conversation, meeting new people, and was known for his dry sense of humor.
Jim is survived by his daughter Erika Spencer of San Juan Bautista, California; sons Kristoffer Spencer of Salinas, California and Matthew Spencer of Aptos, California; father Richard Spencer of San Mateo, California; sister Judi Forney of Cottonwood, California; and brother Larry Spencer of Plymouth, New Hampshire. He also leaves behind his cats Pheobe and Lolly, the last of a long line of pets whom he adored. He was preceded in death by his mother and step-mother.
There will be a private burial at sea on his birthday, Friday, February 15, 2008 and a memorial service to honor his life on Sunday, February 17, 2008 at 11:00 AM. For more information on the memorial service please contact Erika Spencer at 831 623-4636 or [email protected]. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that friends and family honor Jim's memory by making a donation in his memory to the American Heart Association.
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Larry Spencer
February 4, 2025
Hard to believe it´s been 17 years since his passing. He was my best buddy growing up and I still miss him.
Erika
January 16, 2024
Hi Dad,
Thinking about you on the day you left this earth 16 years ago. You are loved & missed. I think you would appreciate your granddaughter´s artistic ability. She definitely takes after you!
Larry Spencer
February 4, 2021
I still miss my brother even though it's been 13 years since his death. I know how much joy seeing and being with his grandchildren would have brought to his life.
Janice Spencer
February 4, 2021
It has now been 12 years since Jim has passed. Knowing that we have five grandchildren together, it seems very sad to me. Jim missed so much joy from his family. He would be so proud and amazed by these incredible changes. I have his paintings and covid stopped me from selling them this past year. Liz, my good friend, is excited about getting them out into the world. They are valuable to us! I still have Jim's Scoma picture above my office desk. Jim had worked at Captain of the Port, Coast Guard Station, in San Francisco. We used to eat at Scoma's when we were first married. I wonder if Jim can check in with my mom and dad, Alta and your dad, grandma mac, and Aunt Gerry. We all miss you Jim. Your art lives on.....Janice
Janice Spencer
February 4, 2020
To Erika, Kris, and Matthew, It is so hard to believe that it has been 12 years since your father passed away. I know he sees how successful, happily married, and wonderful parents you are. You all have his talent in many different ways. I ALWAYS remember Jim as I drive pass Moss landing. He is there in his favorite element the ocean and part of it now. I now have all his art and will be keeping his legacy alive. Love mom
Janice Spencer
October 6, 2014
October 6, 2014. Ira passed away last night. We all had so many memories since Ira would attend all my parents' parties along with Jim. It was fun when everyone was young and vibrant. And Erika, Kris, Matt, Kevin and Michael were all running around. Now we have all those wonderful grandchildren. Jim would be excited to see his new namesake and also my dad, James Bernard Spencer. They are such a wonderful gift from God.
So, now Ira will be able to say hello to Barney, Jo, Jim, Jim McClean, his sister and the mother of his children. RIP IRA, ahh yes, AKA LOWELL. Say hello to everyone :)
Janice Spencer
January 16, 2014
January 16, 2014
Tomorrow it will be 6 years since Jim joined his mother Velma, grandmother Mac, step mother Alta! I always think about what Jim has missed. Missing this Christmas with Brendan and Gavin and the electric cars was so poignant. Those two boys have inherited Jim's car passion and are being trained by Kristoffer to care for the cars. What a scene that was! And I wonder if Jim sees the progress Kristoffer has made with the Ford! A new color this year and body change would intrigue Jim. I reread all the legacy entries. It was fun to look nostagically at the past. We did have so many fun years. I wonder if he sees Matt the business man and Erika and Jesse? I still say a few hello's as I pass by Moss Landing. He was with the whales this summer!
Love mom
Erika
January 17, 2013
Hi Dad,
Yesterday it was five years since you passed away. It's hard to believe how fast the time has passed. I think about you often and when I look up at the stars I see your bright light shining. Miss and love you, Dad.
January 17, 2013
It has been five years since Jim has passed. I am still remembering Jim as I pass by Moss Landing. I thank him daily for our children. I was so lucky. I have sadness that he does not get to meet Brendan and Gavin. So much that he missed but now he is at peace with no pain of any kind. Janice
January 12, 2011
Another year has gone by. Matt is now married. Brendan is so big and looks so much like Jim and Kris. Three years later and I always think of Jim as I drive by Moss Landing...seagulls, sea lions, sea otters...Janice
Janice Spencer
August 25, 2010
August 25, 2010, To Jim: It is fun to see Brendan growing up. He is now a toddler with very big hands! He loves the red Ford and helps his dad polish and repair it. Brendan James Spencer is quite the continuation of Jim and Kris. How lucky can I be! Also, Matt spent an intense two weeks on Ancestry.com. Fun to see that the Spencers and Dahls are distant cousins with English background! Barney never told the whole story! And so it goes on...and how we all wish we could tell you about the Sherman legacy thanks to Matthew. But we all know you are sharing in all our joys and sorrows. But the joy is very great with fun filled Brendan giving us a better look at life and the marvel of it all!
Janice
Janice Spencer
May 7, 2010
Brendan had his first birthday pictures today. Carla had the grandmas take pictures with him. How much he is a Spencer...big hands, big feet, blonde hair and a big captivating smile. Matthew and I decided to nickname him wheels...his fascination with wheels is all consuming for him! The Spencer legacy lives on through Brendan James Spencer! Carla was great to set up this special day with him. He was talking to me..not sure what he was saying, but he is talking! And he loves woodies, especially the wheels. I am sure Jim sees him every day! Love mom
Mike Robinson
February 1, 2010
I was very saddened to learn of Jim’s passing. While using Goggle to attempt to reconnect with Jim I discovered the announcement. Such a loss! How great that you keep the guest book open. I met Jim in the early ‘70s through work. What a great sense of humor he had. What talent he had. I was a novice sailor when Jim helped me test sail the wood boat I purchased in 1973. He taught me a great deal about wood boats. He helped by making new wood rails for her a year later during a refit. I had the pleasure of sailing with Jim on Mandela; a delivery from Capitola to San Leandro. It was a memorable trip to be sure. His casual attitude and humor inspired confidence. He made difficult things look achievable. I would be comfortable sailing with Jim any time. In 2008 I met Jim Brown in Mystic, Connecticut. We talked about Jim. I regret that I had not attempted to reconnect with him sooner but I am very grateful that I knew him. He made a difference in my life. Mike Robinson
January 15, 2010
Dad - Brandan and I promise to take care of your car and keep restoring it in your memory. He has alot of thing that remind me of you, his big hands to start. Love you - Kris
January 14, 2010
To Erika, Kris and Matt, It is the second anniversary of Jim's passing. There is Baby Brendan, Matt the CPA, and Erika is married. Matt and Kathy get married this year! We should all meet at the restaurant for breakfast at Moss Landing this weekend...Mom
Janice Spencer
May 8, 2009
Kris and Carla, You three are such a beautiful family. You are wonderful parents and Jim is watching and is proud of his grandson. The Spencer legacy goes on....
Matt Spencer
May 7, 2009
"You sheltered me from harm. Kept me warm..... Kept me warm.... You gave my life to me. Set me free.... Set me free.... The finest years I ever knew were all the years I had with you."
My dad was a truly wonderful person and would be so proud of his grandson, Brendan James Spencer, right now.
Kris and Carla, dad would honestly be so happy for you guys. I can picture dad modestly holding Brendan, acting like he has done it a hundred times before. However, in his heart he would be melting thinking how beautiful his grandson is. Almost stunned at the splendor he is holding. How proud he is of his son for the beauty he has created and how lucky he is to be blessed with such a family.
Dad is beyond a doubt proud of you two for the gift you have given to the world.
Janice Spencer
February 18, 2009
Kris, Matt, Kathy and I stopped by Moss Landing on Sunday, one year after the celebration of your life Jim. We all had our very personal thoughts looking at the ocean on Sunday. Kris is excited about the birth of his son, Brandon James Spencer. We all hoped and prayed that you are at peace now. All your trials and tribulations are over and the pain is gone. I thank you every day for what I received from the marriage, Erika, Kris and Matthew, and now a grandson. How lucky can I be? It was a great idea that Matthew had to stop by the ocean. I remembered how we would walk on the sloughs of Alviso, so wonderful because it we could be alone out there with the wildlife. Sunday was like that. The ocean was wild with a storm, the sea otters were cracking their shells, the seals were diving in, and the waves were wildly crashing with the mist along the coastline. It was a memorable day and hopefully one that will continue on in the years to come. I thought about Erika who was with Jesse and taking care of Betty on Sunday. I know she would have liked to be there. Janice February 18, 2009
Matt
January 28, 2009
I have been feeling your presence stronger than ever lately. I feel you all around us watching over our every ones moves with such pride. Part of me is deeply sadden by this feeling because you are not physically here to show your pride in us, but more than anything else I have a sense of peace from your presence. I know you are watching over Carla as she takes care of Brendan. Helping Erika get through wedding preparations so she can enjoy her special day and the rest of her life with Jesse. Grabbing Jesse’s shoulder in the hospital as he takes care of his mother. Grabbing Kris’s hands to help him build his store. Staying up late with mom as she does her BPO’s. Helping Judy set up her art galleries as you give her advice on how to properly show off her work. Lastly, I know you are making sure I do not lose sight of what is important, family.
Janice Spencer
January 16, 2009
January 16, 2009....Saturday is one year after your father's death and what a year it was. Erika got engaged to Jesse, Kris got married to Carla and baby Brendan James Spencer is on the way. Matthew is studying for his CPA and is now a tax accountant at Price Waterhouse. We are all so lucky and I know your dad is very happy and watching over you! He is free now. I think of your father daily and what he gave me...you three. I am a very lucky person. The new year will bring Brendan, Mr. and Mrs. Jesse Carpenter, and Matt the CPA! Hallelujah!!!! Jim is proud!
Janice Spencer
November 6, 2008
November 4, 2008
Another month has gone by. I have started to walk on the beach again. My heart and soul aims to Moss Landing. I think of Jim daily because of you three children, he is so much a part of me. I do feel he knows all the good things that are happening to the family right now. He is so at peace and does not have the stress of daily life. Love mom
Janice Spencer
October 1, 2008
To Erika, Kris and Matthew, With all the new excitement in the family, I have to write again. Kris and Carla had the incredible news of a baby Spencer on the way. The wedding was so fantastic, gorgeous, but so very appropriate. It was near the ocean that your father loved so much. Jim was there...I kept looking at the ocean and thinking about how he was participating in this event. So, Jim continues on in Kris and Carla's new child. It was so onderful that the family expands with Carla's family. We are all so lucky.
Love mom
Janice Spencer
September 11, 2008
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal.....love leaves a memory no one can steal..."
Janice Spencer
September 4, 2008
To Erika, Kris and Matt, I hope to write once a month. My visions of Jim are more vivid and alive now. It was when we were very happy! I also see Jim with my mother somehow. She is protecting him. Dad is somewhere off in the back telling jokes....hmm, what else is knew. Dad's heaven is hanging out with Milton Berle, Jack Benny, Bob Hope and Johnny Carson....Mom is busy with Jim...he is free of all his pain and she comforts him. There is peace all around. I think of mom, dad and Jim daily somehow but with a feeling of intense peace.... Love mom
Janice Spencer
August 19, 2008
August 19, 2008...Erika, Kris and Matt...I think of my mom and dad daily. I now remember Jim. I remember him younger, without pain, and energetic. I remember how we were so in love and very active. I see parts of him in all of you...the best parts of Jim. I drive by the ocean on Park in Capitola and see the stacks of Moss Landing...there he is. Kristoffer went whale watching near the area where his ashes were placed. Kris and Carla were so excited that it was such a beautiful day and there were so many active mammmals...whales, dolphins...Jim is now part of that and I am sure he is pleased.....
Janice Spencer
July 29, 2008
Hello Erika, Kris and Matthew, we will now have a new family member, Jesse! How exciting for Erika and Jesse. We are all so lucky to have Jesse in our lives. So, this is exciting. And we all know that Jim liked Jesse very much.
So, there is good news. We are looking forward to the future. Love mom
Janice Spencer
July 9, 2008
Hello Erika, Kris and Matthew...I think of you often and all that you have been through this last six months. You have grown emotionally and have become sensitive to life and its delicate balance. Your father will always be with you and will ground you in having the right focus and purpose in your life. It is wonderful to see that you have a special person in your life to share your burdens and to get you through this year of mourning.
I pray daily for Jim that he has found peace free from the burdens of his pain, emotionally and physically. I am sure Jim is helping all of you from above to find the right way to live your lives in harmony with God's laws.
I love you. Mom
Joan Ellis
June 16, 2008
Hello Erika, Kris, and Matt:
I thought about the three of you yesterday and how it must have been a hard day for you since you could not to be with your Dad on Father's Day. Try to remember that you are part of him, and therefore
he lives on through you.
Take care,
Joan
Janice Spencer
June 16, 2008
To Erika, Kris and Matthew,
The first Fathers Day without your Father has come and gone. You three have so much of the best part of your father. His sense of humor, great artistic intelligence and appreciation of art, and love of nature are just a few. You are all different than Jim yet have some of his immense talents. If I am so blessed, I will be able to see you all have children and be loving parents. I love you. Mom
June 15, 2008
Erika Spencer
June 15, 2008
Happy Father's Day, Dad! The sun was out today and it was a beautiful day. You would have loved it!
Tomorrow it will be five months since you passed away from us, but you are still with us... I think about you every day. We all miss you, Dad.
Love,
Erika
Neil Steckley
May 9, 2008
I served with Jim aboard the Cutter Gresham in 1965 and 1966. We palled around together and had many adventures off the ship. He always had a ready smile and was a good friend. I always admired his ability to draw anything. I didn't realize what a good artist he was. I would like to extend my sincerest condolences to his family.
Neil Steckley
Sandi Tassano
May 7, 2008
Dear Erika, Kris and Matt,
We were so sorry to hear of your Dad's death. We hadn't seen him in years, but we have great memories when you kids and ours were very young and we would visit. One of our favorite times, that we still have pictures of, was a time when we came to your house in Aptos and you had a pony. We had such fun taking turns riding and getting pictures taken! The poor pony really got a workout!
We also still have a drawing that he did in college of a pair of old tennis shoes, that we loved so much he gave it to us.
Anyway, we wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and know that this is a difficult time for you.
Love,
Sandi and John Tassano
Janice
April 28, 2008
Yes, Erika, the fondest times were at the beach! We lived in our first home, a tract house in San Jose. We wanted so much to be near the ocean. So, Erika and Kris were born in San Jose and every opportunity, we would drive to the Aptos beach. We had our buckets, shovels, and dug sand castles. Yes, those are my most favorite memories.
Jim had a very big life and had much joy. He did accomplish alot and you showed it at the celebration of his life. He built the Mandella faster than anyone else in Alviso. His art work is everywhere. And the houses that he built are still standing. I always do the tour of Aptos and show every house that Jim built. He was a master craftsman and his work will live on forever. I say this to all three of you over and over but you are his legacy, his lifeline to the future. Within your future beautiful lives, your part of Jim will go on in a wonderful way. He had much pain in many ways at the end of his life but it is offset by his very good years. And he always loved all three of you in his own way. It was hard for him to express it.
Yes, Erika, now he can meet up with his mother...now he can be free of mental and physical pain...now he can be surrounded by all those souls who have passed before him. Life is so much easier without the pain that he had in his body. Jim is sailing and finally free.
Love mom
Joan Ellis
April 28, 2008
Dear Erika, Kris, and Matt:
It has been over three months since your beloved Father passed away at such an early age in today's world. I think of the three of you daily and your loss. One of the reasons is that I look up at the office walls and see the talent in the artwork on the walls that your Dad painted.
Jim was so proud of the three of you, and I know he was so proud of you at his Memorial Service on February 17th. Each of you gave a wonderful speech, and the slide show was very touching.
Take care,
Joan
April 23, 2008
Hi Dad.
I've been thinking about you this week -- pieces of paper with your handwriting on it, your phone number still programmed into my cell phone -- but most importantly the memories that will be with me forever. Those will never go away. It has been over three months since you passed away from us, but sometimes it feels like yesterday.
I realize now that some people understand loss and others are just scared of what to say or do. It took me some time, but I finally understand your sense of loss after losing your mother Velma at such a young age. I try to have empathy for those who have yet to experience loss as they don't quite understand the pain yet. I hope that you are visiting with Velma and getting to know her better.
Thank you Dad for everything that you did for us. I think about you everyday, but especially when I go to the ocean. Partly because you loved the ocean, but also because you took us there as kids -- those were some of my fondest memories Dad of my childhood. I like to think of you sailing on the ocean with your face in the wind breathing in the salt air.
I love you Dad,
Erika
Janice Spencer
March 30, 2008
It has been over two months since your father has passed away. I am so proud of all three of you in how you are dealing with your grief. It is a year of reflection and heartfelt grief. The service was wonderful at the Yacht Harbor and that will be a remembrance of a lifetime. The wonderful friends and family that came gave you the fabulous support that you needed.
I am so proud of all three of you. As I have told you, I wanted children and you were the gift that I got out of my marriage with Jim. I was able to tell Jim on his deathbed the great thing that we did. He is part of you always. And, as I will tell you forever, you are the very best part of him that goes on.
The shock of death softens a bit but the loss lasts forever. I think of my father and mother daily. I now think of them surrounding Jim with their great spirit of love along with other souls who have passed; his mother Velma, Alta, Grandma Mac. I thought of Grandma Mac and what a a loving person she was. She is there for him also. Oh yes, and we should not forget Aunt Gerry.
I was shocked when my mother died and angry. I did not understand why death was part of life. It is this shock which jolts you into understanding, compassion and the general passion there is in life. I have been blessed to have all three of you in my life.
Love mom
Janice Spencer
February 20, 2008
To Erika, Kris and Matthew, The past few days, friends and family members have called me to comment on the wonderful tribute to Jim at the Yacht Club on Sunday, February 17. Many have commented on how talented and accomplished Jim was and the good life that he had. It appeared that he had much happiness and love in his life according to the phone calls. Especially, the comments were that he had such a diverse lifetime of events and accomplishments eventhough suddenly short. They were surprised to see his sailboat and the fact that he built it by himself. They have all been so very touched by each of you and your memories of your father.
The loss is large and very painful. I pray for you to find peace during this difficult time. The grieving is important and along with it will come the healing. I can now look at the ocean and smile that Jim is a part of the ocean and the future.
Yes, there was lots of love....and there is still love...
Mom
Elke Landis
February 20, 2008
Dear Erika, Kris, and Matthew, Words cannot describe the pain you have to share your Dad with Heaven, but your Dad will always be in your heart and as the pain of your loss gets less, the joy of memories will take over. That, I wish you from the bottom of my heart.
I will always remember your Dad's chuckle with the brightest smile (teeth and eyes) and his great sense of humor.
I have always admired his craftmanship. Whether it was his paintings and/or building houses. What I most admired was his perfection in cabinetry, especially the oak buffet/hutch he built which was in your Corralitos home. What a piece of art!
Let me know if I can help in any way. Love Elke
Elke Landis
February 20, 2008
Dear Erika, Kris, and Matthew, Words cannot describe the pain you have to share your Dad with Heaven, but your Dad will always be in your heart and as the pain of your loss gets less, the joy of memories will take over. That, I wish you from the bottom of my heart.
I will always remember your Dad's chuckle with the brightest smile (teeth and eyes) and his great sense of humor.
I have always admired his craftmanship whether it was his paintings and/or building houses. What I most admired was his perfection in cabinetry, especially the oak buffet/hutch he built which was in your Corralitos home. What a piece of art!
Let me know if I can help in any way. Love Elke
Ben & Lita Madlansacay
February 19, 2008
Jim,
We didn't formally meet in this lifetime but we had a glimpse of you when we were at Janice's place last summer.
Knowing Janice, Erika, Kristoffer & Matthew- all perfect in their own right, is a legacy that you can be proud of!
Whatever you have done, wherever you have been and wherever you are now, we are sure that you are at peace.
God is Loving & Forgiving. We pray that He will Grant you Eternal Rest & let His Perpetual Light shine upon you.
Goodbye and may you have a pleasant journey in the life beyond...
Ben, Lita & Family
brian berman
February 15, 2008
Jim,
I have such great memories of spending summer days at your house in Corralitos. You were always happy to have Kris’s friends over and I knew I could always expect a warm welcome when I arrived. Thank you for all your generosity; be it giving us a place to wrench on our old cars or letting us cruise your 1954 Chevy wagon around town…I remember having such great times piling all our friends in your wagon and partying at the drive-in. Thank you for our family cat “Ace.” When Lolly had kittens you picked the friendliest one for me to take home. And now, 10 years later, Ace is still happy as can be living with my Dad and his girlfriend bringing them love and also a few dead mice into their house lol. I think of you whenever I see Ace; your love for animals lives on with him
I feel very lucky to have known you and I know you are now in a better place watching over the ones you love.
-Brian
Brian Berman
February 15, 2008
Jim,
I have such great memories of spending summer days at your house in Corralitos. You were always happy to have Kris’s friends over and I knew I could always expect a warm welcome when I arrived. Thank you for all your generosity; be it giving us a place to wrench on our old cars or letting us cruise your 1954 Chevy wagon around town…I remember having such great times piling all our friends in your wagon and partying at the drive-in. Thank you for our family cat “Ace.” When Lolly had kittens you picked the friendliest one for me to take home. And now, 10 years later, Ace is still happy as can be living with my Dad and his girlfriend bringing them love and also a few dead mice into their house lol. I think of you whenever I see Ace; your love for animals lives on with him
Thank you for everything Jim! I feel very lucky to have known you and I know you are now in a better place watching over the ones you love.
-Brian
Dick Santora
February 14, 2008
Dear Erika, Kris and Matt,
We were saddened to hear about your father's untimely passing. We remember Jim as a gentle and sensitive person. This side of Jim found expression in his love for you, his work, and his art.
Marion and Dick Santora
Tim Edwards
February 14, 2008
Jim my family was richened greatly by the time we spent with you. My little girl loved the apple orchard and your company, my little boy has played with at least one of the cars you gave him everyday since you gave them to him. Tracy misses seeing you, and I most of all miss your sense of humor and honesty. I know your in a much better place where fuel is cheap, the waves are great, the sails are full and your wishes come easy. Thanks for being you. We miss you Jim
The Edwards family.
RAH
February 13, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Rebecca Howell
February 13, 2008
Mr. Jim,
I never had the chance to meet, yet it seems as though your life was very complex.
You have reered a wonderful son, as you already know, and have left memories that I have been privledged to. I have said many prayers for you and your family, and continue to do so. I hope that you realize the lives you have touched in so many ways. How often does someone think of someone they have never met? Alot, lately, myself.
Watch your children from above dearly. Say hello to my father, Andy, if you would. I know the position fathers hold, the good and the bad, the positive and negative, and the gap you leave behind when you depart.
No one evers fills that gap, but it remains to hold a place in our hearts, and that is how it should be.
Deepest thoughts,
RAH
Rebecca Andrea Howell....
I used my father's and mine initials.
Matt Spencer
February 13, 2008
Waking up on a freezing school morning in Corrilitos was always one of the hardest things to do. You would always pour me a bowl of coco crisp or lucky charms. You never were one for the healthy foods which is why all my friends loved you and wanted to come over. We would wait for your coffee to finish brewing. It would always take a couple of pots to fill up your huge thermos. The today show would be on in every TV in the house although I do not even think either of us were watching it. We would then proceed to your beat up construction truck with the freezing leather seating. All your mail would be scattered across the dashboard. The truck would always smell of day old coffee from your failed attempts to drink it on the way to work the day before. There was always just enough room for you and me to get into your two door truck as I feel anything that went into the truck never came out. The five pound block of a cell phone and the tin Christmas cookie container filled with change would always rub up against me as you would drive me to school. You would have classic rock playing from station 98.5. Finally we would get to my school. You would wish me a good day and we would go our seperate ways for the day.
As much as I did not want to be going to school every morning these were some of my fondest memories with you. I remember loving these drives because it was just you and me together. I always remember how much I wanted to be like you. I wanted to drink coffee like you and I wanted to work construction like you. And I will never forget one morning when you dropped me off to school at Rio del Mar elementary. You were never one to really show your emotions, but one morning you kissed me on the cheek when you dropped me off. I had never felt so embarrassed in my life back then, but I never forgot it. Maybe you were not so obvious all the time of how much you loved us, but I know you loved us all from the bottom of your heart. And you know what Dad we are all just like you in more ways than we realize. None of us are really obvious with our emotions either.
I just wanted to let you know that we all love you from the bottom of our hearts too.
I love you Dad
Deanna Musler
February 12, 2008
I am the secretary to Richard Manning, who represented Jim in a legal action. Because it was a protracted case, I got to know Jim better as the months went on. He was always polite and was a man of small surprises. On one appointment he brought one of his watercolors and I realized that he was a gifted artist. On other visits, he spoke of his cats and I realized that he had a gentle heart. My favorite encounter was when he asked if I had grandchildren. When I replied that I just had one little granddaughter, he said "I'll bet she's your little princess," and his meaning was clear--that she was indulged. Boy, did he hit the nail on the head on that one! I liked Jim and am sorry that he was so ill and that his life ended so early.
Shirley Scott
February 12, 2008
Jim,
I knew you as a nice guy, loved your children, willing to help out and you built some beautiful homes in Santa Cruz County. I know you will be missed.
Rebecca Howell
February 11, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Lance Cowles
February 11, 2008
Dear Erika, Kris and Matt-
I have many fond memories of your parents. When MJ and I were first going together the long drive to Corrolitus was well worth it to end up with your family on the "farm." Spend a weekend there and always great thoughts for the drive back. Never was it difficult to talk with your dad over common interests... namely the Dahl Family. I enjoyed the pancake breakfast on 4th of July and the steam engines as well as the car races in Watsonville.
Many years later your dad would come up and work for a week at a time on our house. Only to find out the "real" do it your selfers Mary Jo and Lance. When MJ would come into the house where a million things needed doing and ask "what can I do?" When I suggested something it quickly exploded into her throwing an arm chair across the newly finished hardwood floor and storming out. We did spend many nice days out in Danville where we lived at the time and Jim and I would commute over here to the house. I learned much from your dad working on the house and there were many funny times too. The time he showed up expecting to do some wall repairs with his drywall tools only to find we had removed all the sheetrock in the house. Jims only response was" Guess I won't be needing these for a while." He bought a new truck when we were working on the house, what a suprise! Often he would fill it up with discarded items from the house always asking, "your just going to through that away?" I'll always remember crawling around under the house while we were leveling it. Confined to a 2 foot space and he puffing away on his cheap cigars. I didn't mind the smoke but followed him religiously picking up the wrappers. At one point, we were under the house on our backs when a 4 foot square plate glass window shattered into the room above us. The look on our faces. He always would remind us as we spent money on the interior fixtures to "Save some money for the roof." Always practical.
Years later, we were enjoying a quiet visit out at his property in Corrolitus and he said to me "well, your the surviving son in law." I wasn't sure if that was an honor or not?
I was so saddened to hear his health was failing and so sure knowing Jim he would pull through. Please know I have your dad in my thoughts and will always. He had the three of you to be most proud of.
Sincerely, Lance
Chris and Liz Karzag
February 10, 2008
Erika, Kris and Matt,
Your father has left you a living legacy with his many well-known and appreciated "Woodies" that don the walls and halls of art lovers and with his contribution to the local scene constructing beautiful homes that typify the California life style that we all love. His talent and love for the California life style in surf, sand and coast will live on in all of you as you pursue your life endeavors as he did.
Mary Jo Cowles
February 10, 2008
Jim, I can still feel the salty cold air stinging my sun scorched skin, the turbulent swells beneath me,you at the helm replete with a Coors Beer. All the while my throat tightening,stomach churing,skin void of all color. The Mandella cruising,wavelets lapping against the sides.
Remember how I would beg you to drop me off at the Bay Bridge Towers. "Get your Sea legs",you said. Well, I still do not have my sea legs, therefore I will say goodbye from land. I hope you have a wonderful journey with the ocean you love. We will miss you
Mj
February 9, 2008
Jim, I can still feel the salty cold air stinging my sun scorched skin,the turbulent swells beneath me,you at the helm smiling replete with a Coors beer. All the while my throat tightening, stomach churning, skin void of all color. The Mandella cruising,wavelets lapping against the sides.
Remember how I would beg you to drop me off at the Bay Bridge towers. "Get your Sea
Legs",you said. Well, I still do not have my sea legs,therefore I will say goodbye from land. I hope you have a wonderful journey with the ocean you loved so much. Love you Jim MJ
Rev. Vincent Coletta Loris Coletta Ph.D.
February 9, 2008
Erika, Kris, and Matthew, Our every good thought and prayer for Jim's family...Jim is a person of integrity...of faith...of achievement...who became our friend when he built our home in Aptos...after our retirement from our Church Ministry and Counseling Center in Palos Verdes, California. We have kept in touch with him through the years through our visits with Janice...We celebrate his life with each one of you...
Patty Sexton
February 8, 2008
Jim married my sister and quickly found that he was part of the Barney and Jo clan. The clan gathered in Concord for birthdays and holidays. Jim enjoyed these family gatherings but not the long drive from Santa Cruz. He returned the hospitality by having the extended family down to his home in Santa Cruz. There was always something to do for kids with Jim being the consummate entertainer. Of course he had his props…a horse and a cow…that is until the cow ended up in the freezer. We miss Jim his dry sense of humor and will keep him in our hearts forever.
Bob and Suzi Dahl
February 8, 2008
Dear Brother-in-Law Jim,
We first met when you courting my sister. You were supporting yourself working the night shift at Safeway while earning an art degree at the local university. In your spare time you painted San Francisco scenes that adorned my parents family room. You married at an early age and started building a large three hulled boat in your tract house backyard. Your intention to cruise the world in your finished boat ceased with the raising of Erica, Kris and Matt. With the family raised you reactivated your creative juices with your “Wooden it be Nice” projects. These photos adorn the walls of our Texas home. We tried to order T-Shirts with your “Woodie” paintings at lunch two years ago but you explained that you had discontinued the profitable but frustrating project. Customers demanded long sleeve, short sleeve, tank top, print on the front, print on the back, cotton/polyester…just too much marketing for a starving artist. We love you miss you Jimbo!
ANGELITO M Madlansacay
February 6, 2008
“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”
Hi, Jim! You have humbled me so much by sharing your physical frailness! In our quite moments at Livermore you said to me, “that you know that you have to make changes in your life.”
You did make a change. You passed on to end your physical sufferings and enter the Kingdom of God to see your Mother Velma, Josephine and Barney.
Almighty and Powerful God, please give us the Light of Your Grace and Strengthen our Faith in this challenging moment of our Lives!
With this sorrow, we are driven to the deep things of life. Please fortify our resolve to accept this quandary faithfully so that a new Strength and Beauty will enter into our souls!
Please point to a special place in our hearts to always commemorate on how the Goodness of Jim touched our individual lives. As a son to Dick, Brother to Judi & Larry, Husband & friend to Janice and more importantly as a Father to Erika, Kris and Matt!
Please continue to give each and everyone of us Your Compassion and Comfort! We pray that You will give our Broken Hearts Bliss and Peace forever!
Jim, I thank you so much for touching my life with the Love and Care of Janice, Erika, Kris and Matt!
With all my Love,
Lito
Larry Spencer
February 6, 2008
Jim,
Although physically we haven't seen each other much in recent years, I'm really going to miss our regular phone calls with discussion of sports and current events. It's hard to believe that you're no longer with us.
Your brother,
Larry
Kristoffer Spencer
February 6, 2008
Dad,
I feel deeply privileged to be called your son and all that it ment. You were allways there when I needed you most. The immense talent you possessed inspired me all the years we spent together. I promise that the talent I inherited from you will never go to waste and only grow in your honor! Go forth and rest enternaly with God for all the loved ones that you left behind are safe, strong and in good hands. I love you deeply and look foreward to seeing you again in the land of peace.
Your Son,
Kristoffer Farley Spencer
Mike La Franco
February 6, 2008
Uncle Jim,
You were always the best uncle to me! We shared a ton of laughs (especially at grandma Jo's cooking. Sorry grandma). You taught me how to body surf which I still do to this day, to ride a horse (good ole Buck) and you tried to teach me to surf, but that didn't take.
Your humor, guitar playing, art and outlook on life have always been an inspiration to me. You will always be an inspiration to me.
Mike
Matt Spencer
February 5, 2008
Miss you dad and I have been thinking about you every day. You meant so much to me for all that you've done. Sunday's are not the same anymore without our trips to Village Host to watch football. I know in my heart that we are all better people because you were in our lives. I love you dad and I will never forget you
Janice Spencer
January 29, 2008
Erika, Kris and Matthew, You are the very best part of Jim. He will continue on through all of you. You all stood by him during these last months and throughout his life. Your dad was so grateful for that and very proud of all of you. Love mom
Joan Ellis
January 28, 2008
Erika, Kris, and Matt:
My deepest sympathies to the three of you. Your Dad was so proud of his children, and you were so loving and caring to your Dad.
My thoughts are with you.
Take care,
Joan
Judi Forney
January 28, 2008
Jim: We have a huge hole in our lives without you. Your art will bless our homes and trigger a daily remembrance of you. Love always, your sister Judi
Erika Spencer
January 27, 2008
Dad,
I love you and miss you. However, it brings me peace to know that you are no longer in pain. I think you will enjoy the celebration we have planned for you.
Love you,
Erika
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