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Rebecca FINCH Obituary

Rebecca Ann FINCH Beckie left this world surrounded by love, laughter, and tears. She lived life on her own terms years before anyone coined the phrase 'women's lib'. Rather than list her career accomplishments, which are certainly impressive, Beckie will not be remembered for them. Those fortunate enough to have known her will attest to the pivotal and indispensable role she played in the course of their lives, whether as mother, grandmother, wife, sister, friend, nurse, manager, or wise sage. Beckie is the ultimate warrior, wanting only the truth of life regardless of the pain or sacrifice involved. She always did the hard thing, the right thing, instead of taking the easy route. She loved unconditionally and forgave everything. She accepted the risk of getting hurt as the price for living fully and openly. No one loved to laugh, sing off key, and celebrate the little victories of life more than she did. She is an old soul, here to gently guide, challenge, and lead by example. She took some pride in her minor faults, which made her approachable and vulnerable. She never took herself too seriously, having a wonderful talent for making the most awkward and insecure of us feel comfortable and welcome. She fiercely protected her family and friends, offering refuge, wisdom, and understanding. We feel truly blessed that she included us in her life. While we will miss her daily, she taught us all everything we need to know to live with integrity. She leaves behind her loving and devoted husband of 25 years, John Perkett; her daughter, Lisa Stewart, her husband Doug and their children, Abby, Jack, Joe and Kate: her son, Mike Lamey, his wife Stephanie and their children, Kellen and MacKenzie; her daughter, Paige Finch, and her partner, Judy; her sister, Sandy Russell, and her family and friends to numerous to count. Beckie has requested no service or memorial. In lieu of flowers, please make a generous donation in her name to Hospice of Kitsap County, 3100 Bucklin Hill Road, #201, P. O. Box 3416, Silverdale, WA 98383. Their professionalism and compassion allowed Beckie to fulfill her final wishes, and that, as the commercial says, is priceless. Please sign the online guest book at www.legacy.com. Hoffner Fisher & Harvey

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Published by The Seattle Times on May 2, 2010.

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Diane Zehnder

October 1, 2023

I still miss my friend......

Lynn Baldassarra

June 1, 2010

My condolences to the Finch Family. What shows that a person value this gift of life? By the legacy they leave behind. May those happy memories sustain the family and bring some comfort to your heart.

He is healing the broken-hearted ones, and is binding up their painful spots.(Psalms 147:3)

Tim Theriac

May 10, 2010

Beckie was a true friend and one of the most real human beings, we were all lucky to have known. John you said it all! what a beautiful tribute to her. I loved her so much. Thank you Beckie for all the love you brought into our lives.xoxoxo

May 10, 2010

Beckie was like a sister I never had. We have been friends for more than 25 years. I could talk to her about anything and trust her to be there for me always. We met at my hair salon and she was a favorite client for 20 years.
I miss her terribly and always will.
My sympathy also to John,Paige ,Lisa and Mike!
Gene Dixon

May 3, 2010

I met Beckie at Harbowview and immediately found a friend. She was loyal, honest,hard working and ever there if you needed her wisdom or laughter. There are no words to
express how I miss her and the heart ache I feel for her wonderful family and loving husband John. She fought the good fight and has her reward now, eternally.

Again, my condolances to John and her children and their families. She will always be in my heart and wonderful special memories. I know they will find the strength that she passed on to them, and can look forward to being reunited again one day, living their lives as she did, passionately and bravely.

Adieu my sweet friend.

Diane Zehnder Bellevue, WA

Kent & Karen Pratt

May 3, 2010

Beckie was a great friend to many and she will be missed greatly. She fought a huge battle with cancer and we are sure she is in a much better place now. We extend our sincere sypmathy to her family.

Karen Louise

May 2, 2010

In April of 1990 I applied for an RN position at Virginia Mason Medical Center. I got a call from Beckie Finch for a job interview. By the end of that interview, I had a new job, in a new city and most important-I had a new friend.
During one of the most difficult transitions of my life Beckie took me under her wing and into her family. She helped me in countless ways to recover from a devastating loss and to find a way to live and laugh (really hard some times) again.
My life is enriched beyond measure by her unwavering friendship. I learned that when Beckie decides she loves you-that is it-you are hooked up to her loyal and open heart forever.....
Her body gave it up as all bodies do. She did not pass into the Light with ease-but she is there now. Healed. Whole. Yet not gone. Love lives on and my friend Beckie's love lives on in my heart and in my memories of a sweet and rare friendship.
To John, Paigie, Lisa and Mike, your wife, your mother was a magnificent soul. Love, Karen Louise

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