Died on Saturday, September 28, 2013 after several long bouts against 3 or 4 cancers - winning most of them except the last. He was 82.
He was born in Boston January 28, 1931 to Ethel and Bernard Singer. He graduated from Boston Public Latin School, Hebrew Teachers College and Northeastern University. He went on to Northwestern University where he received a PhD in Psychology and met his wife Sandra Joy Sugarman. They had two daughters, Annie and Ruthie.
In Chicago he had a private practice and taught in the Psychiatry Department at the University of Illinois Medical School. Following one of the coldest winters in Chicago history, they moved to San Anselmo and began their California life.
Sadly Sandra died in 1982 and Paul moved to San Francisco where he worked for the California Department of Corrections until his retirement. He married Diana Joy Cohen in 1987 and together they began a life of travel, theatre, ballet. He loved the Great American Songbook and 19th century novels - especially "Middlemarch" which he read at least once a year. He loved movies. They were his refuge and his cathedral. He remembered plot lines, and the names of actors and directors of any movie he ever saw and he saw them all. He carried a camera wherever he went. Enthusiastic and full of opinions always delivered with wit and wisdom. If you met Paul Singer you never forgot him. He is survived by his wife Diana, his two daughters Annie and Ruthie; step children Julie Cohen-Wooden and Joshua Cohen and his adored grandchildren Justin Verducci and Alexandra Singer. He will be terribly missed.
Graveside services will be held Tuesday, October 1, 2013 at 1:00 PM at Salem Memorial Park, 1171 El Camino Real, Colma. In lieu of flowers, donations in his honor can be made to: San Francisco Ballet, Yosemite National Park or any progressive political social organization of your choice.
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Matt Bowen
December 10, 2023
I was Paul's intern @ the CDC clinic in the Ferry Bldg in 1982. He had just been widowed and we became social pals. He was a mensch. Matt Bowen
Caroline Allen
September 23, 2021
I miss you, Paul.
Joyce & Don Gayle
October 4, 2013
A lovely obit for a lovely person. Our thoughts are always with you.
October 1, 2013
Diana,
I remember so well your and Paul's kindness inviting me to dinner when we first met so many years ago.
Paul was a warm, bright, sincere, and very dear person whom I for one will miss.
Love,
Caroline and Ric
Sarah Shirley
September 30, 2013
Diana, Ruthie, Annie, Alexandra...much love and sympathy to each and all of you.
all blessings,
Sarah
Damita Bridges
September 30, 2013
To a man, if you met you will never forget, Rest in Peace Mr Singer! God Bless You!
Jean Freeman
September 30, 2013
Dear Annie & Ruthie. You won't remember me but I remember you and your parents well. I am Fran Paden's sister. And when you were girls, I was fortunate to have spent some nice time with you. You also knew my son Marcus. I am so sorry you have lost your fabulous father and that Diane has lost her dear husband. I was very fond of Paul & Sandy and of you both so many years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you now. Love, Jean Freeman
Michael Masters
September 30, 2013
Dearest Diana,
I was saddened to learn of the passing of our wonderful and special Paul.
For you, the passing of a dear and wonderful friend and husband. For me, and countless others, a unique and terrific friend and extended family member.
Watching the Oscars won't be the same.
Love,
September 29, 2013
Dear Diana and Ann and Ruthie and Alexandra
Paul was an amazing man who was strong, determined, fiercely opinionated, humorous, and most of all loved the three of you with all of his heart. He fought so hard and bravely through all his illnesses. I hope all of the wonderful memories of all of the good times and all the joy and laughter you shared help to heal some if the grief and sadness in your hearts.
With all my love,
Monica
Harriet
September 29, 2013
Ann and family-
I was saddened to learn of your dad's passing from Monica. He bravely beat cancer many times and you got to have extra years of quality with him. I wish you all well during this time of grief. May his memory be for a blessing and may the light of his life and love glow brightly in your hears forever.
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