Joseph S. Oliver

Joseph S. Oliver

Joseph Oliver Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 28, 2008.
NEW BEDFORD — Joseph S. Oliver, 56, of New Bedford, died unexpectedly Thursday, June 26, 2008, at St. Luke's Hospital after being stricken at home.

He was born in New Bedford, the son of Dorothy (Oliveira) Oliver and the late Joseph S. Oliver, Sr.

Mr. Oliver graduated from New Bedford High School class of 1970. He received his Bachelor Degree from the former Southeastern Massachusetts University now known as UMASS Dartmouth and went on to earn his Master's Degree and certificate of advanced graduate studies from Bridgewater State College. Mr. Oliver also completed post graduate study at UMASS Amherst from 1984-1986.

Although Mr. Oliver was known as an educator in the New Bedford School System, his first teaching job was actually at the Ford Middle School in Acushnet. He was a math teacher for many years later becoming assistant principal of the then Normandin Junior High School. While at New Bedford High School he was promoted to Gold House Housemaster and later went on to become Headmaster of New Bedford High School. Since 2004 Mr. Oliver was assistant Superintendent of curriculum and instruction. Mr. Oliver was also an adjunct professor in the graduate program at Bridgewater State College since 2002 and recently was one of three finalists in the Wareham School System's search for a new Superintendent.

He was a sports enthusiast, who enjoyed watching sports, especially the New York Yankees. He also enjoyed playing golf and racquetball. His most cherished times were spent vacationing and being with his beloved nieces & nephews.

Survivors include his mother, Dorothy (Oliveira) Oliver of New Bedford; 1 brother, Steven Oliver and his wife, Alfie of New Bedford; 2 nephews, Shawn and his fiancee, Melanie and Timothy; 1 niece, Kelly; and great nieces & nephews, Tyler, Taylor, Tyrah & Brendan. He was the brother of the late John Oliver.

Flowers are accepted or donations may be made to the New Bedford High School Joseph S. Oliver Scholarship Fund, ATTN Carla, 230 Hathaway Boulevard, New Bedford, MA 02740.

Funeral from the AUBERTINE-LOPES FUNERAL HOME, 129 Allen St., Monday morning at 8:45 with a mass of Christian burial to be celebrated in St. Julie Billiart Church, Dartmouth at 10:00. Interment in St. John Cemetery. Visiting hours Sunday evening 4:00-8:00.

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January 19, 2010

Hugo Gomes posted to the memorial.

August 16, 2008

Kelly Oliver posted to the memorial.

July 31, 2008

Clod Marcial posted to the memorial.

Hugo Gomes

January 19, 2010

Joe was a great friend and mentor. I met Joe when I was a student at Normandin Jr. High. He helped me land my first job at 15, provided guidance to get me into college and grad school and played a mean game of raquetball.

I apologize to the Oliver family for not responding sooner but I have been living in Glendale, Arizona for the past 4 years and recently in Tampa Bay. Truth is, I was recently researching Joe's current address to send him an invitation to my upcoming wedding this summer when I came upon the news of his passing.

My prayers go out to the Oliver family and I would like you to know that Joe was a great friend and a personal inspiration and I wouldn't be where I am today if it weren't for him...

Kelly Oliver

August 16, 2008

Uncle Joe...
I still cant beleive your really gone...I want to know why it wasnt your time you still had so much teaching to do although i wasnt as close with you as you adn shawn were or even you adntimmy i was still your only niece and i know you loved me just the same its just we didnt have much in common i want to properly thankyou for being my uncle adn always believein in me i know you will continue to watch over me adn b gram dad mom tim shawn mel tay ty and rah and make sure we all make the right choices i am so thnkaful to have an uncle liek you you were well liked adn respected by all of all the people i never heard one single negative towards you.Its hard to go by your house with work adn school adn brendan but when i do it just doesnt feel the same you were never home becuase of work adnyou had a life to but we knew your presence was there your scent now nothing you walk into the house adn all you feel is emptyness i walk by the bathroom adn still get freaked out i know grama needs us adn we need to be strong for her but it is ahrd real hard..you are deeply missed and will forever be in my heart thankyou for ALL YOU HAVE DONE FOR NOT ONLY ME BUT THIS FAMILY.love your lil brut Kelly MARIE

Clod Marcial

July 31, 2008

Mr.Oliver Thank you for being there.
Project Rise Class of 1988.Normandin
Junior High School.I also remember you beating me in Raquetball.
I lost the bet so I had to wash your 1988 Mitsubishi.Oh Yeah Yankees
rules...I am going to miss you Mr Oliver.You wasa big part of my education years. I thank you for that...Clod Marcial

Sheila Arnold

June 30, 2008

To Mr. Oliver's Family and His New Bedford Public Schools Family- Mr. Oliver was an individual who impacted everyone he came in contact with - As the rest of us now go through life, we only hope that we can "live to be missed" as he did.

TK

June 30, 2008

Deepest sympathies to the Oliver family as well as all of those who thought of Joe as family. You were a great mentor, but a better friend!

Ya tebya ochen lyublyu!

Rachel (Constantine) Emde

June 30, 2008

I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family especially during this difficult time.

Alice Freitas, NBHS

June 30, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Tammy Morgan

June 30, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Oliver family. Joe was a true leader in every sense of the word. I will never forget his sense of humor, his down to earth personality, and his sincere investment in educating the children of New Bedford, as well as inspiring fellow educators and administrators. What a great loss to New Bedford Public Schools! You will always be in our hearts and prayers.

Laurie mahoney

June 30, 2008

To The Oliver Family, Iwish to send my condolences on the passing of A greatly respected man Mr. Oliver.though i had not seen him in quite a few yrs,He was 1 of my teachers at Ford Jr High and was 1 of the best,I have known the Oliver Family for about 15 yrs and my heart goes out to them,They not only have lost a Son,Brother,Uncle,but also a Best friend who was always there with his Wisdom,Guidance and Love.He will always be in your hearts but never forgotten. Thank you for being there for me in my time of need.

Connie Bebis

June 29, 2008

I extend my deepest sympathy to the Oliver Family. My prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Crystal Burt

June 29, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Faculty and Staff Of N.B.H.S.

June 29, 2008

The Faculty and Staff of N.B.H.S. extend their condolences to the family of Joe Oliver. He was truly one of the great leaders within the New Bedford Public Schools.

Kathryn LaRochelle

June 29, 2008

Joe Oliver was a brilliant man who dedicated his life to the children of our community. New Bedford is a better place because of him. We are left with the duty to continue Joe's work for all of the students in our great city.

Paul Santos

June 29, 2008

Joe, I was shocked when I got the phone call Thursday morning. You will be sadly missed. Your efforts on behalf of the students in this city were tireless and for that you will always be remembered. On a personal level, your kind nature and willingness to listen will never be forgotten. My deepest condolences to your family.

Dianne Bosworth

June 29, 2008

Dear Oliver Family, I send my deepest sympathies out to you all. Joe was a great educator and mentor he has helped many a students when they were in need. My son Christopher has always held him in high reguards as his Asst. Principal at Normandin when Chris was a student there. As an Adult Chris could always count on Mr. Oliver when he needed help for his own children. he will be dearly missed. Thanks Joseph Oliver for what you have done for my son Christopher Beaulieu and his children Jordan and Jessica.

Kelly/Brendan

June 29, 2008

Uncle Joe, You will be greatly missed.You and I were out numbered in this Red Sox family but don't you worry I will continue to cheer for you.You were the best uncle anyone could ever have my son will grow up knowing how great of a man his great-uncle was.Thank you for being a positive role model in my life, you've always said with a little hard work everything is possible I will keep on trying to live up to the example you set . Brendan and I love you and you will forever live in our hearts till we can all meet again all our love your niece and nephew Kelly and Brendan

June 29, 2008

Joe,

We were together for so long. Sometimes I felt like the wife, the mother, the best friend but never just the secretary. You made my job so easy. I just don't know how I can go back there without you. Remember we were a package deal, who else could put up with your perfection !

We got the job done and had fun doing it. You will always be in my heart and can never be replaced.

Joyce

Jeff Smith

June 29, 2008

So sad to hear the news... You were a great teacher, mentor and friend. RIP.

M. Letourneau

June 28, 2008

I was shocked and saddened to hear of Joe's sudden death. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and dear friends who will miss him terribly.

Mark and Bonnie H

June 28, 2008

To Joe and his family,

You will be sorely missed, and we will always think of the great conversations we shared when we ran into each other dining out.

May there be a special place reserved for one of the truly great men who has crossed our lives...

Mark and Bonnie H.

Joseph Almeida

June 28, 2008

Mr. Oliver,

I will always remember your kindness, commitment to the "tradition of excellence," and your willingness to do the right thing (even when it seemed impossible). I remember being on the Student Advisory Council as a senior and having a petition signed for Concentrated African-American studies, and the following year, you allowed it to become reality. I will also remember your mentorship in helping me to see what great school leadership was about. In part due to you, I became an educator. I am now in New York City, and although we are now in different places, we will always share a commitment to the future--in that way, we are not far apart.

I will miss you, and I will always remember you as headmaster, mentor, and friend. God bless you, and enjoy the eternal vacation in your retirement, which you so deserve. You will be missed by many.

Michael Lopes

June 28, 2008

My heartfelt sympathy to the family of Joe Oliver. He was a fine gentleman and fellow educator who devoted his life to imparting knowledge to young people.

Anne Adamowicz

June 28, 2008

Joe, may you rest in peace. If there's a master schedule to be done for God, you're just the person for the job.


Anne Adamowicz, New Bedford Public Schools

The Staff at Healthtrax

June 28, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

A former grateful pupil.

June 28, 2008

This is such a shock~I had Mr. Oliver as a substitute in Ford Middle School back in the seventies and he was always available for that extra help when needed.
I extend my condolensces to his friends, colleagues and family...

Katie Gilfeather

June 28, 2008

Dear Mrs. Oliver and Family,
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time. Joe will be remembered by so many in this community- which we hope brings you some peace.
Katie Gilfeather and the staff at Outlook EAP

Dave Costa

June 28, 2008

My deepest condolences and sympathy to all family and friends. You were as great a person as they come and have help me and those close to me at all times. I am extremely thankful to have gotten the opportunity to know you as a Headmaster, a boss, and a great friend. You will forever be missed and never forgotten! Rest in Peace Mr. O

David Girard

June 28, 2008

Joe, thank you so much for everything you did for so many of us. you saved my life. your willingness to do anything to help will never be forgotten. thanks for the raquetball whoopings, the olive garden meals and the shoulder to lean on in the toughest times. if i ever amount to be half the man you were i will be blessed. deepest sympathies to his family and friends. we will all miss you greatly. God bless you.

Todd Bates

June 28, 2008

Joe played an important role in the lives of many people throughout New Bedford and the surrounding areas. So many of us owe so much to this man and he will be greatly missed.
The Oliver family should be proud of all that Joe has done for the community throughout his days. I hope that you all don't mind, but there are countless others of us that feel as though Joe was a part of our families too. May he rest in piece

N. B.

June 28, 2008

Mrs. Oliver and family,
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy on the passing of Mr. Oliver. He was a great man and will be missed deeply in this community. I will always remember running into him at Bridgewater when I was working on my masters and he was working on his cags. I also had the pleasure of working for him at NBHS one summer. Thank you for giving him to the New Bedford School Department so many years. He has touched the lives of many. May God grant you peace in this time of sorrow.
God Bless

Maureen Gilmore

June 28, 2008

I wish to express my deepest sympathy to the family. As a part of our N.B.H.S. family you will be missed, but the way you touched so many of us will not be forgotten.

Deborah Borden

June 28, 2008

The impact of Joe's life's work, and the impact of his loss far too soon, will echo in the heart's of those of us who knew and respected him for years to come. We may not have always agreed, especially about baseball, but your smile, your shyness, your warmth, and your dedication to making things better for the kids will always be with me. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to all of his loved ones. God comfort and Bless you in this time.

The Staff of Aubertine-Lopes Funeral Home

June 28, 2008

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

June 28, 2008

Joe,It doesn't seem fair I came from no brothers and sisters to a family with 2 brothers only to loose one a year after entering into this great family so full of love for each other and now 26 years later to loose another brother this is more then anyone family should have to bear. Joe you were a great friend, mentor, son,brother,uncle and great-uncle and the brother I never had.Thank you for always being there for Shawn,Kelly,and Tim they will miss you dearly but never forget you and all that u were to them your great nieces and nephews Tyler,Taylor,Tyrah and Brendan will for ever remember you and the great Christmas's at Uncle Joe's and Grandma's by the beach You truely were the Bomb Thank you so much my heart is heavy but someday it will give out a sigh of relief for we will all be together again. My life is better for I have been blessed to have such a brother like you I love you and thank you for being and giving so much of yourself to your family and all the lives you have touched we will carry on for you.Thanks with all my loveyour sister-in law Alfie

BROTHER STEVE

June 28, 2008

BROTHER WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS THE WAY I FEEL AND HOW DEEPLY YOU WILL BE MISSED IT JUST IS NOT FAIR THAT I HAVE LOST TWO BROTHERS. I CANNOT THANK YOU ENOUGH FOR THE INFLUENCE YOU HAVE PUT IN MY LIFE AND THAT OF MY CHILDREN. I KNOW YOU ARE LOVED BY SHAWN, KELLY AND TIM AND WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS WHAT YOU HAVE MEANT IN THEIR LIFES. SHAWN CANT THANK YOU ENOUGH FOR HELPING WITH HIS FIRST CAR AND KELLY GOING TO SEE BARBIE WITH YOU AND OF COURSE TIM GOING TO FLORIDA THE GYM AND OUT FOR THOSE GREAT RIBS AND CHOCOLATE CAKE HE WILL REMEMBER YOU EVERY TIME WE GO TO CHILLIS. I CANNOT THANK YOU ENOUGH FOR TAKING GREAT CARE OF MOM AND KNOW THAT SOMEDAY WE WILL MEET AGAIN AND YOU WILL BE THE GREAT SUPERINTENDENT IN THE SKY IN MY EYES YOU HAVE FULFILLED YOUR DREAM LOVE BROTHER STEVE

mother

June 28, 2008

joe my beloved son words cannot express how much you will be missed and how greatful i am that you were there to take care of me. life will not be the same without you but all our memories will get me thru. watching the red sox against the yankees will not be the same and someday we will get together and finish our rummy games i will catch up to you you will be greatly missed rest in peace i love you son mom

THERESA

June 27, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Valerie M. Almeida

June 27, 2008

To the Oliver Family:

Although I personally never met Mr. Oliver, as a substitute teacher for the City of New Bedford may I express my condolences for your sudden and unexpected loss.
I can tell you that he had a reputation for being very committed to his role as educator and administrator and many teachers throughout the system have told me that he thought of his chosen field not as a job but as profession in which he took great pride.
May you find peace in knowing that he did make a difference and may you also know that he is now in a better place full of joy and reward for all his good works.

Charlene Williams

June 27, 2008

I remember Mr. Oliver as one of my favorite math teachers. He was a great teacher, a great man and made a difference. He was alll that an educator should be!!

Charlene Williams (NBHS class of 79)

Sue Pacheco

June 27, 2008

To the Oliver Family,
May the memories held deep within your heart help to soothe your spirit at this sorrowful time and allow you to find joy in celebrating all the wonderful memories you will carry forward. Joe will live on in the hearts of everyone who's life he touched during his short journey with us.
Joe, your passion and professionalism as an educational leader and mentor was truly inspiring as well as your motivation and dedication to see all students succeed through education. NISLand the NBPS family will not be the same without you.

In God's Graces....

melanie,shawn tyler,taylor,tyrah and timmy

June 27, 2008

uncle joe words can not explain how important u were to all of us kids u gave us all u could. u will be missed and always in our heart. we will miss the bell at xmas.always in our heart

karen Jones

June 27, 2008

To the family of Mr.Oliver, I send you my deepest sympathy. Joe will be missed a great deal. I will never forget all his help he gave me. Rest in Peace Mr. O. Sincerly Karen Jones(Nunes)

Larry Machado

June 27, 2008

I would like to send my deepest sympathy to family, friends, and colleagues of a unique individual who had dedicated his life not only to the education of students, but also to the education of a community. God bless Joe Oliver.

Mike & Pat Taylor

June 27, 2008

It is really great to see people here remembering Joe for the man he was.
With Joe it was always "about the kids" and he helped so many. He was a caring person, a true professional as a colleague, and a loyal friend. Truly, he was a "Good Guy." We have such fond memories of him.

Bob and Jan Armstrong

June 27, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to Mrs. Oliver and family.

Robert Dumas

June 27, 2008

I'm so sorry for your tremendous loss.Joe was a great person in every way.My prayers are with you and may God give you the strength you need right now. Sincerely, Bob Dumas

steve costa

June 27, 2008

I wanted to send my condolences to all of Joe's family and friends. Joe touched the lives of many including my own. He was not only a great boss and mentor but also a great friend. Joe will surely be missed but never forgotten.
RIP Joe

Jill Marie Ussach

June 27, 2008

To Mrs. Oliver & Family

My deepest sympathy to you and your family at the loss of your son, Joe.

Harvey and I were sadened to learn that such a youthful man with so much more to offer was taken from us so suddenly.

Both the city and our school system has lost one of their greatest champions.

Sincerely, Jill Marie

Steve Russell

June 27, 2008

Joe Oliver was a fine Educator and a good guy. He will be missed.

Shelby Rogers

June 27, 2008

My condolences go out to Mr. Oliver's family.

Mr. Oliver was at Normandin and continued onto NBHS while I was at both schools. He was such a great influence on the community. His impact was so great that when I saw him last week in Dartmouth I instantly recognized him even after 12 years from the last time I saw him.

He will be sorely missed!

Sandy Bramwell

June 27, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the family of Mr. Oliver. He will be greatly missed by the New Bedford School Department.

Carla Mourao (NBHS Secretary)

June 27, 2008

Words cannot express how much you meant to me...how much I admired you; your wisdom; your wit; your contagious laughter and smile. But most importantly, your love for and dedication to this District. I already miss you Mr. O. My deepest sympathy to the family. May the wonderful memories of our beloved Joe warm our hearts and soothe our souls.

Cindy Trinidad

June 27, 2008

Joe you were a true mentor to me and someone I looked up to for advice. I will truly miss you. You were a class act. Rest in peace dear man and save a desk for me.

pete freitas

June 27, 2008

What a good man. Clever and compassionate. He will be missed.

Maureen Vieira

June 27, 2008

My sincere sympathy to Dot, Steve, Alfie and the rest of the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Joe was a kind and compassionate man and a wonderful educator.
He will be missed.

John Robinson MBHS RET.

June 27, 2008

He was a dedicated educator. He will be sorely missed by the entire community.

M. Gomes

June 27, 2008

You were always such a kind and compassionate man and educator. We will miss you. Mr.& Mrs. M. Gomes

Bob Perry

June 27, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

AL SILVIA

June 27, 2008

Mr O most certainly made in inpact on my (and many other's) life. A super human being. Will most certainly be missed. My deepest sympathy's to his family.

Karen Treadup

June 27, 2008

I am shocked and saddened by the news of Mr. Oliver's passing. Joe was a great leader and mentor. He was passionate about his belief that all children can learn and strived to pass that philosophy on to others. His sense of humor and stories about his days at the high school made Saturday NISL sessions more enjoyable. He will be missed. My deepest sympathies to the Oliver family and to his NBPS family.

Cathy Martin (Hammond)

June 27, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the Oliver family... I remember Mr. Oliver when I went to Normandin and then he was my teacher at New Bedford High. He was such a caring man and made our classes fun and understandable! I'm happy that my nieces got to meet this great man when they graduated NBHS last year. I'm sure he'll be the spirit that guides the children through NBHS, as his legacy will live on. I will cherish my memories of Mr. Oliver. He will be sadly missed, but not forgotten.

Andrew O'Leary

June 27, 2008

Mr. Oliver, you were a man easily respected and admired, but not so easily emulated. It will not be the same without you. May the Lord look over you and your family.

Eric Plant

June 27, 2008

Jah Bless, Mr. Oliver. I'm proud to say that I was a part of your first graduating class at NBHS. You were just a flat out good guy, and nobody can say otherwise. I'm sure your works will continue as you look down on the schools from up high.

MARIA R

June 27, 2008

I WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE OLIVER FAMILY. I WORK IN THE BUILDING AND SOMETIMES STEP OUTSIDE, HE WOULD ALWAYS SAY HELLO WITH A SMILE. GOD BLESS

Lynne Monaghan

June 27, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jamie Casey

June 27, 2008

Mr. Oliver was one of the greats. He made an impact on many students through the years. I was definitely one of them. A teacher and mentor in every sense of the word, he was an asset to the New Bedford Public School System and the community it serves. He will be missed greatly. This is a sad day for our area. My sincere condolences go out to his close friends and family.

Sandra Rivera

June 27, 2008

My prayers and deepest condolences to Mr. Oliver’s family. During my journey teaching here in New Bedford, Mr. Oliver always caught my attention his professionalism during my interview and as a headmaster, his smile every time I will see him, especially at Stop and Shop and then getting to know his passion during the mentoring process this year. Joe I will never forget your words and advice “Sandy, this takes time, we all have to work together.” I will miss you Mr Oliver.

Sharen Branco

June 27, 2008

Joe was the assistant principal at Normandin Junior High School when I attended there. He was a great guy, and my condolences go out to the family.

Jeanne Bonneau

June 27, 2008

Joe ,you have been a friend and colleague for more years than I can remember. Yes, I was at the high school when you began your career in education. It was obvious to all that teaching and children were your passions. You did so much because you cared so much; I shall miss you dearly. I will continue to walk by your house every morning about five to be sure all is ok. God Bless you and your beautiful mother -- I recall your visiting her every day after her surgery, there was no finer son -- I know others will take care of her now. Rest in Peace.

paul poirier

June 27, 2008

To my old friend Joe,
you were my math teacher in 1975 at nbhs, then headmaster when I worked as a custodian, I,ll never forget the day I threw the pen on the desk in your office and it hit your white shirt and made a line on it, all you did was laugh and said paul you have to relax ... that,s a memory i,ll never forget, such a great loss ,you will be missed, your,e friend paul poirier

June former student

June 26, 2008

WOW, I cannot believe Mr.Oliver is gone.I first met him when he was a sub for my teachers at Ford Middle School. He was a great person. Then of course he followed so many of us to N>B>H>S>..We were always put first, he will be remembered. May God grant your family the strength in the days ahead.

Lucille kolbeck

June 26, 2008

These words of deepest sympathy are sent with the hope that, as time goes by, cherished memories will help bring you inner peace and make your loved one seem still very close to you. Sincerely, Lucille Kolbeck

Amanda Rodrigues

June 26, 2008

Mr Oliver was the house master when I was at NBHS. He was an awesome person and always had a smile on his face. Distance is of no consequence; the impact he made on my life will always stay with me.

Nancy, Meghan and Erin Feeney

June 26, 2008

It was with shock and deep loss that my children and I learned of Joe's passing this afternoon. The NBPS family is missing one of our leaders today. Our prayers are with the Oliver family during this difficult time.

Connie Sylvia

June 26, 2008

I attended Normandin Jr High for my 7th and 8th grade and Mr.Oliver was vice principle . I had a very troubled up bringing and this man made sure I got the education I needed He put me in project rise a work program for potential dropouts and I always loved this man He was kind generious and was a huge inspiration in my life . I am so sad to hear he has passed . I will forever be greatful and will alway keep you in my heart Mr. Oliver thank you I feel truely blessed to have known you!

Tara Kohler

June 26, 2008

I am truly in shock. Joe was truly a mentor in every sense of the word. He would see things in us that we didn't even see in ourselves and encourage us to do our very best. I can't believe he is gone~ My thoughts and prayers go out to his entire family, both actual family and school family. This is a true loss to the students of New Bedford- deep down it truly was all about the kids. Oh Joe, you will be missed by so many!

Erin T

June 26, 2008

Mr. Oliver was at Normandin Jr. High as the asst principal while I was in 7th and 8th grade and when I graduated and when to NBHS he followed us. Guess he liked our class!! =) He may be gone, but he definitely not be forgotten!! God rest his soul.

Liz Mitchell

June 26, 2008

To the family of Joseph Oliver, he was an wonderful man, and I will miss him. He always had a smile. He worked very hard for the students of New Bedford.
I will always remember our meetings, as a parent on the school council. He spent many hours on school planning and did it all for the students. The New Bedford school system will miss him. I still can not believe that he is gone.
My condolences to his family.

Dan Weaver

June 26, 2008

I am still absorbing the shock of this terrible news. Joe was an active teacher in my life. He helped guide me during the high school years, found me a job during the college years and sent me back to school. I'm not sure he even knew that my life turned many times and I found success in a completely different field. His affect on my life is not measurable. My heart goes out to his family and my thanks. He will be missed.

June 26, 2008

Ti Dot, Stevie and Alfie and kids--your all in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. May god bless and hold you all close to his heart in your time of sorrow. Joe has helped me many a times when I have called him in regards to my son Ryan. God bless you all.

Love,
(cousin) Tammy

Peter Davies

June 26, 2008

Gentle, genial Joe - this has come as a terrible shock. You were so much alive and now gone. I shall miss your measured professional judgement, your tolerance and good humour. I wish there had been time to know you better.

Larry Oliveira

June 26, 2008

I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the Oliver family. I have known Joe as a teacher, administrator and coworker. He truly cared about the New Bedford Public schools and their students. His passing is truly a loss for all of us. I will miss the debates over Yankee/Red Sox and his humor even over the NISL lunches. I will truly miss you my friend and colleague.

Anne Oliveira

June 26, 2008

My deepest condolences to the Oliver family. Joe was not only a great boss and mentor but a truly nice man. I'll never forget him making fun of those NISL lunches and making me laugh at many a party. Boss, you'll always have a spot in my heart!

City Councilor Steven Martins

June 26, 2008

It’s been many years that Joe has been my headmaster at the high school, mentor, and a good friend. Joe, you will be sadly missed, but his gestures of caring for his students, and kindness will be of your spirit now as you go forward in your life. We are going to miss Joe terribly, and so will many others who had the good fortune of knowing him. My heart is with Joe’s family during this difficult time.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Cindi Tougas

June 26, 2008

I wish to express my sympathy to the entire Oliver family. I will always remember Joe as a private person, who often stated to those he worked with that one of his limitations was that he was not much of a “people person,” but to those of us who knew him well, knew that he was very much a warm and caring individual. He cared for his family, friends, and the children of New Bedford Public Schools. In fact, he was always there to remind us, “It’s about the kids!” I owe so much to him and will greatly miss his sense of humor, guidance, friendship, his freezing cold office, and ribbing him about the Yankees.

From summers spent at TCI to the NISL Saturdays, it was a heck of a ride! Thank you and say hello to Roger and Jay…a cold blueberry toast to you all!

Peter Smith

June 26, 2008

Joe was a fantastic human being who was willing to do anything to help a student succeed. he was always there for me and words cannot express how much he will be missed.

Kathy Castro

June 26, 2008

We will all miss that warm, welcoming smile. Thanks, Joe, for all your hard work.

Jason Besse

June 26, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kevin Trahan

June 26, 2008

Joe was a great friend of mine. when i got in trouble in 7th grade at normandin, it was Joe who got me on the right track. He has remained a positive influence in my life ever since, and he will never be forgotten. There was no place Joe could go in this city without someone coming over to shake his hand, or offer thanks. He was a genuine great man. I will miss kicking his but in fantasy football.

S. A.

June 26, 2008

You have always been kind hearted and good spirited, you will surely be missed. My condolences to his friends and family may he rest in peace.

John Sykes

June 26, 2008

There are givers and takers in this life, Joe. You were a giver. Thank you.

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