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Helen McCaffrey
June 20, 2023
I met Robert when he married my cousin Anne. He was funny and warm and generous. He will not be forgotten.
dawn sparks
February 15, 2014
I'M so sorry for your loss. I new you're brother from Bloomington. He was like my brother. I had to move to San Antonio and lost touch . He was a Goodfellow. I think of him often.I hate the thought that he had to pass. He had a peaceful soul that I knew..GodBless
dawn sparks
February 15, 2014
I'm sorry to hear about your dad. Thinking of you often .Love your Bloomington buddy.
Joe Martin
August 20, 2013
I bought a unit twice from Robert on the 12th and black property
Robert and his family lived next door
I became friends with Robert
I have a wonderful photo of Robert at our ranch
In the picture are Roy p Disney
Kenneth sims
Nick rossi and me
We were enjoying a guys say
Robert talked about Austin
His kids and growing up in Mexico
Robert was a goodman
Lots of fun
And a wonderful father and husband
Robert Anderson
October 17, 2011
I have lived away from Austin for a dozen years now, and just Googled Robert's name. How sad to learn of his passing this way. There is a quote from Robert during his days in the Austin City Council that I repeat on a regular basis, because of its humor and insight. As I recall the ACC was discussing budget items and one of the other council members was talking about how low a local tax rate was.
Robert was rather frustrated and spoke in a large (for him) voice, "ANY number times a large number is a VERY LARGE number!"
Perhaps this quote does not seem so humorous, but it certainly seemed so at the time, and (more to the point) it's a quote that I regularly use in meetings.
I always fondly attribute it to Robert.
Catherine Araiza (McKay)
June 30, 2008
Anne, Gabriella, Anatole, and Mateo - My heart is aching for you at this moment. I just learned of Robert's passing, and I've had you in my thoughts non-stop. Anne and Robert were sort of my surrogate parents for many years as Gabriella and I grew up together. Robert left an indelible stamp on my memory, from driving fast on road trips to Houston, to helping Gabriella and me pack for our drive to San Francisco. The home he created with his family was one of the most memorable places of my childhood. I love you all and wish you peace and grace. The Araiza's send our love, as ever.
Cindy & David Bragg
June 27, 2008
What an honor and joy to have known Robert, who was the best thing that ever happened to the Austin City Council. Our hearts go out to Anne and the family at this deeply sad time.
Robert was a force of nature, and such a wonderfully talented individual. Wherever he went, he filled up the room with his personality.
And whenever we would see him at Kyoto restaurant, he would always give us the best "tip" on which sushi to order!
Rest in peace, dear Robert.
Bill Bunch
June 27, 2008
Robert's love for Austin, important contributions, and irrepressible spirit will not be forgotten. He was a developer and he taught those of us who were fighting Hill Country sprawl development what we needed to know. He should have been mayor and almost was. Austin would be a different and far better place if he had won.
At the now famous all night hearing on the Barton Creek PUD, Robert sided with the citizens and refused to fall for any of the dozens of developer tricks that were rolled out in its favor. At five in the morning, when Jim Bob's lobbyists were hiding, playing dead, Barnstone exposed their final, brilliantly concealed gambit for a "no/yes" vote and shot it down. His leadership that morning changed Austin, and will continue to do so for years to come.
As much as he inspired us to fight the devil to save Barton Springs, he also feared the worst. I had never heard of Ibsen's play "Enemy of the People." Robert told me to read it. I'd love to see an Austin production in Robert's honor.
Thank you Barnstorm.
Joe Takano
June 27, 2008
Jessica and I were saddened to hear of Robert's passing. I had the pleasure of talking with him only on a small number of occasions over the years, when visiting Anatole in Austin, but those occasions were always memorable, because of his unique energy and enthusiasm. He had a way of doing or saying something remarkable. Our thoughts and sympathy go out to the Barnstone family.
PATRICIA RICKS
June 26, 2008
We were so sorry to hear about Robert. My family was very close to his brother Howard and they shared so many incredible qualities and talents. Robert was much too young for this to happen. It's a great loss for Austin. Our condolences to his family.
Daryl Slusher
June 26, 2008
Robert Barnstone was a friend and ally and I regret that we didn’t see each other more in recent years. I want to speak to his political legacy. It was mentioned in the Statesman article that Robert played a small part in the Barton Creek PUD issue and all night public hearing on June 7-8 1990. For newcomers and out-of-towners the PUD was a massive development proposal on environmentally fragile Barton Creek.
Although I thought the Statesman article was pretty good, I have to say that I was there in 1990 covering the PUD hearing (for the weekly paper) and I can vouch that Robert had a very big role. In fact the PUD might have been approved if not for Robert. After a historic outpouring from the Austin citizenry resulting in a 13-hour public hearing, another Council Member, who I won’t name here, moved to deny the proposal, but approve the variances. Since that Council Member was traditionally aligned with the environmentalists many cheered when she made the motion. Robert, however, immediately caught the part about the variances and made a motion to deny the PUD, period. After intense discussion Robert’s motion passed unanimously and the PUD was rejected. He was then a Council leader in developing a new water quality ordinance.
Another huge part of Robert’s legacy was his opposition to the Manor Airport. He fought that move, on the Council opposing the land deal for the airport land. As that battle raged on, Bergstrom Air Force Base went on the closure list and Austin was able to reap a peace dividend (remember those) and become Austin’s airport. A lot of people were involved in that issue, but without Robert’s work on the Council Austin would likely have missed the opportunity to convert an air base into our airport.
I also remember the campaign that got him on the Council, a brilliantly executed surprise move that left opponents in the dust.
And, I remember the first line of his concession speech when he narrowly lost the mayor’s race in 1991: “I would like to congratulate my opponent, the Austin American-Statesman.”
Rest in peace Robert and I wish strength to Anne and the family in this difficult time.
Anne and Robert Indiana University 1967
June 26, 2008
Evonne Atlas
June 26, 2008
We are on our way to Vancouver when we heard about Robert. We are shocked and saddened that we will not see him again. He was one of those people who truly loved Austin .......... had a vision and went for it. We will miss him and all of his energy. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Evonne Atlas
Abe Zimmerman
MH Loomis
June 26, 2008
Condolences to all of the family, and I pray that it is possible to not let his memory and understandings of human history, local solutions, networking of conscience, and goals be lost with him. May his private life remain with those close, but what if it were possible for all here to write in full the essence of his dreams and goals, had he won the election, and what Austin would be like now. How we would share in his dreams for a better world if we were his constituents, as a local cultural keepsake to build upon during the coming years.
Susan Garry
June 25, 2008
Our family will always remember and appreciate Robert’s work to achieve the best new airport for Austin. His vision for a close-in airport resulted in two good outcomes. Our area, the farmland and rural communities north of Manor was saved from being paved over by the Manor airport, and Austin was able to take advantage of the Bergstrom site with its great cost savings for Austin and its accessible location. I will never forget Robert’s kindness in visiting with us about the airport issue. My daughter and I had a wonderful time volunteering in his mayoral campaign. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Christie Barrera Storer
June 25, 2008
My condolences to the Barnstone and Suneson families. I remember happier times growing up in Laredo with Bobby. It is wonderful to know that he grew to have such a full and love filled life with the respect of his entire community. I remember his smile, even after all these years. My sincerest sympathy--
Sharon Peters
June 25, 2008
I remember well Robert's first meeting as a City Council member ... he launched right into it, speaking on an issue and announcing to the assembled that he was "going to be a real horse's patoot" by speaking his mind on that particular agenda item. That was a powerful insight into the man: so very, vitally bright and engaged, with an informed point of view on the matter, prepared, passionate. He relished the public debate of ideas - and was willing to put a point forward, not because it called attention to him, but because he felt the issue deeply and wanted to put it forward. He was one of the few ..
This is a grave and sorrowful loss of a dynamic force of nature, a loss to his family, and a terrible loss for Austin. We needed him, and people like him, so much ... may his example of public service be taken to heart as a guide for all of us.
Bob Seawell
June 25, 2008
Bobby and I were friends growing up in Laredo. He always had a smile on his face. His enthusiasm made life at an all boys Catholic school bearable. He was a loyal friend with a passion for life. It breaks my heart that we lost touch over the years. My sincere condolences to his family and friends. He will be missed.
RAUL MARTINEZ
June 25, 2008
I remember my mother, Margarita, always talking about and admiring Bobby. She worked at Marti’s in Nuevo Laredo from 1960-1999. There is an old photo of my brother and I at a birthday party for one of Bobby’s kids at Señora Marti’s home in Nuevo Laredo in the ‘70's; what a beautiful piñata party that was! Back then all I knew was that Bobby was Jack’s brother and one of Señora Marti’s sons.
When I was accepted into the University of Texas, the first thing my mother did was reacquaint me with Bobby and Anne and Anatole, Mateo and Gabriella. To her, they would be my family away from home. I cherish in my heart the times spent with them during the times of home sickness that first semester at UT. It took me a couple of minutes of conversation with Bobby to realize why my mother had admired him for so long. He was a wise and visionary man.
Several weeks ago, my wife, my mother and I saw Bobby and Anatole at a Bar Mitzvah celebration in Laredo. My mother was delighted to see Bobby, the friend she admired so much. She asked for Anne and told Bobby that my father had died in December. My mother is out of town and has not received the sad news yet. But I know that she will always continue to admire the wisdom and vision that were Bobby’s trademark.
Anne, I’m devastated by the news of Robert’s passing. Descanse en Paz!!
Anatole, Mateo, and Gabriella, I share in your grief and sorrow. Dios los Bendiga!!
Patricia (Chalkley) Olguin
June 25, 2008
When I learned about Robert's passing late last night, it brought a flood of great memories rushing back to me, recalling the exciting, intense and fulfilling days I spent working closely with Robert as his aide during the years he served on the city council. The positive and indelible influence of his energy, passion and intellect has never left me. He served as a caring mentor and friend to me as I'm sure he did to many others. He will be missed.
Mark Peasley
June 25, 2008
Robert, your invaluable contributions to Austin will be remembered for a long, long time. You always had Austin's best interests at heart, and you accomplished a lot. I feel fortunate to have done a bit of business with you over the years.
Anne and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you all.
David Roland Rodriguez
June 25, 2008
As a youth, I sat several times in the Rothko Chapel but never dreamed that almost twenty years later I would become acquainted with the brother of the man who built it.
Robert Barnstone had a remarkable vision. He asked me to perform at the opening of his project Posada del Rey in 1980. The guest of honor, besides the mayor, was an elderly Mexican named Don Crispín. This is because the centerpiece of the courtyard of Posada de Rey is an extraordinary set of antique, colonial stone arches transplanted from a Mexican village.
When Robert stumbled on the arches they were just a pile of rubble in that remote setting. Those stones peaked his curiousity so, that he had to ask around. The villagers were only too happy to tell him that Don Crispín the village stone mason, was the only person who knew how to put it back to together.
Next thing you know Robert's arranged a truck to bring Don Crispín and the rubble to Austin where the old master reassembled them in short order. Not a single drop of mortar sits between those stones. That's the nature of their craftsmanship.
The mayor presented Don Crispín the Key to the City and he accepted it with tears in his eyes and with a simple statement which he made in his native Indian-Mexican dialect. "Thank you, with the money I've earned I'm going to build my wife an indoor bathroom."
With those words there came tears to my eyes as well and that's how I remember Robert Barnstone, a man who could see the immeasureable beauty in a pile of rubble.
David Roland Rodriguez
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Diana Castaneda
June 25, 2008
Dear Ann and Children... and Extended Family, I am so saddened about Robert's passing. I have notified all my kids, across the state and each are heart broken. After all they all worked on his 1988 campaign after I endorsed him, and he won! My son Jimmy was hit pretty hard because he knew Gaby. He sends his condolenses. We will never forget his spunk and drive. We all remember all the wonderful picnics at Deep Eddys, and Patricia and her family, and the wonderful Turkey Mole her husband made and Pat's Dill Potato salad. Robert, was kind and Conducted himself "with the HIGHEST Decorum" as he said to me when he was seeking my endorsement (after the first election going into the RUN-OFF. ) I learned a lot from him, and his service to us all. Know that his suffering is over and the next life is his highest level of being. Our love and respect to you, you family and family of friends. Diana & Jimmy Castaneda,and family... Que Dios los Bendigan...
Alice Hicks Roach
June 25, 2008
I just wanted to express my sympathies to the Barnstone, Bauer and Bauer-Slate families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Anna Drayer
June 25, 2008
Anne,
I am so sorry about Robert's death.
Pat Crowe
June 25, 2008
Dear Ann and family - Robert was one of a handful of people that I will never forget. Since I first met him in 1980, I have encountered few people with his intelligence, creativity, and passion. I am grateful to have known him.
Jackie Goodman
June 25, 2008
Dear Anne, it's difficult to think Robert's not here, with all his enthusiasm & life force. Wishing you strength & comfort from all the thoughts sent your way now, & hoping it helps in some small way ~ Jackie
Mary Ann Justman
June 24, 2008
Anne, I am so sorry for your loss. As a fellow west Austin resident I have watched yours and Roberts' projects evolve and also consulted Robert on projects. He was such a great influence on me and I am saddened that he is gone.He was such a enthusiastic player in Austin's inner city. My deepest condolence.
Dave Oliphant
June 24, 2008
Anne, we are thinking of you and the children. We will miss Robert with his wonderful wit and his great energy dedicated to the good of Austin. Dave & Maria Oliphant
Lynda Lieberman Baker
June 24, 2008
Dear Anne-
My sincere heartfelt sympathies to you and your family.
Marc Marcelino Rodriguez
June 24, 2008
Robert & I were schoolmates in Laredo in the late 1950s & early 1960s. I knew him as "Bobby Suneson." We attended St. Joseph's Academy together, a Catholic all-boys school, where he had the proud distinction of being the only Jewish student. For some reason, that made him cool (and brave,) in my eyes. We were each mavericks in our own way and became good buddies, especially in the 3rd & 4th grades. Although Bobby and I had lost touch for several decades, a memory of those childhood days recently surfaced in my mind. It was a Sunday in February of 1956 or 1957. He arrived at my house early for my birthday party later that day. The two of us had fun hanging out, eagerly awaiting the festivities. As a birthday gift, he gave me a pair of silver & onyx cufflinks from Marti's, his family's store in Nuevo Laredo---I still have those cufflinks, along with memories of him being an independent and creative spirit, even then. That's how I will always remember him. To his family and friends, I extend my sincere condolences.
Brett Phillips
June 24, 2008
Anne,
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I learned a great deal and had a wonderful time getting to know Robert on the Nokonah. What a visionary and complement to Austin's fabric.
Martha Hartzog
June 24, 2008
Working for Robert and Anne when he was a council member was one of the most stimulating and rewarding times of my life. The community has lost yet another visionary leader and Austin (and I) have lost a friend.
Hazel Gully
June 24, 2008
Few are given vision; and even fewer the ability to turn vision into reality. Austin has always been wonderful, but Robert's reality made it better. He will be missed.
Lawrence Wells
June 24, 2008
I only met Robert several times through his brother Ron. But I do know that Robert was extremely talented and decent person who was a real asset to Austin. It was a pleasure to share the planet with him.
Catherine Vasquez-Revilla
June 24, 2008
I came to appreciate, respect and admire Robert because of his contributions to the development of downtown Austin. My sincere condolences to his many friends and family.
Adios
Cathy Vasquez
Frank Yi
June 24, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Ann, Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time. I know Robert since 1973, he is a good and loyal friend.
Dee and Robert Jackson
June 24, 2008
dear Anne, We can scarcely take in this news that Robert's died. All we know to do right now is let you know how much you are all loved. We share your tremendous grief, sorrow and sadness, and pray for grace and peace for all of us touched by the Barnstone family.
Always, Dee and Robert
Carolyn Mezger
June 24, 2008
I am saddened to hear about the passing of Robert Barnstone. Planning to be neighbors at Spring Condominiums, I was so looking forward to getting to know him and his family. He shared his vision of Austin's future enthusiastically and seemed to sparkle whenever he spoke of new beginnings. My sincere condolensces to his family.
Robin McCall
June 24, 2008
Robert and his incredible passion, vision and humor will be greatly missed by those who were fortunate to have known him. He leaves behind a beautiful legacy in word and deed for all of Austin. My deepest and heartfelt sympathies to Anne and his beloved family.
Greg Easley
June 24, 2008
Robert was a wonderful man with an exceptional family. My deepest sympathies are with the entire family.
Bill Wendlandt
June 24, 2008
Robert was an amazing and inspiring man whose legacy will live on! Inspiring, enthusiastic, and a visionary are a few of the many positive attributes of Robert. Prayers and thoughts to the family and thanks for sharing him with us!
June 24, 2008
anne....
amon & i reach our hearts out to yours. you have our deepest sympathy & empathy. we wish you strength & healing. we are with you in spirit in this time of feeling helpless to do anything that can actually help.
carol & amon burton
Allen Kaplan
June 24, 2008
I was Robert's Strategist and Campaign Consultant for both his 1988 Council Campaign and 1991 Mayoral Campaign. Robert was incredibly intelligent and always questioned every strategy and tactic. He never failed to want to do more than could possibly be accomplished; fortunately Anne was usually there to keep him grounded. My favorite moments with Robert were when we were dog tired coming from some campaign forum or appearance and he would challenge me on my knowledge of Broadway musicals and songs. He helped point the City in a new vibrant direction and for that he should be honored. Ya Basta!
Linda Murphy
June 23, 2008
Though we did not know Robert directly we did know him through his brother Ron who loved him very much, who shared great stories about Robert's days in Austin politics. We send our love and peace to Robert and his family. Chris Greagor and Linda Murphy
Nicki Tyler
June 23, 2008
Robert was truly unique and will not soon be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family in this time of grief. He is now with our Father and out of any pain. God Bless.
Heidi Schoonover
June 23, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Christine Martin
June 23, 2008
I have 4 brothers and Robert was my "5th." He was so good to me and to my family. He taught me about loyalty, beauty and about loving this city. Thank you, Robert, for all you have done for Austin and for me. Love always,
Chris
Hugh Randolph
June 23, 2008
I never knew him, but he leaves a great legacy for helping make Austin a more livable city. Many Thanks!
James Cooley
June 23, 2008
I worked at City Hall for another council member while Robert was there. He was a great guy who truly loved this town and helped move it forward. He was also one of the funniest people I have ever known in politics. I wish his family the best.
Eduardo Longoria
June 23, 2008
Robert, my life long friend, was a visionary genius and a great asset in my life and also to Austin. He was ahead of the time and I hope that he will be recognized fully for his contributions. I am deeply saddened that he left us so early in his life.
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