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Harold BROCKUS Obituary

BROCKUS, Rev. Dr. Harold M. 83, passed away with peace in his heart on Wednesday, November 18, 2020 at St. Anthony's Hospital in St. Petersburg, FL. Harold was born on September 26, 1937 to Harold E. Brockus and Lillian Ray Brockus of Independence, MO. He was a graduate of Yale University, McCormick Seminary and San Francisco Theological Seminary associated with UC Berkeley where he received his doctorate. Rev. Brockus was the proud pastor of Good Samaritan Church, a Presbyterian and United Church of Christ union congregation, in Pinellas Park, FL for 33 years. Rev. Harold Brockus believed God's calling for him and those he inspired was through putting his faith into action bringing equal opportunities to all God's children and supporting "justice for all" as stated in our U.S. Constitution's Bill of Rights. After helping to recruit Martin Luther King Jr. as a speaker at Yale in the late 1950s and working with teen gangs in Kansas City, MO, he decided on the ministry. In his early career he organized inter-racial "swim-ins" in Chicago, and fought for better education, decent housing and job training for Mexican farm workers in Iowa. After arriving in Pinellas County in 1970 he quickly created an interracial youth group and adult peacekeepers to walk the halls when race riots occurred at Dixie Hollins High School after integrated busing. His Church, Good Samaritan was offered as an official "Safe Space" to activist groups throughout the 1970s and 1980s. In the 1980s, Rev. Brockus' focus turned to LGBTQ rights when he inspired his congregation to become the first "More Light" Presbyterian Church (USA) in the State of Florida which lost him practically half of his congregation at the time. His fierce fight with aligned groups in the national Presbyterian Church (USA) advocating for changes in policy for gay marriage and ordination finally found success in 2005. At home, he organized a support group and Good Samaritan offered a safe place for GLBTQ crisis hotlines. As Chair of the AIDS Coalition beginning in 1989 "the organizational experience of his life" began. He helped organize a PFLAG (Parents and Friends & Family of Lesbians and Gays) chapter in the 1990s that wanted the Pinellas County school board to add "sexual orientation" to the board's anti-harassment and discrimination policy. The night the policy was being considered, a "Gay basher" group from Tampa, brought in busloads of supporters. But Harold Brockus had already filled the room with PFLAG coalition supporters. It passed by one vote. Since his retirement in 2002 he served on the Board of Directors of Bethel Farm Workers, providing legal assistance, a Head Start program, housing and a literacy program. While serving as the President of the Pinellas Chapter of Americans United for the Separation of Church and State he joined in a lawsuit with multiple civil liberties groups, a Jewish Rabbi and a Baptist minister advocating against SB98, a bill allowing "prayer" in Florida school classrooms. In their direct letter to Governor Scott they wrote, "This bill is a solution in search of a problem,' "Forcing prayer upon public-school students not only violates the rights of those students, it also demeans the spiritual significance of religious belief.' In 2006, Rev. Brockus received the prestigious Gardner W. Beckett Jr., Civil Liberties Award, from the Pinellas ACLU Chapter recognizing extraordinary contributions to the advancement of civil liberties in Pinellas County. Alongside this work he taught at Eckerd College's Leadership Institute for over 26 years. As father, grandfather and friend, Harold greatly enjoyed his final years with his beloved Westminster Shores community. He also was lifted by the many stories and accomplishments of his children and grandchildren. Harold is survived by his sister, Sandra Danner; and brothers, Eugene and Donald Brockus; his children, Sarah Brockus, Paul Brockus, Adam Brockus and Maria Brockus-Watson and their spouses and friend, Nick, Jill, Leroy and Angie along with his beloved grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Due to COVID a Memorial Service will be held at a later date at Good Samaritan Church when all can gather together safely. Please send condolence cards to Paul Brockus at 928 E. Valencia, Lakeland, FL 33805. Please make any donations in his memory to: Good Samaritan Church, Attn: Rev. Jen Daysa, Good Samaritan Church, 6085 Park Boulevard, Pinellas Park, FL 33781 or The Virginia Baxter Scholarship Fund offering college scholarships to cafeteria workers. Make checks out to: Westminster Retirement Communities Foundation (WRCF) earmarked for Virginia Baxter Scholarship Fund, Attn: DeeLynn Rivinius, Westminster Shores, 125 56th Avenue South, St. Petersburg, FL 33705.

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Published by Tampa Bay Times from Dec. 13 to Dec. 14, 2020.

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Mary Ellen Rotolo

February 9, 2021

I am saddened to hear that Harold has passed; saddened for us but happy that he is now with the Lord and that we will see him again someday as our time comes. Harold was my Pastor and friend since I moved here from LINY December 1986 until life changes caused me to attend church closer to my home. He also officiated my father (Ferdinand "Fred" J. Rotolo) and step-mother's (Dolores C. O'Donnell Holland Ladd Rotolo) wedding bringing together two special people in my life. Later he officiated my sweet "mother's" funeral (thanks Harold). Harold also supported me through my college years, graduation and my career as a Physical Therapist Assistant along with long time friend Virginia Baxter and Good Samaritan Church (thanks again Harold). I learned much under his tutelage, was happy to see him about 6 or 7 years ago when I ran into him at a Christmas light viewing and have reconnected with his son Paul over the past 5 years in some ministry work. Rest in peace my friend. Lord be with the family in this time filling them with your amazing peace and comfort.

Amanda Brockus

January 28, 2021

Since Harold lived far away, I didn’t see him often, but he was always a calm and cheery voice at Thanksgiving dinners. I remember Harold as a generous man who often sent a box of citrus at holiday times and sometimes showed up at Thanksgiving with other gifts in advance of Christmas. I grew up hearing about Harold’s fast ball, which was apparently quite an impressive pitch that the neighborhood kids struggled to hit. I had a few opportunities to see Harold handle some moments where his views were opposed, and he always handled the situation with grace and clarity. The last time I was able to see him, a number of years ago, I even got into a small disagreement with him myself, and I remember him assuring me afterwards that there were no hard feelings and nothing had been taken overly seriously. I miss Harold myself, so I know that his children and grandchildren must miss him immensely.

Debbie Crisp

December 29, 2020

Harold was an amazing, wonderful person. He was a friend. I learned from him. The way he lived his life added goodness to this world.

Geanne Marks

December 22, 2020

I've known Harold since the 1970s when he became the pastor at the Presbyterian Church I attended. Those were turbulent times; Harold worked with the community to improve communication and for civil rights.
I am happy I reconnected with him last year. He worked tirelessly for the acceptance of all. I send my condolences to his family and loved ones.

Roy Marks

December 14, 2020

Great guy; knew him from the late seventies till his departure. Had lunch with him a year or so ago. He thought about people as the Lord would, outside the box, to be loved more than theology or church doctine. I'll see you in a few Harold.

JW/JKH

December 14, 2020

My deepest sympathy to the Brockus Family for the loss of your loved one, Harold, and pray God gives you comfort, peace and strength.

Jo-Anne & Amanda Byrd

December 13, 2020

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Simone Taylor

December 13, 2020

No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. However, take comfort in knowing God is with you and your family lean on him in your time of need. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.

Rev. Dee Graham

December 13, 2020

Rev. Harold Brockus was an irreplaceable clergy colleague in Pinellas from my return to Saint Petersburg in 1976. His leadership in our Inclusive Faith Communities coalition led to greater visibility for religious congregations who welcomed LBGTQ+ and all people. His love for all families showed in his personal support for my own family and children, from his outreach at Good Samaritan to his presence at Eckerd College. In recent years I appreciated sharing worship in the “pews” with him and just knowing this man with a big heart and a heartfelt devotion to his faith.
We will miss him here, but this love he shared with others will surely never die. Fare well, dear Rev. Harold. Thanks for a life well lived.

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