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Harold Lane Jr.

1938 - 2020

Harold Lane Jr. obituary, 1938-2020, Holden, MA

BORN

1938

DIED

2020

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Holden, Massachusetts

Harold Lane Obituary

Harold M. Lane, Jr., 81

HOLDEN - Harold "Hal" M. Lane, Jr., passed away peacefully at the Rose Monahan Hospice House in Worcester on August 22, 2020, just shy of his 82nd birthday. He was born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania on August 24, 1938, the eldest son of Harold M. and Marie L. (Lionett) Lane. He has called Holden his home from the time he was a teenager.

Hal graduated from the new Wachusett Regional High School (WRHS) in 1956 and went on to earn his bachelor's in history from UMass Amherst in 1960. Subsequently, he earned a master's degree in secondary education from Clark University in Worcester.

He started his long career in education as a history teacher at West Boylston Junior/Senior High School. At the urging of his mentor and lifelong friend, Frank Lepore, he later became a guidance counselor. This led to his landing the newly created director of secondary education position at Wachusett in 1970. He became assistant principal, and then led the school as principal for 20 years, retiring in 1993 – the year following the passing of his beloved wife.

Looking for another avenue in which to improve public education and serve the community, he became the state representative for the 1st Worcester District in a 1994 special election and held the seat for six years. At the time he left the State House, he was the Chairman of the Joint Committee on Education, Arts, and Humanities. He then served two years as the executive director of the non-profit Alliance for Education.

Hal reprised his role as interim WRHS principal for a year in 2006 during a major building renovation. In 2008, he was thrilled when "Hal Lane" field was named in his honor. He was profoundly proud of the teachers he worked with and every student who walked the halls of the school and thoroughly enjoyed each moment of his long tenure at Wachusett.

His public service also included several years as Holden town moderator and membership on the safety building committee. He was a proud UMass Amherst alum and it pleased him to serve the university as president of the UMass Alumni Association from 2004 – 2006.

Hal loved to read, and he looked forward to annual vacations in Wells, Maine. Another passion was baseball. He was a true Red Sox fan and thought Ted Williams was the greatest player. He managed to visit many of the major league ballparks during his retirement and often brought family members with him.

Hal was entranced with the magic of Disney, and for as long as he was able, he brought one or two grandchildren to Disney World each year to share in the wonder of the experience. He fulfilled a personal dream when he worked the Buzz Lightyear exhibit for several months in 2005.

Above all else, he felt his most significant and enduring life achievement is his family, which began in 1960 when he married his high school sweetheart and true love of his life, Dorothy "Dottie" E. Mayo, who predeceased him in 1992. Together they had eight children, who benefited from all the love, guidance, and support both had to offer. He is lovingly missed by his children and their spouses: Roy and Laurie Lane of Sterling; Catherine Nicastro of Ashburnham; Christine and Mark Adams of Rochester, NY; Gary and Theresa Lane of Orleans; James and Diane Lane of Paxton; Jeffrey and Sheila Lane of Shrewsbury; Cheryl and Kirk Preston of Rochester, NY; and Cynthia and Stephen Kitchen of Rehoboth. Each of his thirty-one grandchildren has cherished memories of "Papa", and he had the pleasure of being introduced to each of his ten great-grandchildren.

Hal leaves behind his two brothers and sister: William and Frances Lane of Cape Cod; Charles and Jean Lane of Gardner; and Ruth and Doug Briggs of Rutland. He will also be missed by Linda Lane, wife of his brother Robert of Medford, NJ, who predeceased him in 2004. Those who will remember their Uncle Hal at family gatherings include many nieces and nephews.

His faith was important to him since his youth when he attended church with his beloved grandfather, Harry J. Lionett. The First Congregational Church of Holden was Hal's spiritual home. He was married in the church, all his children were baptized there, and Dottie's life was celebrated there. He served the church in many ways, including as a deacon. For the past few years, he enjoyed attending church with his eldest son Roy in Sterling.

There is an opportunity for relatives and friends to honor Hal and visit with the family from 4:00-7:00 pm on Thursday, August 27th at Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main Street, Holden. Appropriate face coverings must be worn, and social distancing must be honored.

Due to the restrictions of COVID-19, a celebration of his life will be held privately on Friday, August 28th with the Reverend Robin Bartlett of the First Church in Sterling officiating. Burial will follow at a later date at Grove Cemetery in Holden.

Hal's family would love those of you who are unable to attend his service and want to celebrate his life to join in spirit by watching the live streaming of his Friday service in the comfort of your home. Please go to Miles Funeral Home's web site, click on Hal's obituary, and click on the appropriate link. The video will be available for viewing for 90 days following his service.

If you would like to honor Hal's life and legacy by sending a gift, instead of flowers, the family encourages you to donate to The Hal Lane, Jr. Scholarship Fund. Please make checks payable to WRSD and mail them to Wachusett Regional High School, 1401 Main Street, Holden, MA 01520.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Aug. 22 to Aug. 26, 2020.

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Jay Duke

September 24, 2020

Mr. Lane is a good man and special father to Jeff. An educator who touched thousands of students. The world is a better place for receiving his gifts.

"The deeds of the children are a testament to the upbringing they received from their parents."

And I know Jeff was a good friend and person so many moons ago.

Thoughts and prayers are with the family.

~Jay Duke
Jefferson Middle School bowling bud

August 29, 2020

To James and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Heather Martin Farrington

Christina Guertin

August 27, 2020

A great man who was kind and caring. Such an amazing Pricipal who made everyone feel important. Thoughts and prayers to his family. May you Rest In Peace.

Christina Guertin

August 27, 2020

A great man who was kind and caring. Such an amazing Pricipal who made everyone feel important. Thoughts and prayers to his family. May you Rest In Peace.

Christina Guertin

August 27, 2020

A great man who was kind and caring. Such an amazing Pricipal who made everyone feel important. Thoughts and prayers to his family. May you Rest In Peace.

James O'Donoghue

August 27, 2020

Words cannot possibly describe the “Goodness” of Hal Lane. We just have to look at his legacy in his wonderful family. God Bless.

Craig Winthrop Holt

August 27, 2020

My condolences to the Lane family. Mr. Lane was principal when I attended Wachusett in the mid-1970's. He was also a long-time friend of the Holt family. Mr. Lane was very supportive of my sports-writing career, something I'll always cherish. I know several members of the Lane family and have always been struck by the love and loyalty they have for one another. Rest in peace Mr. Lane, the best principal I ever had.

Nancy Cox

August 26, 2020

Our sincere condolences to the family of Hal Lane. My father was friends with Hal at Benchmark. My Dad Bob moved A little over a year ago. They sat together for all meals which I sometimes joined them and always had a good chats with your father. He was very kind and He was a great story teller. He always had a smile and a kind word. I know my Dad missed him when he moved to a different assisted living facility. He certainly left his mark in this world.

Nancy Cox

August 26, 2020

Our sincere condolences to the family of Hal Lane. My father was friends with Hal at Benchmark. My Dad Bob moved A little over a year ago. They sat together for all meals which I sometimes joined them and always had a good chats with your father. He was very kind and He was a great story teller. He always had a smile and a kind word. I know my Dad missed him when he moved to a different assisted living facility. He certainly left his mark in this world.

Beth Corcoran Hunt

August 26, 2020

Your dad was a great guy! ❤ So sorry for your loss. He was a great help to my mom and dad when my brother David died! Peace be with you all . Love Beth Hunt

Dick Gilmore

August 26, 2020

Well done, good and faithful servant. Hal always will be remembered for his dedication to education. Most of my educational career was spent working with Hal in the Wachusett Regional School District. We played tennis together and developed and worked on special education programs for the district together. Hal was always proud of his family and the larger school family he so well served. His family can be proud of his accomplishments. The Wachusett Regional School District over the years has benefitted from his outstanding leadership contribution.

Robert C. Ryan, Jr.

August 25, 2020

I remember Mr. Lane from when he taught at West Boylston Jr. Sr. High School. He. was freindly and easy to talk to. Time will ease the paint of his loss.
Robert Ryan Jr.
San Antonio, TX.
210-614-3053
[email protected]

Robert C. Ryan, Jr.

August 25, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Kate LaVigne

August 25, 2020

HAL!! I can't say enough about what a wonderful man he was. I'll always remember him for his warmth and friendly smile. He was at all of our field hockey games and more than his fair share of my tennis matches too! I have so many memories...driving down to field hockey camp, stopping at all of the Roy Rogers along the way may be my favorite! He will be so missed, but I hope you find some solace in knowing what an amazing impact he made in all of our lives. He was a good human, and the world is a little less with out him in it.

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Beth and Bryan Foster

August 25, 2020

There are so many good memories of Hal and Dottie and their very special family! They were great neighbors. Hal was an upbeat, moving forward, fun loving, but serious and dedicated father and man. He will be well remembered by many students, teachers and friends. Our Condolences to Hal’s wonderful family.
Bryan and Beth Foster formerly 22Walnut St., Holden, now Harpswell, ME

Louis Cornacchioli

August 25, 2020

He was Wachusett Regional !! It was always about the students and the staff, never him . He lived his Faith by the way he treated people. Mr. Lane was a good man !

Donna (Daigneau) Landry

August 25, 2020

My condolences to the family. Mr. Lane was the best principal I've ever had. He had a huge impact on my life and is part of the reason why I'm a successful person in this world. He had the biggest heart and was genuinely interested in how you were doing and more than willing to help and take the time with you. He will be missed. Thank you Mr. Lane for being a great person and mentor.

Bobbie Chase

August 25, 2020

He was a great principal and a caring person. My sympathy to his 8 kids.

Pam McGuirk

August 24, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Tom Noonan

August 24, 2020

Condolences on the loss of Hal. He was the ultimate educator helping students and teachers achieve their goals.
His impact was felt Locally and at the state level with his work on Educational Reform.
I enjoyed my time with Hal whether at professional meetings or sharing breakfast at the 122

Marcia Rojcewicz

August 24, 2020

To the family of Harold,
I'll always appreciate the lively conversation and kind humor that Hal brought to the Benchmark dining table with my brother Paul. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Michaela Miron Oberg

August 24, 2020

Mr Lane the best principle ever. Nicest human being. RIP. Class of 1980. My deepest sympathy to all his family and friends....❤

Amy E Campbell

August 24, 2020

Great principal and a terrific man. I'm sorry to hear of his passing.

Linley

August 24, 2020

Mr. Lane was a great principal and gave me a foundational experience at high school for a successful Ivy League education and success career and adult life. Thanks a lot. May his family find satisfaction in his positive impact on thousands of lives and comfort in your loss.

Patricia Lakso

August 24, 2020

When Hal hired me in 1974 as a teacher of English, I was elated. Students, faculty and staff members knew Hal had one goal in mind: to provide a safe learning environment in which everyone had the opportunity to succeed. It was a pleasure going to work every day knowing that Hal had our backs.
My condolences to the Lane family.
Patricia (Lussier) Lakso

Lisa (Annunziata) Burdick

August 24, 2020

Hi Jeff - Sorry for you loss. Your Dad never ceased to amaze me with his ability to remember his students names but theirs friends, siblings, parents. He truly believed every kid could be successful and managed the school as such. He was never too busy to stop and talk for a minute, catch up and find out what you were up to. I hope all the comments from all the folks whose lives he changed and made a difference to will bring you a bit of solace.

God bless and be well.

Mike Martin

August 23, 2020

To the Lane Family:

Every beautiful, kind, thoughtful and compassionate testimony you read about a statesman, gentleman and a man of humanity is your father; [Mr. Harold M. Lane, Jr.]
He's the person that could bring comfort, calmness and hope to any of life's journey, especially being an administrator of a huge regional school like the beloved Wachusett.
His temperament and disposition is a gift for all of us to contribute to mankind, a genuine 'Good man'.

Class Marshal of 88.

Rachel Dolan

August 23, 2020

He was a fair and decent man. If it were not for him I most likely would of quit High School and got my GED. That was not what I wanted to do all. Principal Lane helped me find another way by taking a College English Class @ night that counted as credit towards HS and College I was able to graduate in 3.5 years. It was my living situation that was the reason I was going to quit. I am very grateful he had the confidence in me as a good student and person to help me through a very difficult time in my life. I went on to have a successful life and I truly believe if he was not in my corner, my life would not of gone in a good direction. RIP Hal knowing you were a GOOD AND DECENT PERSON that helped many. My deepest condolences to his family.

Rachel Dolan

August 23, 2020

He was my Principal @ WRHS. He was a good and fair man and the reason I was able to graduate High School. I would of quit and just got my GED which I didn't want to do. I really wanted to finish High School and made sure I was able too. I graduated in 3.5 years instead of 4 thanks to his advice of taking a College English Course for credit for both HS and College. I had the grades, it was my living situation that put me in jeopardy from finishing HS. I will always be greatful to his kindness and understanding. Not really sure if my life would of turned out so well if he did not help me in a very hard time in my life. RIP Hal and my deepest sympathies to his family.

Lisa Fallavollita

August 23, 2020

Jeff and family. I am heartbroken for your loss. Your father was a very kind man. He embodied school community before it was the trend it is now. He was well ahead of his time.
I will miss my talks with him when I’d bump into him over the years.

Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Lisa Fallavollita

August 23, 2020

Jeff and family. I am heartbroken for your loss. Your father was a very kind man. I will miss my talks with him when I’d bump into him over the years. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Erica Chenausky

August 23, 2020

Cathy and Family -

I was so sorry to learn of your father's passing. He was well-respected by my entire family.

Carole

August 23, 2020

I was fortunate to know Mr. Lane as my children’s principal and as my employer; first at the Alliance for Education and then during his return to WRHS in 2006. As others have said he was a great man and I loved working for him. He spoke often and proudly of his family and all things Disney. He was truly one of a kind and will be missed. Thoughts and prayers to the entire Lane family.

Amy Hunter

August 23, 2020

Half Lane was an inspiration and mentor to every student who came through the door of WRHS. None of us ever forgot him. My deepest sympathies to all of his family. He will be greatly missed.

Christine (Quinn) Meyers

August 23, 2020

Mr. Lane always had a smile and would have the time to say hi to you. You will be missed. My thoughts and prayers to the entire Lane family.

Tom Pandiscio

August 23, 2020

Hal Lane was a great principal, mentor and friend. He established a strong community at Wachusett that he labeled the “Wachusett Family” and he treated students, faculty and staff like members of his very large extended family. He asked us all to bleed green with him in support of a school that meant the world to him and many of us happily followed. It was a privilege and a pleasure to work for him and to learn, from his example, what a caring school community should look like.

In closing, I want to extend my deepest condolences to the entire Lane family.

Becky Pomerleau

August 23, 2020

Heading into my 25th year of education, with 22 of those being a school administrator, I can say that Mr. Lane truly impacted who I became as a school leader. The way he interacted with us as teenagers, the way he showed us care instead of judgement, and the ways in which he loved Wachusett like we were all his family had an enormous influence on me. I will never forget senior skip day, all of us eating breakfast at Denny’s, so proud of ourselves, and seeing two busses pull into the parking lot, Mr. Lane casually stepping off, and corralling us back to school! Still makes me laugh. Thank you for always showing up events, your laugh throughout the halls, and for protecting us all the best you could in your time at Wachusett. Much Love to all.

Gordon Warren

August 23, 2020

To the Hal Lane Family,

My sincere heartfelt condolences to the Lane Family. Hal was Mr. Wachusett....green and white thru and thru. He was a true family man....both to his immediate family and the Wachusett family which extend over many years. He was an honest and fair man who treated people with respect and dignity. He was so good to my Dad. Thank you Hal Lane. Rest in Peace.

Sherry Day Thibeault

August 22, 2020

Always inspiring....he’s not heavy, he’s my brother

Lauren ( Marengo) Roy

August 22, 2020

Mr Lane was extremely patient and tolerant of my mischievous nature. Even then I appreciated his patience with me.

Joe Sanchez

August 22, 2020

Lane family sorry for your loss, He was a good man, his smile was always there except when it wasn’t!

Lisa Stone

August 22, 2020

So very sad to learn my high school principal passed away. Mr Harold Lane you will be missed. He always had time for a quick word, and was such a really nice man. He always listened, but was very honest with his answer. You always knew not to ask if you didn't want the truth! And he was one of the most supporting person you could ask for. He encouraged you to chase your dreams. What a privilege to have been a student under his supervision!
To his family, many condolences for your loss, he was truly a wonderful man!

Michael Chila

August 22, 2020

RIP, such a great man. This world will miss you, Sir

Richard

August 22, 2020

He was a great mentor to all at Wachusett, new the family well.

Becky Fay

August 22, 2020

So much love for the man. A real gem. ♥

Kristen Narva Halasz

August 22, 2020

My heart felt condolences to the entire family. Mr. Lane was truly one of the best and a class act. He made Wachusett a place you wanted to be back then. He will never be forgotten.

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