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Elizabeth Updegrave Obituary
She was predeceased in 2007, by her loving husband, Ronald J. Updegrave, whom she married May 13, 1950. They moved from Reading, Pa. to Waterford in 1956, and then to East Lyme in 1968. Betty enjoyed countless days by the swimming pool, watching all the grandkids play. We will forever remember her saying, "Keep the water in the pool!"
She will be sadly missed by her children: Stephanie Stevens and fiancé Glenn Harris, Lori Anderson and husband Wayne and Dennis Updegrave and wife Wendy; and grandchildren: Eric (Shanel), Bryan (Melissa), Cheyenne (Wilson), Denver, Katie (John), Benjamin (Yearling) and Christopher. She also leaves many nieces and nephews and great-grandchildren. Betty was predeceased by her brother Michael Nickliss; and sister Madeline Weidman, both of Pennsylvania.
Due to the current conditions, funeral services will be private. Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, Niantic is in charge of arrangements. Online condolences may be shared with Betty's family at www.neilanfuneralhome.com.
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Shawna Zito-Hannan
May 23, 2020
Stephanie, Glenn, Dennis and Wendy, So sorry to hear about the passing of your mom I wish you all comfort. I know it is hard because even the happy memories make us sad sometimes. My love and condolences to all of you, God Bless
Ed Fairbanks
May 21, 2020
Our sincere condolences to your family for the loss of your Mom. We always enjoyed our visits with her. She will be missed.
Ed, Sue and Amanda Fairbanks
Marlene Melesko
May 21, 2020
Dear Stephanie, Glenn & Dennis,
I was so sorry to hear that your Mom passed away. What a wonderful, long life she had surrounded by such a loving family. I hope you now find comfort in all the happy times you shared together. May she rest in peace!
Fondly,
Marlene
Caryl
May 21, 2020
My condolences for the loss of your mother. I took care of her at Bridebrook, she was a very sweet person who always made me smile.
Carol Canova
May 18, 2020
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. You are in my thoughts.
marie aguiar
May 17, 2020
Stephanie, Lori and Dennis, Just read of your Mom's passing. So sorry to hear this. Your mom and dad were such a loving couple that I truly admired. I'm sure your memories will help you all through the sadness. Love Marie Aguiar
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