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Livia Scalise Obituary

Scalise, Livia R. ALBANY Livia Scalise, age 61, of Albany, passed away on April 4, 2013 peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family. Born in Sorbo San Basile, Italy, Livia was daughter of the late Antonio and Maria Giglio. She is survived by her beloved husband of 42 years, Romualdo Scalise and her devoted children, Catherine Scalise, Dominick "Mimmo" Scalise, Anthony Scalise and his wife Kristy; adored grandchildren, Gabriella Scalise and Bianca Scalise; her brothers, James (Linda) Giglio of Voorheesville and Joseph (Isabella) Giglio of Guilderland. She is also survived by several cherished nieces and nephews, as well as many other loving relatives here and in Italy. Livia retired from Verizon in 2003 after 30 years of service. Livia's love for her family was the focus of her life and she will always be remembered for her kindness and generosity to family and friends. Livia was known for her parties and great food. She loved entertaining and bringing friends and family together. Relatives and friends are invited to call Monday, April 8 from 4-7 p.m. at the Dufresne & Cavanaugh Funeral Home, 149 Old Loudon Road, Latham. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday at St. Francis of Assisi, 391 Delaware Avenue, Albany at 10 am. Interment will be in St. Agnes Cemetery in Menands. The family would especially like to thank Dr. Bakst and the staff at the Albany Medical Center Renal Dept. 3C for their kindness and support shown to Livia and her family. For directions, information or to light a memory candle for the family please visit dufresneandcavanaugh.com

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Published by Albany Times Union from Apr. 6 to Apr. 7, 2013.

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Isadore burns

October 5, 2022

My condolences and sympathies to the scalise family on behalf of livia.Didnt know her personally but spoke with her on the phone.I worked with her youngest son anthony at apd for 10years. I booked her oldest son dominick in 2004. Spoke with her daughter kathy on the phone.may she continue to rip from Isadore burns jr albany ny

Caterina Cristiano Madia

March 31, 2019

This condolence are send to you from my mom Mrs Caterina Cristiano Madia, my mom and Livia parents were not only neighbors, but we were all from our hometown in Italy Sorbo San Basile provincia di Catanzaro Calabria

Rosa madia Rinaldi they were my paisano

March 31, 2019

I want to let you know, that the Livia I knew. She was a great friend and a friend sister to my aunt Carmela and because her parents and her husband Ronaldo Scalise they both came from my home town called Sorbo San Basile provincia of Catanzaro Calabria, we all were not only paisano but great friends I do remember their wedding of Livia and Romaldo, they were made for each, their love was so strong. I am so glad that I knew them both

April 29, 2013

Dear Jimmy , I am so sorry for your loss. Livia looks so much like your Mom .
I have such fond memories of you all.
Love, Kath Buenau ( Kate Albers)

Karen Marinelli - Gomez

April 18, 2013

Jessica and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my father 6 months ago and know how that loss feels. Family will keep you strong. God bless.

Dan Carpenter

April 12, 2013

Cathy and family

I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with LIvia at Verizon toward the end of her career and she had a wonderful smile
RIP
RIp

Christine Devine Teetsel

April 11, 2013

Cathy, Sorry for your loss.

Robert Burke

April 10, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Robert and Lori Burke.....

Jonnine Yarbrough & Marcus Cook

April 9, 2013

Ant (and family) ~
So sorry to hear of your loss. You are definitely in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything you need, please let us know.

Jonnine Yarbrough & Marcus Cook

April 9, 2013

Ant (and family)~
So sorry to hear of your loss. You are definitely in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, please let us know.

Stuart Kaufman

April 9, 2013

Mimmo

So sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers

Rafael Anderson

April 9, 2013

Anthony and family I am sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Mari-Jo, Robert and Gwenevere Gamache

April 9, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers <3

giacomo giglio

April 9, 2013

Appresala triste notizia e con dolore che mi stringo a voi in questo periodo cosi difficile
Le piu sentite condoglianze

Kathy Treffiletti

April 9, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Livia. I remember her warm smile and how much she was loved and adored by my parents Katie and John, Aunt TT, my cousins,aunts and uncles and all of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Love Kathy Treffiletti and family

Patti Buenau English

April 9, 2013

Our prayers are with all of your family. May God give you strength during this difficult time. Livia was truly a very giving loving woman.

Delia Notaro

April 9, 2013

Romualdo and family,
Sorry for your loss,
My heart is reaching out to you,
for what you are going through.
I am sorry i can not be there for you
but know you are all in my heart and in
my thoughts.
LIVIA was one of the most wonderful person, she was the true meaning of a cousin, mom, sister, friend, always there to help you no matter what.
She was a strong woman till the end,
I know we all going to miss her very much,
I want to thank her and God to give me the opportunity of knowing her and most of all be a part of our family, the best part of our family,
LIVIA i will always love you and you wiil always be in my heart,
R.I.P. LOVE DELIA

Joann Chandler

April 9, 2013

Romualdo & family I worked with Livia at Verizon. She was A great person, always smiling & friendly. My prayers are with you & your family.

Paula Tibbitts

April 8, 2013

Livia...How you would have loved tonight....people had to park blocks and blocks away....the flowers were beautiful and numerous....The line wrapped the room for the entire night...person after person there for you.... I say you would have been proud, but I know you could see it all...The line of police officers alone would have brought tears to your eyes....it was exactly as you would have wanted ....so honored to have been a part of it....

April 8, 2013

Romualdo and family, We were truly saddened to hear of Livia's passing. We both have such fond memories of our get togethers. A great friend, classmate and co-worker. May she rest in peace. Gary & Nancy Fox

Stephanie Ortega

April 8, 2013

She was a beautiful kind woman. I will cherish the time I spent with her forever...

Sandy Tricomi

April 8, 2013

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Mary Beth & Darryl Whited

April 8, 2013

Scalise family,

We were so saddened to hear of Liv's passing. I worked with Liv for years. Se was an amazing woman who loved her family and talked about them all the time. Liv made me and my family welcome in your home on more than one occasion and was always offering to help me whenever she could. She will be greatly missed by all that knew her. I will never forget Liv. You are all in our prayers.

Sue McCredie McNeill

April 8, 2013

James and Pino, My memories of Livia are of Grand Street and when we all attended St. Anthony's. My thoughts and prayers are with all of your families. R.I.P. Livia

Kristin

April 8, 2013

Mimmo and family, so sorry for the loss of your Mom. May she rest in peace.

Kelly DeGonza

April 8, 2013

The Scalise Family
Words can not express how sorry we are about the loss of your wife, mother, grandmother and friend. She was an amazing woman, kind and beautiful. One look at her family is all that is needed to see this. Our thoughs and prayers are with you all. God Bless

Tim & Marge Cavanaugh

April 8, 2013

To Each & Every member of the Scalise/Giglio Family,
when we lose someone we love, it seems that time stands still. What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget. God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be. So He put His arms around you and whispered "come to me." With tearful eyes we watched you, and saw you pass away. Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating. God broke our hearts to prove to us, he only takes the very best. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy on the passing of a wonderful Wife, Mother, Grandmother, Sister & Aunt rest in peace Dear Liv.

Gilda & Willie Hernandez

April 8, 2013

Aldo & family,

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. We are saddened by the news. You and Livia are dear friends of the family and her passing is a tremendous loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. and your family. May Livia rest in ever lasting peace.

Love,
Gilda and Willie Hernandez & Family

Sharon Slingerland

April 8, 2013

Anthony, Kristy and family, so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lois Coluccio

April 8, 2013

Aldo and family. We are so sorry to hear about Livia. Our prayers are with you and yours. Lois and Jim Coluccio and Jim Guerro

April 8, 2013

Mimmo & Family I am so sorry for your loss. Your Mom was so good to my sons. God Bless her. Donna Lofrumento

Pamela Anthony

April 8, 2013

Kristy and Anthony,I'm sorry to hear of the passing of your mother."Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted" Matt 5:4

Kelly (VanHattum) Parker

April 8, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I cant remember EVER seeing Livia without a warm and welcoming smile on her face, even the times I saw her during her illness. I have so many fond memories from the St. James Bazaar to family parties or just hanging out at the house. She had so much love in her heart and her presence will be missed tremendously. May you all find comfort in your memories and in knowing how much Liv was loved by anyone who came into contact with her!

Rest Peacefully sweet Livia, you are finally free from your long and courageous battle. You will NEVER be forgotten and I know that you will continue to take care of your family from the clouds above.

J. Romano

April 8, 2013

Dom, Very sorry to hear of your Moms passing.

annie pylypiec

April 8, 2013

Cathy and family, I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. May she rest in peace and my you find comfort through all the memories you made with her

Ellen Haggerty-Rogers

April 8, 2013

To the Scalise Family, I am so sorry to hear about Livia's passing. I first met Livia when I started working for NY Telephone many years ago. She was so kind, and her laughter always lifted the mood in the office. May she rest in peace, and may you cherish all the wonderful memories you have of her.

Linda Ryan Reynolds

April 7, 2013

To Scalise Family and Pino and Jimmy . It has been along time since I have seen any of you. 42 years ago I was in your wedding.What a large and beautiful wedding it was. I use to love going to livia 's family house to eat loved the food never went hungry that is for sure. Loved working with Livia to at verizon too. I was the Irish girl from troy that your family used to tease. They use to call me Leynda. My heart goes out to all of you. May God Bless you all.

April 7, 2013

Dear Aldo and Family, Livia was a remarkable, caring, wonderful individual who was loved by many. Her memories will always be in your hearts and no one can ever take that away. Love Joyce, Chris and family.

Ann McCullough-Heichel

April 7, 2013

Dom Cathy and family I remember your mom at everything we had at St.James especially in our classes Dom. Your mom will be missed. HUGS TO YOU DOM. KEEPING YOU IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS DURING THIS HARD TIME. RIP MRS.SCALISE

Jessica Loomis

April 7, 2013

Kristy/Anthony and the Entire Scalise family. We are so very sorry for your loss. Your family is amazing, you could feel the love in the house the moment you walked in. May you lean on each other through these tough times and know God has now granted you an Angel. May the memories make you smile.

Love
Shannon & Jessica Loomis

rosa (madia)rinaldi

April 7, 2013

rest in peace dear friend.now that your in the arms of our lord.and your parents.

Michael Sanzo

April 7, 2013

I will alway remember the wonderful memories we shared..family visits, weekend lunches, trips to Lake George and how you always made me feel like I had a home away from home. RIP Liv

rosa(madia) rinaldi

April 7, 2013

romaldo and family,iam so sorry for your loss.I know that she will be missed by every one that knew livia.i will always remember her by all the love she would give to any one that became her friend.may your rest in peace dear friend.

Donna Hermle

April 7, 2013

I remember this beautiful little girl with a giant bow in her hair. That was the night uou arrived at Nana's house with your family. You & your loved ones are in my prayers now & always.

Eluisa Infelise

April 7, 2013

So sorry for your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
The Infelise Family

Joe and Jo Pontore

April 7, 2013

Cathy,So sorry for your loss.

Tracey Bowers

April 7, 2013

Cathy and family,
May god grant you and your family the strength to get through this difficult time. I hope it brings you comfort knowing she is now a beautiful angel in heaven looking over you all.

Bowers/VanAlstyne family

Maria Madia Garcea

April 7, 2013

RIP Livia ,

Rest In Eternal Life. Watch over your family.

You will be missed.

Love you Maria and Family

Micky Jimenez

April 7, 2013

Dear Aldo, Cathy, Mimmo, Anthony & family,
We never lose the ones we love, for even though they're gone, within the hearts of those who care, their memory lingers on. Our families united on Aspen circle and soon became one huge "Familia!" We so enjoyed the parties and all the great fun when we got together! Liv would constantly go around asking her guests if they had enough to eat….When it was a guarantee that you would leave her parties at least 10 lbs heavier! She thrived on seeing everyone enjoying themselves! Her beautiful smile and laughter warm the hearts of those around her!
May the warmth and comfort of lovely memories someday take the place of the sadness you all feel now!
Until we meet again my dear friend! RIP!
With deepest Sympathy,
Micky Hdez Jimenez & fa.

Maria Madia Garcea

April 7, 2013

Romualdo, Mimmo, Cathy, Anthony and Family, please accept our sympathies and prayers for Livia and you all. I heard Livia suffered quite a long time. Know that she is done suffering here on earth and will be with you always in your hearts. She was a wonderful and loving woman.

I remember coming to Albany when we were all teenagers and the great times we all had. She sure will be missed by everyone friends and families. May God Bless you Livia. RIP. Love You.

Michael Reinhart-Marcucci

April 7, 2013

Mimmo,Anthony and Catherine so very sorry for your loss RIP Mrs Scalise..

christine colagiovanni

April 7, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Michael Frazier

April 7, 2013

Cathy, Mimmo, Anth...
My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time.
Your Mom was ALWAYS a welcomed sight. She had the smile that could and did light up a room. She will be greatly missed by many.
You have a beautiful angel watching over you now and forever.

Sandra (Granger) Catlin

April 7, 2013

It's been a long time since I saw Livia but I will never forget how kind she was and how much fun we all had when we worked together years ago! RIP Liv, you're an amazing woman! Cathy, and the rest of the family/friends, may God comfort you and help sustain you through this tremendous loss!

Micky Jimenez

April 7, 2013

"Come to me, all who are tired from carrying heavy loads, and I will give you rest."
May we all find comfort in knowing that our dear beloved suffers no more! A heartfelt sympathy to the entire family.
Love,
Micky Hdez Jimenez & Fa.

Shelley Lofrumento

April 7, 2013

To Liv's Family, I'm sorry I can't be there but know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Your family's kindness will never be forgotten. Sincerely, Shelley Lofrumento

Joe Rosch

April 7, 2013

Aldo and family
Very sad to hear this news

Howie/MaryLou Morris

April 7, 2013

Romualdo and Family... We are saddened to hear about the untimely passing of your wife and mother, Livia. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time of your loss.

nasca family

April 6, 2013

The Scalise Family
My heart goes out to you.

Steve Campito

April 6, 2013

Jim and Pino,
I'm so sorry to hear of Livia's passing. May she be in God's arms eternally.

Megan Viele

April 6, 2013

Mimmo,Kathy...andFamily I am very sorry....she is with u always....Megan viele.

April 6, 2013

From the minute I met Livia, she made me apart of her family. By becoming her friend, I gained an enomous extended family that I am so proud to be a part of. Liv's zest for life was incredible...She was first in line if you needed help ( or food ) and the last to leave your side in your time of need. Her love for her family and friends was the most important thing to her. She gave of herself constantly to anyone who needed it. These last years and especially these last 3 weeks, prove that you get what you give in life...Her family that never left her side ( not even for a minute ) and the countless friends who sat by her side, brought food, called daily to check on her and Romauldo and the kids, and kept her in their prayers, is a wonderful testament to her life...
No one could ask for a better friend...I will miss her forever and will forever be changed by her friendship.

RIP Livia, till we see each other again !

Love
Paula

Jennifer Natale

April 6, 2013

The Scalise Family
My heart goes out to you. Your mom was one of the nicest people on Ten Eyck. Always smiling. You are all in my prayers and thoughts

Teresa Bennett

April 6, 2013

RIP livia we will miss your smile and your presence

Amy

April 6, 2013

Cathy, You were her angel....and now she is yours. Love and prayers.

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