Ruby D. Vipler

Ruby D. Vipler

Ruby Vipler Obituary

Published by Taylor & Modeen Funeral Home on Aug. 29, 2017.
Ruby D. Vipler, of West Hartford, beloved wife of Ed Vipler, died Tuesday, August 29, 2017 at Hartford Hospital surrounded by her family. Born in Boston, MA, the daughter of Morris and Marion (Beigelman) Duby, she graduated from Boston University. After getting married she and Ed moved to Connecticut to start a family in Windsor Locks and later moved to West Hartford. Throughout her career, Ruby did many different things including working as a substitute teacher, tutor, and program director for Junior Achievement and the Girl Scouts. In retirement, she continued to work part-time as a food sampler in local stores. Ruby was an avid volunteer, serving for years with the Greater Hartford Open and the Bushnell Theater. She was also an active member of the West Hartford League of Women Voters. Ruby had a lifelong love of music and art. She sang with choirs and performed in many plays. She and Ed traveled extensively and enjoyed happy hour with their friends. Ruby especially loved time spent with her family and watching her grandchildren's games and performances. Besides Ed, Ruby leaves two daughters, Randi Hewitt, her husband Andrew and their children Travis and Olivia of South Windsor, and Nanci Stolgitis and her husband Mike and their children Ryan, Kevin, and Kendall of Manchester. She also leaves her sister and brother-in-law, Jeanne and Tom Rogers of Waltham, MA. At Ruby's request graveside services were held in private at Fairview Cemetery, West Hartford. She would like to thank everyone who called, visited and helped support her through her recent illnesses. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to the Bushnell Center for the Performing Arts. Taylor & Modeen Funeral Home, West Hartford has care of arrangements. For online condolences, please visit www.taylorandmodeen.com.

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October 24, 2017

Dear Ed,

I want to express my sincere condolence for the loss of Ruby. You two traveled with me, my 2 sisters and brother in laws in a group tour to Ireland. Thinking of you and your family.

Sincerely,
Beth Vendetta

Mary Barneby

September 7, 2017

On behalf of Girl Scouts of Connecticut, we offer our condolences for the passing of your loved one, who was a sister in Girl Scouting. We offer you our sincerest thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Mary Barneby, CEO

September 5, 2017

Dear Ed:

I am sorry for your loss of Ruby. I enjoyed working with Ruby at the Bushnell. She was always a delight to work with. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Diane McAdams (DMAC)

Dorothy Bernard

September 5, 2017

Sending lots of love and condolences to Ed, Randi, Nanci and families. I have wonderful memories of Ruby. She was always so much fun and had a zest for life. I'm sure she will be very missed. xoxo RIP, Ruby!

john&mary ann skala

September 4, 2017

Dear ED, we are so sorry for your loss. From our days in the jaycees to our reconnection as volunteers at the Bushnell it was always a pleasure to chat with you both. Ruby was always a classy glam gal. She will be missed. sincerely, John and Mary Ann

September 4, 2017

Deepest condolences to the family. I have known Ruby at different times of my life - when our children were young and again with The League of Women Voters.
I will remember Ruby as a "super" mom and a caring person for others and her community.
It was a privilege to have known her.
Pat George

Connie and Bob Houde

September 4, 2017

Dear Ed,

I was shocked to see Ruby's obituary. I had no idea that she was ill. It was aways a pleasure to see both of you at the grocery store. It was also a lot of fun over the years to work with both you at The Bushnell. Her dedication to her work was to be admired. I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Connie and Bob

Donna DeFant

September 4, 2017

Ruby was one of my very best friends since I was a a young kid. Ruby convinced my Dad to let me go to Enfield Stage Company when I was a young teenager and I got to do Ruby's ghost makeup for her in "Blithe Spirit" when she played Elvira.
Years later I got to play that same role in a Holyoke Community College Alumni Theater Production and dedicated my performance to my ELVIRA mentor - Ruby.
The day after she went to heaven to be with the angels, I dedicated my performance at The Players Centre for Performing Arts in Sarasota, FL. in THE CRUCIBLE to Ruby. I will miss her forever.

Lesley Hodas

September 4, 2017

My deepest condolesces to you and your families. She was a wonderful person and will be missed.

KELLEY

September 4, 2017

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BRING YOU A MEASURE OF COMFORT.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17

Lucy Hurston

September 3, 2017

We are so grateful for the memories we shared and the time we spent together. Ed, please know that Junior and I are here for you.
Lucy & Junior

Patti & Billy Cox

September 3, 2017

I will never forget Ruby!! I met her on a few occasions and she always had a gleam in her eye that she was very young at heart and ready to get up and go at a moments notice!! I remember one occasion very vividly, and it wasn't long before she got quite ill, that Bill and I were just finishing up our dinner at Fridays and lo and behold who walks in but Ruby and Ed who immediately sat at the bar and everyone behind the bar greeted them by name!!! It surprised me until I walked over to say hello to both of them and Ruby wanted us to join them and I realized it was 8 p.m. and it was way past the usual time we were back home from dinner and had to turn down the invitation to have a drink with them!! After telling Randi that I was surprised to see them going out sooooo late, lol.... she said that they were definitely regulars at Fridays and that was their usual place for a nite cap and snack before retiring for the evening!! I could only hope to have 1/2 the energy Ruby had right up till the end!!

Evelyn Nirenstein

September 3, 2017

Mr. Vipler,
I am so sorry to hear of your wife Ruby's passing.

May the fond memories you shared remain with you and your family always
(Niece of Joe and Mildred Tofolowsky)

Ronald Ferris

September 3, 2017

I have known Ruby since I was a young boy. So many wonderful memories. She touched so many lives in a positive way. My thoughts and prayers go out to all her family and friends.

Rich LaVoice

September 3, 2017

Ruby was one of the all time greats. As kids we knew no one as cool as Ruby. We adored her, we fought over who got to sleep over her house. We never wanted to leave. The world has lost a great person. My Condolences to Ed, Randi and Nanci.

Sandy Nesci

September 3, 2017

Ed, I'm so sorry for your loss. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

Don and Sally Wilson

September 3, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Ed, and your devoted family. May you find comfort in the many fond memories you and Ruby shared together and with your family. We love you dearly.

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