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2020

David Sandretti Obituary

SANDRETTI David James Sandretti David Sandretti, a skilled political and policy communications professional, passed away in Washington, DC on June 23, 2020. He was 59 years old. His life, too short, was filled with significant professional accomplishments, many meaningful friendships, a close-knit and loving family, much laughter, and goodwill toward all who had the good fortune to know him. He was a devoted husband to his wife, Nan Gibson, an economic policy and finance executive, and an enthusiastic and loving father to his 17 year old daughter Grace Sandretti, with whom he shared a love of baseball. He devoted much of his spare time to coaching Grace, whether she wanted him to or not, and being her biggest fan. He encouraged Grace to play little league baseball and by doing so, she was one of the few of her cohort to break the gender barrier and pave the way for an all-girl baseball team. For many years, he coached Grace's Cap City Little League team and became affectionately known by players and parents alike as Coach David. He had less advice about her riding competitions, but recorded every minute of them from blue ribbons to unplanned dismounts. He was a proud Maret volleyball Dad, even donning the traditional Tadpole costume for the Homecoming games, much to his daughter's chagrin. In a city known for sharp elbows and perfidy, David was loyal, honest, and kind. He navigated politics in Washington, DC with integrity and humility. He cherished and maintained countless friendships throughout his life and work in Washington, DC, Wisconsin, and California. He had a wide smile, a quick wit, and an infectious laugh that could light up any room. Those around him willingly gave in to his charm. His passion for progressive politics, baseball, music, the beach, cooking, gardening, travel, the Packers, and the Badgers were his lifeblood. He could craft a meal or a cocktail or a joke or an insight in equal, careful measure. For nearly three decades he was the proud owner of the Delaware Whack-a-Moles, a fantasy baseball team that was perennially in contention for its league pennant. He was a beloved neighbor and a regular presence with his canine companion, Domeno, in the neighborhood dog park. David was born on December 12, 1960 in Watertown, Wisconsin, the fourth of five siblings. He grew up milking cows and laboring on his family's dairy farms in Watertown and Iron Ridge. It was there that he absorbed the lessons of hard work, social justice, and family. He was an accomplished high school athlete playing baseball, basketball and football at Hartford Union High School in Wisconsin. He played baritone horn in the Hartford High band, including performing at Disney World for a bicentennial concert in 1976. He was also an actor, starring in several school plays and musicals. After high school, David tried out to be a catcher for the Milwaukee Brewers baseball team, but his childhood dream quickly evaporated in the face of competition from players who played year-round in warmer climates. He attended the University of Wisconsin, majoring in Political Science and International Relations. David moved to Washington, DC in 1985 after serving as a delegate from Wisconsin to the 1984 Democratic Convention. Over the course of his 15-year career in the U.S. Senate, David became a senior counselor and valued strategist to Senators Russ Feingold (D-WI), Barbara Boxer (D-CA), and Ron Wyden (D-OR). He also served as Communications Director for the U.S. Senate Committee on Environment and Public Works. Over the decade that he had the privilege to serve Sen. Boxer and the people of California, he forged lasting friendships with countless colleagues and worked on issues as diverse as the nation itself. He relished the opportunity to be a strong voice for women's rights, racial equity, broadly shared prosperity, and environmental protection. David was invited to join Sen. Boxer's singing group, Da Dems, which included various Senators, their spouses, and staff who could carry a tune. Equally notable was his indefatigable leadership of the office softball team in pursuit of the Washington summer ritual of settling political scores on the ball field. During the Obama Administration, David served as a public affairs counselor to Agriculture Secretary Tom Vilsack, including shaping the Forest Service public response to California wildfires and developing the award-winning Ad Council food safety campaign. He served the Obama administration all eight years, working to enhance economic opportunity and the quality of life for rural families, including expanded health care, housing, infrastructure, renewable energy, and sustainable farming. Early in his career, David was a consultant to labor unions, including United Steelworkers of America, United Auto Workers, AFSCME, Communications Workers of America, AFL-CIO, and 1199SEIU, the largest union of healthcare workers. He advised countless political candidates, some more successful than others. Throughout his life, he held fast to his Midwestern roots and always fought to level the playing field for working families. David was a full and active participant in our democracy and lived the American dream. His wish was that this would be the experience for everyone throughout our country and all who come to our shores in search of a better life. He will be missed by all, but especially so by Nan, Grace, Domeno, his three brothers, Timothy, Joseph and Jeremy, and his sister, Maryanne. Tributes included: Senator Ron Wyden: "Our hearts are heavy over the loss of the indelible David Sandretti. In politics, you often encounter either very capable people or very nice people - in David, you got both. You always looked forward to seeing David because his creativity and drive were matched by his laughter and huge heart." Former Senator Barbara Boxer: "For ten years, our Washington Senate office was blessed to have David as part of our team. David always had a smile, an insight and a clear view of how to make our country better." Former Senator Russ Feingold: "I'll remember David for his kind demeanor and steady Wisconsin spirit. David was generous with his skills as an honest communicator. His deep commitment to important and worthwhile causes and love of politics was undeniable." Former Secretary of Agriculture Tom Vilsack: "David's loyalty to his Wisconsin heritage, his Packers football team, his political party and his work at USDA underscored his deep sense of connection, caring and down to earth goodness." A private memorial service will be held. Please consider a gift to the Maret School in memory of David Sandretti to support financial aid. https://www.maret.org/support-maret/annual-fund/giveA">www.maret.org/support-maret/annual-fund/giveA private memorial service will be held. Please consider a gift to the Maret School in memory of David Sandretti to support financial aid. https://www.maret.org/support-maret/annual-fund/give

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Published by The Washington Post on Jul. 20, 2020.

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Kathleen Erville

July 23, 2020

My heart goes out to Nan and the Sandretti family - I was so sad to learn that he is no longer with us. I have nothing but fine remembrances of knowing David. He was such a fine human being ~ So accomplished in his chosen field, with the light, happy touch we all aspire to. I was happy to know him first in the 1980s when I had a share in a beach house he belonged to - filled with late-night Scrabble events and the feasts the group created at the end of a lazy, fun beach day. I saw this pyramid photo on my Facebook page posted by someone else and the memories rushed back. Later I watched him in action as a fellow Senate Press Secretary, and his gifts were always on full display. My deepest sympathies and condolences on your loss.

Adela Ramos

July 22, 2020

David was a light...a friend...a colleague. We worked together at USDA. I loved his operative ideas, his gift for communicating, but most of all his friendship. The news of his passing has shaken me. My thoughts are with Nan and Grace. He always called you Gracie; he adored you both. I wish you nothing but comfort and love during this very difficult time. May your wonderful memories keep your hearts full.

A couple of days before his passing, he was on my mind as I found a mixtape CD he made for my baby shower. He loved music and it was a cool and thoughtful gift. I am sharing a photo of him and Francisco when I went to visit USDA during my leave. He was just tickled to hold him. I will always remember his joy for life, his sense of humor, and his kindness.

Miss you, friend.

Ted Jonas

July 22, 2020

A beautiful tribute to my friend David Sandretti. Love you, David, and my love and condolences- what an inadequate word - to you Nan and Grace, and David’s amazing family of Sandrettis and Madisons. I’ll leave this here - Ted Jonas (and Nino Tsiskaridze)

Tommy Miller

July 21, 2020

Miller familia sympathies especially Grace and Nan. Also heavy heart for Maryanne, Joe and Big Al. I hung with David early DC years. He introduced me to rap music and Fine Young Cannibals. A true giver in a too often takers world. Righteous dude who rose to Big Leagues. Safe journey my friend and fellow Feingold operative.

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Lisa Mensah

July 20, 2020

It is hard to believe that this joyous caring soul is not with us. I worked with David as he led the communications function for Rural Development at USDA. I came to treasure David as we traveled together and shared a passion for what is possible in this country. In a recent email he said--" I still have faith that we shall overcome." David leaves us with the unfinished work of overcoming. We must press on. I join so many who will miss his laughter and his positive faith that our journey is so worth it. So many condolences to his family and thanks for sharing him with us all.
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Kevin Concannon

July 20, 2020

Always smiling, and a reliable supporter across many mission areas within USDA , Dave highly regarded as a great colleague and effective contributor . Sorry to learn of his passing . Thoughts and prayers to his family .

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Elisabeth Hagen

July 20, 2020

David was our communications director in USDA's Office of Food Safety. He was a true friend for the last 10 years. I was so lucky to work with him during my first year as a political appointee. He was a gifted communicator who helped me say what was in my head and my heart, and connect policy decisions to real people. During countless hours in the office and on the road, and in later years over catch up lunches, we talked a lot about ideas and strategies, but also about food and wine, music and baseball. And we talked about family. Always about family. Gracie and Nan were his world, and his face changed when he spoke their names and told of their latest adventures. My heart breaks for them each time I think of David and try to process that he is gone. Forever grateful to have known him and learned from him-
--Elisabeth Hagen

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