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STEPHEN MACZYNSKI Obituary

MACZYNSKI Stephen Andrew Maczynski Died September 23, 2020, from cardiac arrest complicated by amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS). He is survived by his husband of 38 years, Edward Nolin; his father, Edward J. Maczynski, Sr. of Wilmington, DE; his brothers, Edward Jr. and Joseph; and his dear in-laws, as well as numerous nephews and nieces. Steve was born in the Little Italy section of Wilmington, Delaware, on March 11, 1959, to the former Louise Della Fera and Edward Maczynski. He attended Catholic schools and went on to Georgetown University, where he earned a Bachelor of Arts degree and Master of Arts degree with distinction from the School of Foreign Service. Intending to pursue a career in diplomacy, Steve started out at the Securities and Exchange Commission but soon left to take a temporary position teaching history at St. Mary's Catholic School in Old Town Alexandria, VA. It was there Steve found his life's calling, commencing what would evolve into a 36-year career in education. In 1990, Steve was hired to teach in the Social Studies department at Georgetown Preparatory School in Bethesda, MD. He quickly earned a reputation as a passionate and engaging teacher whom the students revered, nicknaming him "Mazz" and "Coach" for his commitment to helping young people of all abilities succeed. Over the course of 16 years, Steve taught World History, U.S. Government, and Advanced Placement Government & Politics. He also led Prep's Speech and Debate, Model OAS, and Model UN clubs with a contagious and unmatched competitive enthusiasm. He percolated coffee for his first-period seniors, spearheaded raucous mock political conventions, and inspired students into fiery debates on free speech. Steve was such a gifted high school teacher because he understood teenagers-in part because he was irrepressibly young at heart himself. He knew the best way to encourage learning was to entertain students with his earthy, irreverent humor while engaging their minds as adults. Over the years, Prep students flocked to sign up for "Mazz's" classes; many found, in those classes, the interests they would go on to pursue in college and their careers. Inspired by Mr. Maczynski, Georgetown Prep students have gone on to become political leaders, diplomats, and teachers. In the early 2000s, while continuing to teach full-time and manage clubs at Prep, Steve earned a Master's of Education from George Mason University and a Master's in Counseling from George Washington University. He became a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and in 2006 launched a part-time private practice, Project Safe, in partnership with his former GW classmate and friend, Gayle Alexander. Over the next nearly 15 years, the team worked tirelessly to protect and empower young people who struggle with emotional and academic challenges. Ever the teacher, Steve supported his clients with compassion, creativity, commitment-and his characteristic boundless enthusiasm. In 2006, Steve left Georgetown Prep to become Director of Counseling at Westfield High School, a comprehensive public high school in Union County, New Jersey. Determined to maintain his DC-area counseling practice, he commuted between New Jersey and Virginia for two years. In 2008, Steve left Westfield to return home to Virginia, where he became Co-Director of College Counseling at the Stone Ridge School of the Sacred Heart in Bethesda, MD. Four years later, he was appointed Director of Guidance and Student Services at Commonwealth Academy in Alexandria, VA. In 2016, Steve returned to the learning community he had always loved: Georgetown Prep School, where he served as Dean of College Counseling and Academic Support Services until 2020. Steve was generous, warm-hearted-and a tenacious advocate. His clients and students alike knew that he believed in them and would go to any lengths to help them thrive. His presence was large and joyful; he had a charismatic personality and a boisterous laugh. Steve lit up any space he entered, and his expressions of love were abundantly felt by colleagues, friends, and family. A rare and selfless man, he knew how to make each person he interacted with the center of his attention. As recently as the night before he passed, Steve was still counseling clients. Steve's family wants to express gratitude for the loving support of his legions of friends, colleagues, students, and former students. Most especially, they appreciate his medical team at Johns Hopkins Hospital, who showed Steve the same tireless devotion to his wellbeing that he had shown to others all his life. They ask that any tributes to Steve be made as donations in his name to the ALS Society. No service will be held at this time; a memorial is planned for March, 2021.Steve's family wants to express gratitude for the loving support of his legions of friends, colleagues, students, and former students. Most especially, they appreciate his medical team at Johns Hopkins Hospital, who showed Steve the same tireless devotion to his wellbeing that he had shown to others all his life. They ask that any tributes to Steve be made as donations in his name to the ALS Society. No service will be held at this time; a memorial is planned for March, 2021.

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Published by The Washington Post on Oct. 1, 2020.

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Nathalie Russell

February 24, 2025

I cherish the times we spent together: Bagels and the Sunday Washington Post, Wine and cheese picnics in the Gardens at Dumbarton Oaks, listening to All Things Considered on cold winter days in front of a warm fire, and sitting through our advanced Portuguese classes at GU and passing notes! Rest in peace Steve, you were loved.

Michael Hickey GP '94 - Section 1

December 22, 2022

Coach - You are loved and missed. Thank you for caring and bringing out the best in all of your students. I think about you all the time. Thank you. Merry Christmas.

Alistair Watson

February 21, 2022

I was a patient of Steve in 2017. I had OCD and was struggling with my emotions and school. Steve made me calm with his friendly demeanor, comfy office, and generosity to hand out tasty food. Every time I was worried what I would say would make him cringe he would listen with his contagious smile on his face. He was rare because he knew how to act with people who were feeling small and insignificant like myself. I left always feeling 10 times better about myself.

Steve was always always so well connected, when I told him my favorite soccer player was Neymar. He of course had a photo of Neymar on his phone which I've posted below. To this day this is the closest I've ever gotten to Neymar.

Meghana Pai

June 18, 2021

I found out about Mr. Maczynski's passing this month when I got back from college wanting to text him so I can stop by and say hi because we can finally see people again. He has been a big support to my sister and me (and honestly my whole family). He has been there as a great college counselor at Stone Ridge and a private college counselor. He also helped my sister transfer colleges while she was going through health problems and was a great friend and confidante to me and my family. He helped us through a lot of tough spots and I am so honored to have had met him and known him. He was an amazing, giving, and incredible person and I am sending all good thoughts to anyone who has been touched by his soul and is mourning his presence.

Dan Hernandez

April 24, 2021

Great teacher, he earned my respect, and admiration, and inspired me to learn... every single class. Wish there were more like him.

Rachel Pruitt

February 5, 2021

Steve Maczynski was an amazing person! I just found out today about his passing and I am at a loss for words. He was a counselor to my two sons. We were going through a very difficult time, and Steve supported them for many years. He was a positive influence in their lives that is with them today. My sons are both adults now and to this day they remember how empathetic he was. He would even take time outside of his work schedule to support us. He was such a giving person and we are thankful he pursued his passion because he helped so many. We will never forget Mr. Steve and the impact he has made on not only our lives but others as well. The world has lost an angel but heaven has him now and we will miss him dearly. Sending our deepest condolences to his friends and family.

Lori Tanner

November 6, 2020

When I think of high school, I think of Steve - my buddy, my favorite dance partner, my date to my first formal dance, my arch rival once college took him to DC and me to Villanova, my confidante, my dear, dear friend. I always thought we would meet again over coffee and the conversation would pick up right where we left it in the early eighties but it was not meant to be. My heartfelt condolences are offered to Steve's husband, father, and brothers. He was a treasure!

Drew Berdo

October 20, 2020

Just learned of Steve's passing today. I find this to be tragic. While we had been out of touch for a few years, he was an incredibly influential figure in my teenage years and helped me get through some serious times of pain and uncertainty. While always incredibly intelligent and overtly passionate about his work, I never knew the scope of his accomplishments outside of my time working with him. I wish his husband and the rest of his family and loved ones the best. A true loss.

Carter Evans

October 13, 2020

Mr. Maczynski was my government teacher at Georgetown Prep 26 years ago. He was a great teacher and I loved going to his class. I can still remember how excited he got talking about government. He was well respected and he will be missed!

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Rachel Kirschner

October 12, 2020

Steve was, and is a gift to humanity, and to everyone lucky enough to know him.

So many lives were changed because of Steve, and he is in the lives of all of us. I know my son would be a different kid had he not met Steve, in that sense, there is a little bit of Steve in my kid.

Steve will always live in our hearts, and our minds.

Lynn Vendinello

October 9, 2020

Stephen played such an important role in my sons life as he struggled thru his teenage years. He was always there for us any day any time anywhere. I feel for his family and partner and all like us whose lives he touched.

Rich Cooper

October 7, 2020

Steve's care and counseling for two of my children were unmeasurable blessings to them and our family. He had many superpowers but the one that was his most powerful strength was ability to CARE for others. His empathy and attention to all of those situations were tremendous. His life made a difference and that made the world a better place for so many children. Our condolences to his family and friends.

Peggy Prevost

October 7, 2020

I just learned about Steve's passing today. I am deeply saddened. Steve and I were colleagues-or I should say he helped me a lot as a school counselor and setting up my own practice. After reading this obit I am not sure how he did it all. But there was never a time he did not answer a question or call me back when I needed help. A tremendous human being and I am very blessed to have know him. My deep condolences to his family and friends.

Jeff Viscount

October 7, 2020

I have not seen Stephen since my college years. I knew him through his older brother Ed with whom I attended Salesianum High School and best friends through those years. His father and mother and younger brother Joe and extended family were always a kind, friendly and welcoming group making there home a fun and comfortable place to spend be. Remembering Steve as the smart one as he always excelled academically. It Was obvious then that he was gifted to do something great In his life , and reading through the many condolences it appears he excelled in what he loved. Heartfelt thoughts and prayers to the Maczynski family and those who loved him

Jonas Neihardt

October 6, 2020

Stephen was one of the kind of people that restore your faith in humanity. He helped me learn how to appreciate myself and conquer the manufactured side of me that was destructive. He did this all the while being a true friend, and no matter the circumstance, I always left his office after a session feeling happier and with another part of me thought lost reclaimed. He will forever be in my heart and mind as I will use the lessons and tools he’s taught me as I continue through life.

Angela DeLillio Galper

October 5, 2020

Just learned of Stephen’s illness and his passing. Seeing him a few years ago with all our cousins was such a joy.

Sam Brown

October 3, 2020

This guy really helped me out during some of this toughest times in my life, and I’m just incredibly saddened to see him go.

Debra Rog

October 3, 2020

There are no words to convey all that Steve meant to us. I was referred to Steve at a difficult time in my son’s life and he stuck with and supported us through 7 years of difficult adolescent times. His belief in my son was palpable and he did all he could to empower him and help him see the strengths in himself, clouded by the insecurities of poor school performance, bullying, and emotional challenges. He always seemed to have time for us, despite having such an incredibly busy schedule. I said multiple times, I am not sure either of us could have made it through these times without Steve. I told him numerous times how much he meant to us; I only wished he could now see the strong young man he had so much role shaping. We mourn his loss for ourselves, but the world in general. There are too few people that have the warmth, empathy, and skills to help others. His light will shine on for us in our memories of him.

Julie B.

October 3, 2020

Steve meant so much to my son and also to me. He came into our lives during a really rough time in my son’s life and helped us tremendously. I’m praying for his family as this is a huge loss! I will always be grateful to him and we will miss him always!

Richard and Eleanor Seline

October 3, 2020

One if the finest and truest gentlemen I have ever known. His guidance for our son and for us parents was profound and impactful. May his name be for a blessing and may the angels be gentle with his soul. We are blessed to have been in his presence.

Tom and Brenda Nolin

October 3, 2020

We were saddened to hear of the sudden passing of our Brother-In- Law, Stephen. There wasn't a family gathering that he did not make us laugh. He was a joy to have around. Stephen always had a lending ear to listen to what ever you wanted to talk about. We we miss him dearly. Our hearts go out to his husband and our brother, Edward. We love you.
Tom and Brenda

Seth

October 2, 2020

I will always miss his smile, laugh, and the times that we spent laughing together. Rest in peace Stephen

Bernadette Gilson

October 2, 2020

Howard and I are heartbroken and send so much love as we relive the memories of some of the best times we had with Steve and Ed. Sending so much love.

Linsey Hanna

October 1, 2020

I am sending much love to Jeff & Ryan for the heart-breaking loss of their Uncle Steve. Never is it a good time to say goodbye to a close family member, but this moment in time presents epic challenges and grief.

Love, Peace & Healing,
Linsey

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