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Jera Verne  
Jera May Prendergast Verne, renaissance woman living in Alexandria, Virginia, passed away on April 10, 2019 at the age of 75. In the end, it was massive smoke inhalation during a house fire, coupled with a progressive lung disease, that took her life. But before then, it was with spirit, kindness, and and a bottomless well of love for friends and family that she lived it.  Born in Nyack, NY in 1943, Jera wanted nothing more than to create a loving home to counter the tumultuous one of her childhood. She met her husband Peter of 53 years on the beach in Montauk at the age of 15, and married him at 21. Together they raised two boys; living first in Connecticut, then Maryland in 1972. Eventually, with their sons grown and out of the house, Jera and Peter moved to Old Town in 1999. Throughout her life, Jera's interests resulted in a diverse employment history; telephone operator, stewardess, calligrapher, stencil artist, fitness instructor, interior designer, Smithsonian-trained faux finisher, real estate agent, and makeup artist to name a few.  Beyond her work, Jera loved to travel with her family to the beaches of Nantucket, the mountains of Colorado, the small towns of Ireland, and the streets of Paris, making friends wherever she went. She was also a wonderful, self-taught cook, as many who have tasted her food, especially her pasta sauce, can attest to. She loved to have dinners with friends, go dancing, be silly for no reason, sing while doing anything, and would strike up a conversation with pretty much anyone. She always gave strangers the benefit of the doubt, and would open her home to someone she just met; her empathy knew no bounds. But even with all her interests and passions, if you asked her to describe herself, she would say simply wife and mother. To her, those were the most important things in the world.  She is survived by her husband Peter, her sons Peter and Jeremy and their families, and her sister Kappi, who will agree that of all that she did in her life, wife and mother were what she did best. May she rest in peace. Memorial arrangements will be announced separately.

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Published by The Washington Post on May 12, 2019.

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Tony Todd

January 11, 2021

I by chance just learned of Jera's passing. It has been years and years since we knew one another, but I remember her very well. Indeed Jera
was sweet, kind and so much more. Though decades have passed I occasionally have thought of not only Jera, but also Kappi and their dad
too. . In 1966 I remember an evening where all of us sang song into the wee hours of the morning. Jera's Dad, knowing my interest in politics (even though a Democrat) arranged a meeting for me with
Pat Bucannan and Richard Nixon leading to a job offer from RMN.
Had I taken that offer I well could have ended on as part of
Watergate. Pete, I remember you as being a proctor for new New York residents each taking their life insurance exams. There you were as I was taking this exam. Small world indeed.
I want to tell you all how very sorry I am now learning about Jera.
We have memories which now must carry us forward. We are each better for knowing Jera Tony Todd

Kathi Prendergast Heiling

May 23, 2019

As a child, Jera was always so kind to me and I was in awe of the picture of her in her flight attendant uniform! As adults, I so enjoyed every minute spent with Jera and Pete, both during visits and during our long phone conversations! I will miss my cousin very much and my world will not be the same without her in it.

Phyllis & Bruce Schweizer

May 16, 2019

In memory of a life so beautifully lived...a heart so deeply loved.
With our love and deepest sympathy as we remember Jera.

Peggy and Rick Handelsman

May 13, 2019

Sweet sweet Jera
So sorry that you have had to go through so much in your life. You are at peace and it helps to know you are in Heaven! Love you xo

JoAnne Sava

May 13, 2019

Hi Jera, I know you are at peace and "flying around" in your new home. We are all heartbroken though to have to say "so long" to you too soon. We will take care of Kappi for you. I will miss our talks and your constant and sincere concern for everything around you. You have an amazing family, and Pete is doing much better. God bless and have fun!! love you

Ed Meyers

May 13, 2019

I can remember when Jera would bring her sister to our Trustees meetings. They would dance and be full of love and laughter. Peter and Jera touched many people with their genuine friendship. My deepest sympathy to the family, the gates of heaven were opened adding a new angel that will continue her journey of spreading love and laughter.

Mariel York

May 12, 2019

God gave us an angel and then God wanted Jera with Him in Heaven.†

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